Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/47f6mBu Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:00 - #1: Find your fire 2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle 3:10 - #3: Decide your core values 4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino 7:09 - #5: Self acceptance Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-FearOfRejection Video of Sam asking out 100 women to get over his fear of rejection: https://youtu.be/mC34TSXNKiY?si=7V2QT4JSu3Hxu-sd Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction. So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection. That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression 1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional 2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game 2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation 3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you 5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match 5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-Friendships Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem. Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are. So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People 0:42 - Proximity 1:06 - Join A Flock 1:41 - Become A Beacon 2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations 2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends 2:40 - Focus On The Process 3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests 4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class 4:36 - A Shared North Star 6:04 - Being A Lifeline 7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability 9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades 9:37 - Constructive Conflict 11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule 12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy 13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change 15:02 - Do you want great new friendships? How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life: https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_ How To Make A Great Impression: https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZC Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCBradPitt Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert. We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language - Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact. - A Duchenne Smile. - Speaking Through A Smile. - Expansive Gestures. 1:34 - #2: Capture attention - A Pre-Story Laugh. - A One Line Hook. 2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you - Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke. - Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment. - Be Universally Kind. - Playful Teasing. 6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #BradPitt -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Subscribe to get more videos like this: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This video is about how to be happier for the rest of your life, starting today. We’re going to cover 3 common mindsets that lead to unhappiness. Most people don’t even realize they have these mindsets, or if they do, they don’t know how to stop them. We’ll also discuss some lessons from Stoicism so that you can feel more joy every day. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Unmet desire 4:12 - #2: Isolated upward comparison 7:26 - #3: Expectations -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Stoicism #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Links: “You Are Living The Dream Life” meditation: https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/CO6B78897 Waking Up app free trial: https://www.wakingup.com/jayshetty Invisible People: https://www.youtube.com/@InvisiblePeople Special Books By Special Kids: https://www.youtube.com/@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids Breathwork for internally generated peace and joy: https://youtu.be/hzwVp7W-ghM?si=SBpSlg1SGCJNBmpn Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ More Celebrities On Being Rich But Unhappy: https://youtu.be/0N19fJbA6GQ?si=jxW_pdLLPabefakR https://youtu.be/6Fvmq638E3Y?si=q71eMer9csvRbEGE https://youtu.be/KqtRTc3VYq4?si=jeHrLMenMrjlIhau https://youtu.be/WrkT079iRYU?si=oVW1zJzop0p12FQO https://youtu.be/1ebEIhS0Zms?si=pKULiWHkQBqOGF_v https://youtu.be/6RcrnuZg_Z4?si=cWR554On8WzNUlEF https://youtu.be/Xn9olk63hVE?si=u3og8q_PWrN-nnWH https://youtu.be/IHJSWDSlie8?si=22tRnla-xdVpC445 https://youtu.be/Zz5DHufWlCM?si=TGYXIF_PTtb1T9zD https://youtu.be/OmWrqelCAJA?si=6Tg45Jum7sJl8G8u Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Animation: https://zeino.tv/ Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-ZeinoCharismaMistakes Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Scanning the room 0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you 1:13 - #3: Trapping 1:37 - #4: Communicating shame 2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Zeino -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-7TricksPersuasion Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’ll learn the art of persuasion. Specifically, 7 powerful principles that influence everyone’s decision making. Including your own. You’ll learn ethical ways you can apply these principles, AND just by being aware of them, you’ll now notice when someone uses them on you. I want to credit Robert Cialdini’s book Influence for first teaching me these. If you find today’s video interesting, you’ll definitely enjoy his book. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Social proof 2:38 - #2: Scarcity 4:41 - #3: Consistency 6:27 - #4: Reciprocity 8:11 - #5: Authority 9:53 - #6: Liking 10:15 - #7: Risk Mitigation 10:59 - Only persuade for genuine good. Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-6Jokes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’ll learn 6 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Play dumb 1:28 - #2: A sincerity fakeout 2:14 - #3: The 3 point list 3:07 - #4: Exaggerate so much it's impossible to take you seriously 4:26 - #5: Elevate the other person 5:39 - #6: Self deprecating humor 8:03 - Learn how to form connections with anyone -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-CharismaMistakes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - #1: Bully banter 1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes 2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy 4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions 5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone 7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #AndrewSchulz #Fullsendpodcast -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCEmilyBlunt Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, we’ll go over 8 conversational habits that make people love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:04 - #1: The false completion technique 1:40 - #2: Accept bids for connection 2:53 - #3: Add a touch during conversational high points 3:56 - #4: Friendly teasing 5:17 - #5: Act out your characters 6:14 - #6: Pause when you hear laughter 6:42 - #7: Take a 3 second punchline pause 7:17 - #8: Have go-to stories ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #EmilyBlunt #CillianMurphy #Oppenheimer ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 16,500 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCRyanGosling Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video you’ll learn 6 habits that will make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Ryan Gosling. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Have fun 0:21 - Absurd analogies 1:09 - The mind's eye method 1:37 - Deadpan humor 2:52 - The fake walkoff 3:24 - #2: Tell funny embarrassing stories 3:58 - Emphasize you're aware it was embarrassing 4:59 - Call attention to your awkward moments 5:51 - #3: Create authenticity 6:36 - Compliment authenticity when you see it 7:10 - #4: Make people feel good around you 7:22 - Show that you like who they are 8:06 - Combine the compliment with a joke 8:58 - #5: Be playfully humble 10:05 - #6: Self validation 11:26 - How can you gain unshakable confidence? 12:15 - The quickest way to build confidence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanGosling -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

There are dangerous people in this world who will try to manipulate and control you. One tool they’ll use is gaslighting, a form of emotional abuse that makes you doubt your own reality. This lets them get away with things that most people wouldn’t tolerate in a relationship. So today you’ll learn 8 signs someone might be gaslighting you. One important thing to remember, gaslighting is a pattern. Especially with some of the more subtle signs from later in the video, seeing them once doesn’t necessarily mean you’re being gaslit. But be wary if you see these signs repeatedly. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: They attack your sanity 0:53 - #2: They rewrite the past 2:09 - #3: They minimize bad behavior 3:01 - #4: They normalize bad behavior 3:40 - #5: They use empathy hijacking 4:35 - #6: They regularly deflect blame onto you 5:59 - #7: They project their negative qualities onto you 6:53 - #8: They make your emotional reaction the problem -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #gaslighting #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoC-Insults2023 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you. We’ll start with a few comebacks that are great at winning over a crowd and embarrassing the person who insulted you. The downside is they can make the target of your comeback hate you. Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:15 - #1: Use an Aikido insult 0:42 - #2: Point out they're easy to dislike 1:24 - #3: Use a Trojan Horse compliment 1:52 - #4: Genuinely compliment the insult 2:20 - #5: Assume positive intent 3:13 - #6: Agree and exaggerate 4:24 - #7: Be non-reactive 4:33 - #8: Call out their behavior 5:41 - #9: Just walk away 6:06 - #10: Draw a boundary -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-4Horsemen Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Dr. John Gottman has developed a model that can watch you talk to your partner and then predict with 90% accuracy if your relationship will end. He does this mostly by looking for four common communication mistakes. So today we’ll go over each one AND the four antidotes that can save your relationship if you or your partner have these bad habits. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Criticism. 3:04 - #2: Contempt. 6:13 - #3: Defensiveness. 8:08 - #4: Stonewalling. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU-JackHarlow Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation 1:59 - #2: Assume good intent 3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method 5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie 6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection 6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JackHarlow #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 16,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CU5CharismaTypes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There are 5 personality types that people obsess over. And if you discover which one best matches your unique individual personality, you will be able to tap into the most confident and charismatic version of yourself. But you have to be aware that each type comes with a common pitfall that can wind up pushing people away. So in this video you’ll find the type that best suits you AND learn exactly what pitfalls you need to avoid. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: The funny type 2:02 - #2: The energetic type 3:36 - #3: The empathetic type 4:59 - #4: The self-assured type 6:14 - #5: The authentic type -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CUPedroPascal Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video you’ll learn 8 habits that make people love being around you. With examples from a celebrity that seems almost universally loved: Pedro Pascal. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Endearing embarrassment 0:59 - #2: Play laugh tag 1:54 - #3: Speak in hyperbole 2:40 - #4: The fake narcissist joke 3:47 - #5: Say this out loud 4:10 - #6: Pass the conversational spotlight 5:01 - #7: Use a hook that builds curiousity 5:54 - #8: Use go to stories -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PedroPascal #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Check out our new show, Improv & Dragons: https://bit.ly/ImprovAndDragons Click here to level up your charisma: https://bit.ly/CUBrennanLee Improv comedians have some of the fastest wit. Getting to that speed is tough, but you can implement just a few basic habits to make people think you’re much wittier in normal conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:36 - #1: Purposely misinterpret 2:31 - #2: Create improv scenes 5:47 - #3: Lower your filter -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrennanLeeMulligan #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CUChrisPine Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people mistakenly think that to be charismatic you have to be loud and energetic all the time, but that isn’t true. So today you’ll learn 7 tricks to be charismatic and make a great first impression even if you’re quiet. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Chris Pine, since he’s both soft spoken and incredibly likable. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:13 - #1: Active speaking 1:14 - #2: Smile with your eyes & speak through a smile 2:21 - #3: Take advantage of first minute bias 3:17 - #4: Be a likable listener who laughs easily 4:30 - #5: Show your genuine emotional reaction 5:18 - #6: Ask energizing questions 6:10 - #7: Raise your voice to recapture attention -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ChrisPine #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/AnxietyOverthinking Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video you’ll learn 5 techniques to immediately reduce anxiety and stop overthinking. Then we’ll cover 5 mindset shifts that let you instantly feel more confident. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:08 - Technique #1: Use your body 0:43 - Technique #2: Use breathing techniques 1:32 - Technique #3: The Snap Method 2:24 - Technique #4: Gratitude Anchoring 4:19 - Technique #5: Own it with a smile 5:00 - Mindset #1: Accept your anxiety 6:30 - Mindset #2: Shift from an outcome mindset to a process mindset 7:20 - Mindset #3: Be willing to polarize 7:48 - Mindset #4: Reframe the situation 8:26 - Mindset #5: Focus on getting options -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCShelby2023 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Tommy Shelby is stone cold confident and seemingly fearless. So in this video we're going to break down what you can learn from him to be confident in high pressure situations in your own life.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:18 - #1: Don't overreact in situations of extreme pressure 1:13 - Exposure therapy 1:51 - #2: Use state breaking questions 3:57 - #3: Align your needs with the other person's 4:25 - #4: View the world from their perspective 5:54 - #5: Give both the carrot and the stick 7:42 - #6: Turn trash into resources 9:19 - Ask yourself this question 9:30 - How do I build social power quickly? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TommyShelby #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCLowStatusHabits Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video we’re going to show you 6 unattractive habits that instantly make it look like you lack confidence. And what you can do instead to command more respect in your conversations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:07 - #1: Avoidant body language 1:31 - #2: Talking tentatively 3:40 - #3: Asking first instinct questions 4:50 - #4: Retreating after a miss 6:30 - #5: Injecting an unnecessary brag into conversation 7:56 - #6: Prioritizing being agreeable over being true to yourself -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCLoganNarcissism Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Narcissistic and manipulative behavior can wind up destroying your life, and it can be tough to spot, especially when it’s coming from someone you trust. So in this video you’ll learn 5 red flags that you’re being narcissistically manipulated. You can also use these as signs that you’ve slipped into narcissistic tendencies yourself, so you can cut them out before damaging your relationships. We’ll be using Logan Paul’s reaction to Coffeezilla calling out his cryptozoo project for examples. Links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-fugWMBwCg&t=1s&ab_channel=Coffeezilla https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Evs2Hcn3nMY&ab_channel=IMPAULSIVE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viiuS8bOuGE ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:50 - Red Flag 1: Morphing critisism. 2:15 - Red Flag 2: Spending more time on their feelings than yours. 4:17 - Red Flag 3: Repeatedly insisting on having good intentions. 5:20 - Red Flag 4: Projecting badness onto those poking at their self-image. 6:14 - Red Flag 5: Narcissistic rage. 7:08 - Final Point: Narcissism is not excessive self-love. It’s a lack of self-love. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LoganPaul #Coffeezilla #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 15,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCGervaisReynolds Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, we’ll break down some jokes from Ryan Reynolds and Ricky Gervais so you can learn how to make people laugh and love being around you.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:22 - #1: The Sincerity Fakeout 1:44 - #2: Say the opposite 2:06 - #3: Use an absurd answer 2:49 - #4: Create a ridiculous mental image 5:58 - #5: Tease something that's unlikely an insecurity -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RickyGervais #RyanReynolds #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCCharismaMistakes Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video we’re going to show you 7 bad charisma habits that will consistently make people dislike you. By becoming aware of these mistakes, you can hopefully avoid making them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:08 - #1: Vulnerability Dropping 0:55 - #2: Conversational Narcissism 2:14 - #3: Question Cutting 3:17 - #4: Trampling Boundaries 5:22 - #5: Teasing Sensitive Topics 6:42 - #6: Giving Unsolicited Advice 7:42 - #7: Instant Aggression -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCSmallTalk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all been stuck in an awkward conversation that feels forced or boring. You want the person to like you, but you have no idea what to say.  So in today’s video, we’ll go over five habits that instantly make conversation more fun and help you connect with anyone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:11 - #1: Set a playful tone early in the interaction 2:31 - #2: Give a genuine friendly compliment 4:25 - #3: Share your imperfections (without shame) 5:42 - #4: Ask open-ended questions 6:37 - #5: Be a likeable listener -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Ye has been doing interviews recently, and they have not all gone well :-) It’s not uncommon for someone to get frustrated in a disagreement.  What’s rare is for you to argue with someone and have them walk away liking you MORE afterwards. But that’s exactly what happened in a conversation between Ye and Lex Friedman. So in today’s video, we’ll break down that conversation to show you 8 tips to change someone’s mind AND have them love you for it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:25 - First Mistake: Transitioning away from a topic without first listening 0:55 - Second Mistake: Cutting someone off 1:22 - #1: Listen deeply and make the other person feel heard 2:25 - #2: Use a calm, slow voice 4:00 - #3: Criticize specific behavior 4:48 - #4: When you agree on something, tell them 5:39 - #5: Express empathy 6:23 - #6: Be vulnerable when you feel a negative emotion 7:29 - #7: Accept playful breaks 8:18 - #8: Give them a reputation they like and want to live up to 10:35 - Help us make the world a better place -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Ye #kanyewest #lexfridman #charismaoncommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UCIrpg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:28 - Force 1:00 - Manipulation 3:44 - True power 4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth 5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better 6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent 6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests 7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests 10:41 - How to build social power quickly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HouseOfTheDragon #DaemonTargaryen #ViserysTargaryen -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Get "How To Win Friends And Influence People" from Audible today! New members can try it free for 30 days. Visit https://audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500-500. Check out Logan: https://www.youtube.com/c/ObserveWithLogan Join Over 14000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3SS8vvz Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We've all accidentally blown it in a conversation that we really wanted to go well. But that doesn't mean there wasn't potential for a good connection. Sometimes it just means you two talked about the wrong things :-) Luckily, if you learn to detect the subtle signs of dislike EARLY in a conversation, you can change topics and potentially save the relationship. Today’s video was a collab with body language expert Logan from the YouTube channel Observe. Thanks Logan for helping spot these 8 subtle signs that someone dislikes a conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Their feet point away from you 0:37 - #2: They cross their leg 1:41 - #3: They're leaning sideways 0:47 - #4: Their torso is twisting away from you 2:03 - #5: Look for self-soothing gestures 3:00 - #6: Look out for compressed lips 3:24 - #7: Watch for a fake smile 3:38 - #8: Their eyes narrow after you've said something -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3s2AptW Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb. So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad. This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode" 1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting 2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions 4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions 5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps 7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary 8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground 9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind 10:30 - Improve your confidence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AndrewTate #PiersMorgan #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3enzzEQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today you’re going to learn 7 easy ways to make people laugh and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: Say the opposite 0:51 - #2: Use looney tunes logic 1:44 - #3: Double down on your joke 2:59 - #4: Double down on someone else's joke 4:43 - #5: Use the reverse defense 5:40 - #6: Use the fake out method 6:19 - #7: Use go to jokes 7:35 - Find your personality and charisma style -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #RyanReynolds #CraigFerguson -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/CoCWalterWhite Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Breaking Bad has one of the best character transformations in TV history. We watch Walter White go from a weak-looking pushover to a powerful presence who commands respect. While you definitely don’t want to be like Walt in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to look AND feel extremely confident in any situation. And even though Breaking Bad is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - #1: Adjust your body language 2:18 - #2: Speak slowly and uses pauses 3:12 - #3: Build stoic courage 5:23 - #4: Be irreplaceable -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #WalterWhite #BreakingBad #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3qwGWvW Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Matthew McConaughey gives off an almost effortless feeling of being cool. So today we’ll break down some of the habits that make him so charismatic and how you can incorporate them into your own life. And it’s worth noting, while Matthew McConaughey is very handsome, his confidence and charisma can apply to you no matter what you look like. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:15 - Set the mood 0:17 - #1: Move slowly and don't rush when speaking 0:52 - #2: Greet everyone around you 1:48 - #3: Make yourself comfortable 2:29 - #4: Stay anchored to yourself 3:20 - Be a magnetic storyteller 3:39 - #1: Use a good preframe 4:37 - #2: Share your emotional experience 5:00 - #3: Act out your characters 6:35 - #4: Tell the story with your hands 6:52 - #5: Tell your stories in the present tense 7:48 - How to put this to practice -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #McConaughey #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3CzfIMy Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe If you’re an introvert, you may think that you’re destined to suffer socially. But one of today's MOST popular celebrities is a self-proclaimed introvert. Even more amazing, Zendaya captivates people without pretending to be extroverted, which can feel exhausting and fake. So today, you’ll learn 4 easy tricks to be charming as an introvert, without changing your personality. Our writing assistant and resident introvert Hadley will walk you through them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Front load your enthusiasm 1:07 - #2: Use hand signals to capture attention 2:00 - #3: Speak through a smile 2:26 - #4: Listen with the intention of laughing -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Zendaya #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3SOo6gT Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you. We’ll start with a couple classic “destroy” comebacks. These are great at winning over an audience and embarrassing the person who insulted you. Be warned though, they may make the target of your comeback hate you. Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so that you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:17 - #1: The high status reframe 1:40 - #2: Accept the insult and use it against them 2:54 - #3: Insult the insult 3:27 - #4: Draw a boundary 4:31 - #5: The "tit for tat" or "eye for an eye" method 6:25 - #6: Show that you're unaffected 8:18 - How do I build deep, unshakable confidence? Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3ORkd7D Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video we’ll go through common mistakes men make when talking to women they’re attracted to. And what you can do instead to stop being boring and immediately be more attractive. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Craig Ferguson. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information 2:13 - #2: Stop being excited about everything she says 5:06 - #3: Create an environment where women feel safe being flirty and sexual -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CraigFerguson #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3OcPZM6 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In this video we’ll go through the 5 female body language cues of attraction. These are what you should be on the lookout for to see if a woman is intrigued, interested or attracted to you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:12 - #1: Look for the Marilyn 0:53 - #2: She crosses into your intimate zone 2:10 - #3: The direction her toes are pointed 2:52 - #4: Look for a "touch-me" 4:03 - #5: Look for a savor smile Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3umpdd9 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you. So in today’s video, we’ll go through 6 easy ways you can make people laugh or just love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:12 - #1: Finish someone's incomplete sentence with a joke 1:48 - #2: Surprise them with unexpected absurd answers 2:59 - #3: Pivot to an exaggerated version of your real answer 4:12 - #4: Start saying your positive thoughts out loud 5:09 - #5: Be relentlessly positive 6:34 - #6: Focus on having fun -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ChrisHemsworth #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3y4zg8O Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Actress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun 0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh 2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases 3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch 3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others 5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers 6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person 7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #MillieBobbyBrown #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3Nondse Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe People love Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders. He’s a quiet, introverted character, and at the same time extremely charismatic. While you don’t want to be like Tommy in every way, there are 8 habits you can learn from him to instantly command respect from the people around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:21 - #1: Have slow, relaxed movements 0:57 - #2: Hold eye contact, even during conflict 1:57 - #3: Be non-reactive to hostility 3:00 - #4: Be as big as your audience 3:33 - #5: Show conviction with your words 3:56 - #6: Show conviction with your tone 4:26 - #7: Speak slowly and use pauses between words 6:23 - #8: Use carrot / stick motivation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeakyBlinders #ThomasShelby #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3wYo2SR Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Johnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided. But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation 1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language 3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with 7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction 8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3MldAd8 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people are extremely judgmental about height. And it sucks to be judged for something that’s totally out of your control. There’s no magic formula to get every single person to stop being prejudiced BUT there are tricks you can steal from some of the world’s most charismatic men to help you command more respect from the people around you. Regardless of your height. This video isn’t meant to be a one size fits all solution. Instead, think of it as a menu to choose from. Pick the advice that fits the charisma style you like most. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:25 - #1: Addressing your height 0:39 - Option 1: Go there first 1:09 - Option 2: Talk about it like it's no big deal 2:16 - Option 3: Don't make it a part of the conversation 3:04 - #2: Be a big presence 3:10 - Option 1: Be the loudest person in the room 3:37 - Option 2: Use expansive hand gestures 4:24 - Option 3: Freely use neutral space 4:57 - Option 4: Use platonic touch 5:52 - #3: Celebrate other people's success ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomCruise #TomHolland #KevinHart #CharismaOnCommand ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3kujtZm Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Few things can ruin your life faster than a toxic relationship. But most people hide their issues, so signs of being toxic aren’t obvious right off the bat. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 early signs you or someone you love is in a toxic relationship so that you can change things before it ruins your life. Keep in mind that none of these mean you must break up immediately. Toxicity exists on a spectrum and these are just signs that you need to move things back towards the healthy side or get out. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Using totalizing language in arguments 1:30 - #2: Feeling compelled to gather evidence against your partner 2:04 - #3: Justifying aggressive behavior by making it a sign of love 3:00 - #4: Not believing someone when they show you’re not compatible 5:12 - #5: You don’t know the traumas that formed your childhood experience of love -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JonnhyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 12,000 Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/38kih8e Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Narcissists don’t behave like most people. They take advantage of the social rules we expect people to follow and their manipulations are shockingly effective if you’re unprepared. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 5 tells that you’re dealing with a narcissist, one who is lying in an attempt to gaslight you. That way you’ll be more able to catch them and defend yourself. We’ll be using Jussie Smollett as our example. For those of you who missed out, in 2019 he claimed to have been a victim of a hate crime. But his story quickly fell apart in ways that are instructive for catching narcissistic liars in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:30 - Sign #1: Details that only serve to establish a desirable persona 1:47 - Sign #2: Other people's motivations relate back to them 3:23 - Sign #3: Making skepticism evidence of a character flaw in the disbeliever 5:06 - Sign #4: In the face of overwhelming evidence, they tend to dig in deeper 5:52 - Sign #5: A cost/benefit analysis of a narcissist's lies will probably make no sense to you 6:44 - Bonus Sign: Narcissists tend to be perpetually unhappy due to their image focused nature -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Narcissists #JussieSmollett #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3v7qh3V Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him. That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships 1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior 3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #WillSmith #Oscars2022 #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Volodymyr Zelensky has been extremely effective at getting people and nations from around the world to support his cause in the conflict against Putin’s Russia. So in this video we’ll break down 5 leadership habits that you can use to command MASSIVE respect and make people want to follow you whether you’re trying to lead in business, politics, or just your social life. (We’ll also touch on Putin’s approach in regards to these same habits). ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:37 - #1: Show people how what's good for you is good for them 2:15 - #2: Describe the heaven if they side with you, and the hell if they don't 4:14 - #3: Give your followers a high reputation to live up to 6:20 - #4: Praise people publicly 7:29 - #5: Your own behavior sets the standard for everyone around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #VolodymyrZelensky #CharismaOnCommand --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3w2U7sq Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Some people can say just about anything, tell jokes huge that should be terrible and still make an audience roar with laughter. That was Norm MacDonald and its why in this video we’ll be breaking him down to cover how you can make people obsessed with you by telling bad jokes that still manage to kill. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:27 - #1: Smile while you're joking 1:09 - #2: Explain your jokes 2:31 - #3: The dead bait method 4:09 - #4: Make it obvious you're lying 6:10 - #5: The long, meandering prank joke 7:36 - The Meta Method -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #NormMacDonald #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3tkmj7r Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all felt the frustration of arguing with someone that just won’t listen. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 tips to actually change a stubborn person’s mind, without hurting your relationship. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:09 - #1: Say two things they’ll agree with before stating where you disagree 1:14 - #2: Use an analogy you know they’ll agree with 3:01 - #3: Maintain a calm conversational tone 3:30 - #4: Allow for playful breaks 4:08 - #5: Clarify the person’s ideas before you disagree with them 5:15 - #6: Debate ideas, not terminology -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JonStewart #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3oP46xb Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Tommy Shelby was our most requested video ever. So today we’re doing a breakdown that’s long overdue: his frenemy, Alfie Solomons. While you don’t want to be like Alfie in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to instantly command more respect from the people around you. And even though Peaky Blinders is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life. How To Be Fearless Under Pressure (Thomas Shelby): https://youtu.be/Hbj4tfokhYc ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:41 - #1: Be calm in situations where most people 2:12 - #2: Hold eye contact during conflict 3:30 - #3: Don't let other people dictate where your attention goes 5:02 - #4: Be honest even when it goes against your best interests -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AlfieSolomons #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3IP43ZH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn 5 steps that will help you connect with, and then impress, anyone. No matter how unreachable they may seem. We’ll do this by breaking down some tricks used by MrBeast, Tim Ferriss, and Yes Theory to connect with people like Will Smith, Justin Trudeau, Elon Musk, and more. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Find a low traffic connection 1:35 - #2: Be a beacon 2:55 - #3: Lead with value 6:55 - #4: Abandon first-instinct questions 7:15 - #5: Stop hero worshipping Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3tB5maw Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In today’s video, you’ll learn 4 habits that will let you feel confident in almost any situation. We’ll do this by analyzing some clips of Jake Gyllenhaal, someone who effortlessly projects a fun confident attitude. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:16 - #1: Learn to laugh at yourself 1:48 - #2: Give yourself permission to call out behavior you don't like 3:31 - #3: Be comfortable calling out awkward moments 5:58 - #4: Make your focus in conversation to have fun -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JakeGyllenhaal #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3qHIyTj Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe If you can’t tell when someone is lying, it opens you up to being manipulated, cheated on, or stolen from, and having no idea until it’s too late. So in today’s video, we’ll go through 9 tricks for spotting a liar. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of actors lying about the movie Spiderman: No Way Home. Fair warning, there will be minor spoilers. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:47 - #1: They avoid answering questions 1:08 - #2: Watch for duper's delight 2:05 - #3: Establish a baseline of their normal behavior 3:17 - #4: They give a soft response 3:21 - #5: Watch for deception testing 4:47 - #6: They give indirect responses 6:15 - #7: The "Bill Clinton" method 6:46 - #8: A bigger laugh than normal -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3E0EeGE Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe When it comes to dating, most people don’t have as many options as they’d like. Or the options you do have feel like settling, and you have this nagging feeling that you want to do better. Then you see some people who consistently date out of their league. How do they do it? In this video, we’ll breakdown the start to several unlikely celebrity couples, and use them to show you seven tips to help you date out of your league. Later in the video, we’ll explain why “leagues” are problematic. But for now, assume “out of your league,” refers to anyone you believe is above you in attractiveness, wealth, fame, or social status. We’ll be focusing on men interacting with women since that’s my own personal experience, but similar principles will apply no matter who you like. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:36 - #1: Have access to the person 2:58 - #2: You have to stand out 3:47 - #3: Playfully tease 6:50 - #4: Prioritize being honest 8:01 - #5: Have other good things in your life 11:50 - #6: Minimize your nervousness 13:19 - #7: Dating "out of your league" is a bad goal How To Confidently Flirt With Women: https://youtu.be/8NalcOPBXvs -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UqHccK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether it’s an interview, a first date, or just a conversation with someone you don’t know well, we’ve all had times where things didn’t go well because we were uncomfortable or nervous. That feeling sucks. So in today’s video we’re going to go through some easy ways to look and feel more confident in those moments where you might have previously felt nervous. We’ll do this by breaking down clips of Tom Holland. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:22 - #1: Expand in awkward situations 4:58 - #2: Look up and away 6:55 - #3: Bounce between sharing and joking 8:22 - #4: Tell embarrassing stories 8:53 - #5: Re-enact your nerves 10:27 - #6: Commit to your impressions 10:40 - #7: Use a surprised pause 11:35 - #8: Defend people if someone tries to elevate you above them -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHolland #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Check out our video on Dave Chappelle: https://youtu.be/YZRxX1XYgoQ Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3UkcHoS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The biggest movie franchise of the last decade was based off of comic books, the biggest TV series was based off a fantasy series, and there are people making millions of dollars a year streaming themselves playing dungeons and dragons. Some people mistakenly think being a nerd or geek automatically makes you less attractive. But now more than ever, it’s cool to be a nerd. Now of course, Joe, Margot, and Henry are very good looking. We’ll actually touch on improving your looks towards the end of the video. But first, let’s go through some charisma advice that will help you to be more attractive no matter what you look like. These tips will help you be more attractive on dates, as well as just more magnetic with friends. (Also I know all the real nerds out there will point out that technically, nerds and geeks aren’t the same. But for this video, we’ll use the terms interchangeably.) ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:03 - Mistake #1: Hiding your nerdy interests 2:11 - Mistake #2: Not knowing how to talk about your interests 9:33 - Mistake #3: Not having a variety of interests 10:06 - Mistake #4: Giving up on your physical appearance 11:48 - Mistake #5: Hiding your interests because you fear rejection -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HenryCavill #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3CjRS5w Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had conversations that feel forced, awkward, or just boring. Sometimes it gets to the point where you have no idea what to say. While it’s funny on TV, in real life, these conversations are painful. So in this video, we’ll go over five common mistakes that lead to boring conversations, and what to do so you can have amazing conversations instead. We'll do this using clips from some of the best conversationalists that we've covered on the channel so far. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:42 - Mistake #1: Energy ducking 3:00 - Mistake #2: Assuming interest 4:28 - Mistake #3: Giving bland one to five words answers 6:24 - Mistake #4: Asking the same boring default questions 8:51 - Mistake #5: Being a passive listener Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you ever wished there was a blueprint you could follow to make people instantly like you? Good news, there kind of is! All you have to do is follow the 3 Fs. Be Fascinating, Funny, and make them Feel Good. I know, easier said than done. But in today’s video, you’ll get a set of tools that make it easy to do each. We’ll do this by breaking down some of today’s most charismatic celebrities, most prominently Will Smith and Chris Hemsworth, so you have real life examples you can model. 4 Jokes That Make People Instantly Like You: https://youtu.be/GBuZMl0CcPY How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover: https://youtu.be/M5mgdJDEgwU How To Confidently Flirt With Anyone: https://youtu.be/8NalcOPBXvs ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: Set stakes to hook people 1:22 - #2: Make your stories Immersive 2:33 - #3: Make your story relatable 3:53 - #4: Use the charades method 6:16 - #5: Use the fake out method 7:36 - #6: Use contagious laughter 10:10 - #7: Give high quality compliments -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #WillSmith #ChrisHemsworth -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today! There are sociopaths in this world who will embarrass, manipulate, and even physically hurt you to get what they want. And because their brains don’t work like most people’s, it can be tough to see it coming until it’s too late. So in this video, we’re going to help you better understand the mind of a sociopath. Then we’ll go over 5 subtle signs to help you tell if someone is a sociopath. While no single trait means anything definitive, if you see these all together it can be a red flag. Special thanks to both Kanika Batra and Dyshae for being so candid about their ASPD. If you want to watch their full interviews, you can click here to see them: Special Books By Special Kids interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdPMUX8_8Ms Kanika Batra Q&A: https://youtu.be/NLfgNnGrkQU ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:26 - #1: They lack empathy 0:43 - #2: Sociopaths have a strong internal urge to manipulate 2:14 - #3: Their first impressions can feel too good to be true 3:57 - #4: The sociopath stare 7:23 - #5: Their emotional responses seem off -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Sociopaths #Sociopath #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Want to watch more? Check out these videos: 5 Signs You're Dealing With A Narcissist https://youtu.be/Hg4ws1QPeNE 5 Creepy Tactics Sociopaths Use To Manipulate You https://youtu.be/oECsf5y4S7k How To Spot A Liar https://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpM Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: Infados by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100449 Artist: http://incompetech.com/

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fvDZKq Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Timothée Chalamet has two traits you don't often see go hand in hand. He's self admittedly very awkward, and yet women find him incredibly attractive. This is interesting because Timothée is not your stereotypical jock alpha male, in either looks or personality. He’s shy and at times seems uncomfortable when speaking: looking down, fidgeting, or putting his hands in his pockets. How can someone who’s self admittedly awkward be so attractive? While he’s definitely handsome, much of Timothée’s attractiveness comes through in his personality. Part of what makes Timothée so magnetic is how well he handles potentially awkward moments. So in this video, we’ll go over 7 tricks you can learn from Timothée to turn your awkward moments into moments where you’re actually making yourself more attractive. 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You (Brie Larson): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Starting A Fight (Jonah Hill): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSXoI9MDvU0 ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro. 1:12 - #1: Radiate positivity 2:57 - #2: Appear unfazed by smiling through a tease 4:28 - #3: Don't assume negative intent in ambiguous situations 6:22 - #4: Call out the awkwardness 9:03 - #5: Pass the conversational spotlight to the other person 9:58 - #6: Share your higher purpose 12:14 - #7: If this doesn't go well, on with the rest of life -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TimotheeChalamet #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3udCRxI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Look under any YouTube video of Simu Liu and you'll see commenters praising his charisma. He’s new to being an A-list celebrity, but he’s making an incredible first impression. So in this video, we’ll go through 6 mistakes most people make during their first impressions, and 6 habits you can learn from Simu that will let you make an amazing first impression instead. These habits are super easy to do, most people just don’t think to do them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:37 - Make A Strong Entrance Mistake: thinking a first impression starts when you start speaking 2:03 - Get comfortable taking up the space around you Mistake: keeping your arms tight to your body while you speak 3:30 - Look for Observational Compliments early in the interaction Mistake: trying to be “cool” by coming in aloof or standoffish 4:34 - Elevate the people around you Mistake: focusing solely on trying to make yourself look good 5:29 - Be an Encouraging Listener Mistake: thinking that to make a good impression, you have to do all the talking 7:20 - Have great answers for the questions you know you’re likely to be asked Mistake: having boring answers to the standard questions you know are coming -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SimuLiu #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T8Y9Yv Despite having social anxiety growing up, Tom Hardy has transformed himself into someone that oozes confidence and is incredibly popular. Tom’s charisma is unusual because he doesn’t follow the normal advice you might see on something like a body language list. He’ll often slouch or fidget in conversation, doing things you’re quote unquote not supposed to do. But Tom has a few core mindsets you can steal that will instantly make you more confident in almost any social situation. These mindsets allow him to project a confident “I don’t give a f**k” attitude that draws people to him. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:50 - #1: Be willing to polarize 1:35 - #2: Allow yourself to have authentic reactions 3:45 - #3: Stop trying to look flawless 5:23 - The shadow rule 6:47 - #4: Prioritize your own comfort 8:38 - Are your fears holding you back? 10:49 - Links & more videos -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHardy #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3zIcQuD Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The character Ted Lasso is probably most well known for his wildly positive attitude. This is an awesome trait we may cover in a future video. But in today’s video, we’re going to dive into leadership. While the show is pure fiction, Ted demonstrates techniques that real life leaders like Steve Jobs, Larry Page, and Phil Jackson used to achieve great success. If you already naturally do these things, it’s a sign that under the right circumstances you could be a fantastic leader. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro. 0:59 - #1: Make everyone feel like they matter 3:12 - #2: Align your goals. 4:15 - #3: Create lieutenants. 7:07 - #4: Actively solicit feedback and try to improve. 8:45 - #5: Have empathy for the people you lead. 9:51 - #6: Celebrate other people's wins. 11:38 - #7: Create belief in a motivating vision. 13:20 - #8: Don't deny reality. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TedLasso #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T3pL14 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe When most people are asked to picture someone quiet or shy, they picture someone meek, someone who lacks confidence. But that isn’t always the case. In fact, you can be quiet while still radiating massive confidence and commanding respect from the people around you. So in this video, we’ll go through 4 tricks you can use to be charismatic without needing to be loud or over the top. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro. 1:23 - #1: Use hand signals to capture attention. 4:49 - #2: Share praise to others. 6:50 - #3: Use your body language. 8:01 - #4: Be non-reactive. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Confidence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 8000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3SYrWTu Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had those moments where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It can be frustrating, especially when you’re talking to someone you really want to like you. So in this video, we’ll go through 4 easy ways you can make people laugh and love being around you. We’ll do this by breaking down some clips from the king of sarcasm, Ryan Reynolds. Some people mistakenly think this type of sarcastic humor makes you an a**hole, but when done properly it can instantly make people like you more. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:23 - #1: Exaggerate so much it’s impossible to take you seriously 3:14 - #2: Use "The Mind’s Eye" Method 5:14 - #3: Use "The Fake-out" Method 6:46 - #4: Focus on self amusement and having a good time -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RyanReynolds #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Recently Steven Crowder and Ethan Klein got together to discuss the pros and cons of listening to the CDC. In today’s video, we’re going to break down how that conversation got so heated and what you can learn from it. Specifically we’ll go over 5 common habits you may have that are making friends dislike you when you argue. We’ll also go over some positive ways you can be more persuasive and make people like you even during a disagreement. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 2:01 - #1: Don't aim for a "gotcha" moment 3:48 - #2: Don't repeatedly talk over someone 4:49 - #3: Stop using ad hominem attacks 8:01 - #4: Stop strawmaning 8:49 - #5: Be willing to consider that you're on the wrong side -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #h3h3 #stevencrowder #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University: http://bit.ly/3DyqaTn Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Like it or not, we have all felt insecure. It’s something even world famous celebrities have to deal with. Because worrying about what other people think of us is such a universal experience, in today’s video we’ll go over some easy ways you can look more confident, AND some techniques you can use to actually build more confidence. We’ll do this by breaking down clips of Scarlett Johansson. She does a great job of coming off as confident and likable, even when she’s expressing feelings of insecurity. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Adjust your body language 1:18 - #2: Show your palms 2:22 - #3: Use the echo technique 3:41 - #4: Learn to laugh at yourself 7:19 - #5: Use gradual exposure therapy 8:20 - #6: Reframe success and failure -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ScarlettJohansson #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 8000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3CfNW5P 5 Easy Steps To Be Effortlessly Charming https://bit.ly/2SkU9e0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had that moment where we wish we could think of something funny to say, but our mind goes blank. It sucks. So in this video, we’ll go through easy ways to get a laugh in 4 different situations: when someone else is talking, when you get teased and need a comeback, when you’re asked a question, and when you’re telling a story. And rather than go through examples where you need to be insanely witty, these are purposefully some of the absolute easiest ways you can get a laugh. Do these consistently and people will love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:44 - #1: Do the wordless walk off 1:55 - #2: Use an appearance analogy 3:33 - #3: Say an absurd answer 5:00 - #4: Laugh as you tell a joke or funny story -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 6000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3T8ngKG How To Create An Attractive Voice: https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe No matter who you are, we’ve all been nervous before. And sometimes your nervousness can get in the way of making a good impression or connecting with someone you like. But being nervous doesn’t have to ruin an interaction. There are ways to be incredibly charismatic, even if you’re nervous. That’s what we’ll be learning in today’s video on Tom Hiddleston. Now I’m not saying Tom is always nervous, but he’s a great person to learn this from. He’s incredibly likeable despite showing some telltale signs of nervousness in interviews. Like filler words, fidgeting, and blushing. Despite those habits, Tom is considered extremely charismatic, humble, and charming. So in this video we’ll break down 5 easy tricks you can learn from Tom to come off as charismatic even when you’re nervous. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:16 - #1: Anchor a positive first impression 2:13 - #2: Use a one second cliffhanger pause 4:05 - #3: Keep your voice confident using pace and timbre 4:55 - #4: Fully commit 7:27 - #5: Focus on having fun rather than looking cool -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHiddleston #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join our 6000+ members at Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3U5DRQK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In this video, we’ll break down some clips of Robert Downey Jr and Charlie Hunnam to highlight 4 different personality traits you may have that are psychologically attractive to a lot of women. We’ll also go through how you can show you have these traits in a way that feels natural, rather than try hard or braggy. You don’t need every single trait in order to attract someone, this video is meant to give you a menu to choose from. Some come through in the stories you tell, others only require one sentence for you to establish. And yes, both these guys are handsome, but the techniques in this video will help anyone to be more attractive regardless of how you look. Also it’s worth noting, these are far from the only ways to be attractive. There are many other traits we can cover in future videos if this turns out to be a topic you’re interested in. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 0:40 - Use the story baiting method 3:02 - Show that you're a protector 4:11 - Be the first to be playful in serious situations 4:17 - Make yourself the director of any situation 4:44 - Give the spotlight to someone who hasn't had it 6:01 - Be a successful risk taker 8:47 - Be playfully cocky 9:26 - Go over the top with your cocky persona 9:54 - Follow cocky statements up with a joke 10:31 - Be quick to compliment others 11:58 - Tell the story in an attractive way -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RobertDowneyJR #CharlieHunnam #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500 to try Audible today! How To Be Charming In Any Conversation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBzqzLa7-5M Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether we admit it or not we’ve all felt insecure at different points in our lives. And that insecurity can hold you back from things like pursuing your dream job, approaching someone you want to connect with, or just feeling good about yourself. But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are tricks you can learn to actually use your insecurities to your advantage. To instantly look more confident and eventually to build deep genuine confidence and stop caring so much what other people think about you That’s exactly what we’ll be covering today in this video featuring Pete Davidson, someone who has stated many times that he battles with insecurity, yet still has a lot of friends, relationships, and career success. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - intro 1:05 - #1: Embrace that you are not good at everything 2:38 - #2: Use self deprecating jokes 4:23 - #3: Answer questions honestly where most people would lie 6:06 - #4: Raise the people around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeteDavidson #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University Today! https://bit.ly/3UtD0t3 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Shark Tank has had roughly a thousand pitches air so far, and one stands out as possibly the worst ever. This pitch goes SO badly that after it aired Maneesh even started to get threats.  Now this video isn’t a critique of Maneesh, we don’t know anything about his personality based on a TV show. But there’s a lot we can learn from this pitch. Specifically, we’ll go over 5 fairly common mistakes that instantly make people like you less.   We’ll also review what you can do instead to make better impressions in business meetings, job interviews, and even when meeting new friends or going on dates.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 1:18 - #1: A bad first impression in the first 7 seconds 2:03 - #2: Reacting defensively to laughter 3:13 - #3: Trying to hide your weaknesses 3:20 - #4: Not answering the question behind the question 6:18 - #5: Being critical of a person rather than their behavior -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SharkTank #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join our 5000+ members at Charisma University today: https://bit.ly/3rDv37V 6 Psychological Tricks To Command Respect Instantly: https://youtu.be/RgkghUvC6PA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had a friend say something we don’t like.  Whether it’s a passive aggressive comment or a playful insult that goes too far, it can be tough to know how to respond. So in this video we’re going to cover three ways to handle it when a friend crosses the line and you want to stand up for yourself without starting a fight. We’ll start by breaking down a few examples with Jonah Hill. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:27 - #1: Fire back an insult yourself. 1:45 - #2: Draw a boundary. 5:00 - #3: Turn it into friendly banter. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3U3skkJ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In this video we’ll go through 4 habits you can steal from Chris Evans that will help you to be charming in any conversation.  And because Chris’s charisma is so nice, we’ll also go over a few nuances around flirting so you can create attraction as more than just a friend. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile. 2:21 - #2: Own the space around you. 5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method. 7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ChrisEvans #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Elon Musk seems to have a formula for taking an impossible dream and making it a reality. So in this video we’ll go through 6 tricks you can steal from Elon to achieve your most ambitious dreams.  Specifically by learning to think like a genius and find solutions that no one else sees. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  1:20 - #1: Create a very specific picture of the future. 2:08 - #2: Use first principles thinking. 3:57 - #3: Focus on delivering value. 4:46 - #4: Define your top priority. 6:00 - #5: Be willing to polarize. 7:31 - #6 Celebrate small victories. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T5MrOx Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Small talk can be a drag - but it’s possible to turn those boring everyday conversations into a meaningful ones where you learn about and really connect with people. That’s why in this video we’ll explore what you can learn from some of the best conversationalists of our era about moving from small talk to deep connection so you never worry about being boring.  ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:17 - #1: Let people know that you're happy to speak with them. 1:59 - #2: Steer towards deeper conversational contexts. 3:01 - #3: Use "parroting". 3:59 - #4: Advocate for things people are ashamed to have felt or done. 5:25 - #5: Pause to acknowledge vulnerability and courage. 6:14 - #6: Reveal your own vulnerabilities and unflattering truths. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JoeRogan #HowardStern #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: http://bit.ly/3amDPzn You probably saw Gamestop’s stock go wild recently, but you may not have realized that the psychology behind its explosion is fascinating.  That’s why in this video we’re breaking down the 7 biggest psychological lessons that will help you understand group dynamics and make wiser financial decisions than 99% of the population.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:58 - #1: A common enemy. 1:50 - #2: Heroic language & mythology. 2:46 - #3: Recency bias. 3:57 - #4: A modified prisoner's dilemma. 4:27 - #5: Transparency and accountability. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameStop #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Emotional Mastery Today! https://bit.ly/3yqzS8r Bill Burr is one of the most popular comedians alive today, despite having said about a hundred things that would get anyone else cancelled.   Today we’ll go over how Bill manages to say these controversial things without hurting his relationships or popularity. Learning just a few of these habits will let you go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you can share your opinion without losing people’s respect. Also one quick note, this video is about psychology not any particular belief.  So if you strongly disagree with anything Bill says in these upcoming clips, then they’ve been picked well :-) ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:46 - #1:Make people laugh 3:09 - #2: Begin by validating the other side 6:23 - #3: Soften that feeling of being attacked 8:40 - #4: Be willing to back off an opinion -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BillBurr #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fzzHSe Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Love him or hate him, it’s undeniable that Conor McGregor’s charisma made him incredibly popular, with 5 of the top 6 pay-per-views in MMA history. So in this video we’ll break down some common patterns from his most savage moments, why they made him so popular, and even how you can adapt some of the psychology into your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:30 - #1: Conor's unshakeable confidence 6:13 - #2: His ability to use humor to his advantage 10:24 - #3: He can back up his trash talk 10:57 - #4: Conor is always respectful after the fight 12:17 - #5: He asks for what he wants -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ConorMcGregor #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Start your free 30-day Audible trial by visiting https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How do you become a man?  Cultures around the world have long believed it doesn’t just happen with age - certain steps need to be takenand recently the topic has gotten even more complicated with concerns of toxic masculinity rising. Well in this video I’ll be using Cobra Kai to break down what I see as the 4 stages men go through in the road to quote unquote manhood, where guys go wrong, and what you can do to get to the next phase of growth. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:34 - Stage #1: Boyhood. 2:00 - Stage #2: The eager student. 4:33 - Stage #3: The wanderer. 7:51 - Stage #4: The free thinker. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CobraKai #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University https://bit.ly/3FJK40c Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe People can be hostile with a fake friendly demeanor. It becomes tricky to know whether to confront them or just smile through it. That’s why In today’s video we’re covering a 4 step method you can use to stand up to rude, passive-aggressive behavior without being a jerk. We’ll be using a tense Robert Downey JR interview we covered in one of our first videos, but we thought an update with more concrete advice and visuals would be useful.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 0:21 - N: Nonverbally warn them to stop 2:21 - I: The indirect warning shot 3:31 - C: The callout 4:48 - E: Exit the situation -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RobertDowneyJR #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and full access to the Plus Catalog for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text to “charisma” 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Why does anyone confess to the police?  While a plea bargain in court might lower your punishment, confessing to police can only hurt you.  Yet people do it all the time. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:15 - #1: They pretend that they're your ally. 1:00 - #2: The positive confrontation. 3:44 - #3: Interrogators shut down denials immediately. 4:36 - #4: They give you a way out with minimization. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PoliceInterrogations #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Check out JCS - Criminal Psychology: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYwVxWpjeKFWwu8TML-Te9A Join our 5000+ members over at Charisma University ! https://bit.ly/2IKTspl Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join our 5000+ members over at Charisma University! http://bit.ly/3Wy5eEw Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe   Craig Ferguson has a reputation as one of the most fun, charming flirts in Hollywood.  Some female celebrities would go on his show just for the chance to flirt with him. While Craig has clear advantages, like being a famous TV host, a lot of what he does can be done by anybody who wants to be more attractive in conversation. Specifically, Craig has 7 habits that can help you build chemistry with anyone.  Learning just a few of these habits will let you go into any conversation with confidence, knowing people are going to love flirting with you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:50 - #1: Start your conversations in a fun, positive way. 1:53 - #2: Use over the top teasing. 3:59 - #3: Be playfully absurd. 4:51 - #4: Create a safe environment for people to be flirty and sexual. 10:23 - #5: Flirt with the world. 11:13 - #6: Have leaned back body language. 12:02 - #7: Get comfortable with your worst case scenario -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CraigFerguson #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Try AudiblePlus for just $4.95/month for your first 6 months! http://audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe It seems to be harder than ever to get through to people logically. In fact, some of the smartest people have the most sophisticated psychological booby traps when it comes to heated subjects. So in this video, we're going to break down why sometimes people won’t listen to reason even when they’re smart, and what techniques you can use to finally get through to someone who can’t listen to reason. Our video on Steven Crowder: https://youtu.be/IGACRHlzwx8 Our video on Trevor Noah https://youtu.be/lgXqaS08ZqM ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 2:12 - #1: Being stunned by new information. 3:01 - #2: Inaccurately summarizing the other's perspective. 4:01 - #3: Misreading nefarious intent. 4:41 - #4: Regularly moving goalposts. 5:35 - #5: Yelling or getting angry. 6:12 - #6: Attacking someone's character. 6:34 - #7: Retreating Without Concession 8:05 - 3 Key Mindsets To Change Their Mind 9:05 - The Most Dangerous Cognitive Dissonance Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks 3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community 5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance" -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BellaThorne #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3FL8h6u Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are reacting to cringe, and we will try to find out how you can save an awkward situation and turn it into a fun interaction!   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:54 - #1: Crack an understated joke. 2:01 - #2: Lower the filter. 4:16 - #3: Acknowledge the situation. 4:52 - #4: See yourself out and never come back. 8:01 - #5: Go first. Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma For more charisma, politics and philosophy check out our podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xA7WMqhiKg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Four and a half years ago I made a video predicting long shot candidate Trump would beat Hillary Clinton to become President. I talked about how he had better slogans, better media strategy, and better zingers. I’m not making the same prediction this year because Trump’s campaign savviness is no where near where it was in 2016.   But in my opinion, the race is NOT as far apart as the polls show and the messaging in this final stretch could turn the tide.  In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever seen 2 more beatable candidates than I did in the first debate Which is why in this video we’re going to cover the persuasion, political strategy, and dirty politics Trump could use to beat Biden.  I also want to show how Biden could use the same to counter Trump and put him away.  So don’t worry, no matter who support, there will be something to love and hate in this video.  ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:57 - #1: Trump's position coming into the election. 3:40 - #2: How Trump can attack Biden. 6:21 - #3: Each candidate needs to dictate the core issue. 11:33 - #4: Both candidates needs to speak in sensory language. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Trump #Biden #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $40 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With credit card in hand, I signed up for an OnlyFans investigation. What I found surprised me, not only what it said about human psychology, but also the direction that consumerism is taking all of us. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro 1:26 - #1: Dopamine hooks 3:48 - #2: Recognition, intimacy and community 5:22 - #3: "Guaranteed acceptance" -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BellaThorne #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join our 5000+ members over at Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3UpWEG9 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We have all had moments in our lives where we were more awkward than we would like to be, and we have all had moments where we surprised ourselves with how charming, charismatic and confident we can be. The questions is: how do we go from one to the other on command?  I think that Elon Musk is a great example of someone that represents the best of both worlds. That's why in this video, I want to dive into some clips of Elon to see what you can learn, and how to turn those moments where you are awkward and turn them into ones where you are charming and charismatic. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 1:58 - #1: Elaborate on the question 2:33 - #2: Make consistent eye contact. 3:47 - #3: Crack an understated joke. 5:06 - #4: Embrace the silence. 6:08 - #5: Prime yourself. 7:22 - #6: Fully commit. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University! https://bit.ly/3U3o8Sk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I saw this video on YouTube called "The Speech That Made Barack Obama President", so I want to dig in and find out exactly what it was that made this speech so powerful, and what lessons you can learn from it and bring into your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 : Intro. 0:25 - #1: Use pauses. 0:54 - #2: Use the 3 second rule of eye contact. 1:43 - #3: Show your palms. 2:06 - #4: React to the audience. 3:23 - #5: Know your audience. 3:49 - #6: Create mystery. 4:50 - #7: Be specific. 6:10 - #8: Tell stories. 9:10 - #9: Have a common enemy. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BarackObama #ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and access to a monthly selection of Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Original clips: https://youtu.be/TQmC9VbcC90 https://youtu.be/56agS77XpDE Today is a very exciting day, because someone who I consider to be one of the most charismatic people in the world, Russell Brand, just made a video on how to be charismatic! It's going to be very interesting to see if we have commonalities in how we see charisma :-)   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:56 - #1: Be present in the moment. 1:58 - #2: Not everyone will like you, no matter what. 2:39 - #3: Don't expect anything from the interaction. 4:33 - #4: Use purposeful misinterpretation. 4:58 - #5: Take advantage of the "yes, and…" technique. 5:59 - #6: Don't skip the fundamental principles. 6:43 - #7: Don't just treat the symptom, address the core problem. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Learn More About Emotional Mastery: https://bit.ly/3ywHOFo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Amazon’s The Boys is full of personalities that are fun to watch but would be terrible to encounter in real life.   Superpowers aside, we’ve all encountered this type: tough guy bully who tries to push you around, make you uncomfortable, or get you to agree to something you don’t really want. So that’s why in this video we’ll cover 6 psychological tricks bullies use to control you and what you can do to avoid or stop those them in their tracks. NB! Since we’re mainly using Billy Butcher and Homelander as examples of our tough guys, there will be light spoilers through season 1 of the Boys. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:38 - #1: Mismatching friendly gestures with domineering physicality. 1:39 - #2: Forcing you to make decisions in a highly emotional state. 3:39 - #3: Listen for the insult. 5:21 - #4: Demands with personal threats attached. 7:01 - #5: Threaten you with their own harm or sadness. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TheBoys #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Our 5000+ Members Over At Charisma University Today: https://bit.ly/3DCLC9E Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all had conversations that feel forced or boring, or are filled with awkward silences. It can be almost painful. That’s why in this video we're going to go over 5 steps to make small talk with anyone. We’ll do so by breaking down some tricks that Joe Rogan uses on his podcast to connect with everyone from academics to athletes to celebrities.   The goal of each of these is to either get the person to like you more OR get you off small talk and into a real conversation that lets you form a genuine connection. Some will be mindsets and some will be word for word questions you can steal. They’re all easy to do, but most people don’t do them.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:54 - #1: Grease the wheels early with a compliment. 2:17 - #2: Transition between topics using “reminds me of” thinking. 4:07 - #3: Ping for topics of mutual interest. 4:31 - #4: Get other people excited about the conversation. 6:27 - #5: Create a connection with people while listening. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JoeRogan #JRE #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fBse51 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve all been there before, you’re talking to someone you like and you can’t quite tell if they’re flirting with you or just being friendly. You might feel this uncertainty when talking to someone you’ve just met, or maybe with someone you’ve known for a while but have trouble reading. Either way, in this video we’ll go through 6 subtle signs you can look for to figure out if someone is attracted to you.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:49 - #1: Watch for preening. 2:21 - #2: Pay attention to a drag or lingering touch. 3:18 - #3: Focus on frequent, unnecessary little touches. 4:29 - #4: Look for the direction someone points their body. 5:42 - #5: See if they lean their body towards you. 6:48 - #6: Notice the "smiling eye dart". Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3FKiCjg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Not feeling attractive enough can be a source of insecurity.  But luckily being attractive is less dependent on genetics than many people think. So in this video we’re not going to touch on things outside of your control.  Although genes do have an impact, you can make yourself more attractive with the way you dress, your attitude, and your actions. And for fun since season 5 of Lucifer comes out this week, we’ll use his character to show these attractive habits.  That said, we’re only going to include what will actually make you more attractive in real life, leaving out any scenes where his devil powers magically make women want him. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:48 - #1: Lucifer has great style. 2:06 - #2: Flirting is about having fun. 4:46 - #3: Lucifer has an unshakeable confidence. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Lucifer #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3aaGRFa Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jamie Foxx is insanely charismatic. Some people mistakenly think that he's just an over the top comedian. While Jamie sometimes uses physical comedy, he's a magnetic storyteller and an amazing conversationalist. He can even lead a conversation just by listening and asking the right questions. Today we're going to break down a few of Jamie's habits, and how you can use these habits to become funnier, more magnetic, and a more likeable listener. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start. 2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat. 4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices. 6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause. 7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JamieFoxx #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and access to a monthly selection of Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Fans love Sherlock Holmes for his ability to notice things that most people ignore. While Sherlock is a fictional character, there are ways you can learn to read people in real life to better understand what they’re thinking and feeling without them saying a word. No individual read will be foolproof, but together they can start to paint a picture for you.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:56 - #1: Reading other people's interest. 1:45 - #2: Take note of the direction someone's feet are pointing. 3:12 - #3: Read their emotions. 3:49 - #4: Look for micro expressions on their face. 5:54 - #5: Their breathing shifts from their belly to their chest. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SherlockHolmes #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3hcibDO Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets.  After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous. 2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive. 4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness. 5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them. 6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories. 7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HughJackman -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3WvHvEZ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Ragnar Lothbrok (Lodbrok) is a legendary leader and the main character in the show Vikings. In a time where power and respect meant everything, he was able to rise up from being a simple farmer to a ruler, to a king. In this video we will break down 5 ways Ragnar is able to command respect from everyone around him and how you can do the same in your own life. You don't have to pick them all, so you can pick the ones that fit you the best.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro. 0:32 - #1: Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join. 2:13 - #2: Speak in "you" and "we". 4:16 - #3: Project calm in the face of conflict. 5:32 - #4: Lead from the front. 7:29 - #5: See through other people's eyes. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Vikings #RagnarLothbrok #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Emotional Mastery: https://bit.ly/3COJfld Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we're going to look at the man, the myth, the legend, Tony Robbins! And we're going to use some clips from him to try and figure out some habits that can help you change your life for the better :-)   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:00 - Intro 1:02 - #1: Use movement to get into your desired emotional state. 2:31 - #2: Hesitant to do something that's good for you? Ask yourself: "Why am I hesitating?"- 4:38 - #3: Never leave the scene of a decisions without first taking a specific action towards it's realization. 6:46 - #4: Identify the things that frustrate or upset you. 7:33 - #5: Turn your "shoulds" into "musts". -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TonyRobbins #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3EtiP9C Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are looking at some comebacks! We're going to see what we can learn from the way people responded in today's clips to particular offenses and insults, and what you can learn in your own life if somebody comes at you in a way that you find a bit too aggressive. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:15 - Comeback #1: Andy Richter 1:15 - Comeback #2: Bo Burnham 1:55 - Comeback #3: UK Parliament 3:27 - Comeback #4: Donald Trump 4:02 - Comeback #5: David Letterman 5:14 - Comeback #6: Jaime Lannister 5:38 - Comeback #7: Howard with the comeback 6:25 - Comeback #8: Donald Trump vs Jeb Bush 7:08 - Comeback #9: Conan O' Brien -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3FJXCsA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We've all been there, you see someone that you want to meet, but you aren't quite sure what to say. You get nervous and overthink it, and eventually you don't say anything at all. That scenario is awful, so in this video you're going to learn 5 easy ways to start a conversation in any situation.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:16 - #1: "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm..." 0:43 - #2: "Hey, I know this is totally random, but..." 1:25 - #3: The "Tourist" Technique. 2:12 - #4: The "Ben Franklin". 2:53 - #5: The spontaneous complement. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Please consider donating to Charity: Water. Donating $30 gives someone access to clean water for 10 years. You can read more about the campaign and donate here: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We all want to be liked and respected while being our unfiltered selves. And one of the fastest ways to make people like you is to make them laugh. That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about Andrew Schulz, a comedian who’s popular for his ability to make people laugh even while he’s making fun of them. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:21 - #1: Start by joking about people you obviously like. 2:48 - #2: Answer some questions with purposefully absurd answers. 3:38 - #3: When teasing others, mix in compliments. 5:00 - #4: Schulz will stereotype to get a laugh, but not in a hurtful way. 8:00 - #5: Roast all political parties equally. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AndrewSchulz #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Clips from the video: https://youtu.be/-60PjP4n2qA https://youtu.be/nS_6c4PyJvg https://youtu.be/o5oW0ELFy9c https://youtu.be/HkCBPHedjyQ https://youtu.be/LimytC6bNZ0 https://youtu.be/9BxFVciVOiM https://youtu.be/Jt34qFE0zkw https://youtu.be/EwRPx9F6G8o https://youtu.be/GHpvUxmvybY https://youtu.be/tETOEfOaNhw https://youtu.be/1ElO7EUdfOw https://youtu.be/dl2MQq4qO4Y Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and access to a monthly selection of Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Avatar The Last Airbender is all about the journey of learning new skills, from novice to master. And despite being a cartoon, it’s very well written and there are lessons you can take from it to help YOU master almost any skill faster, whether you’re interested in business, sports, languages, music, or social skills (we’ll look at examples of each of these throughout the video.) That said, we’ve got to acknowledge that Avatar IS a cartoon. So in this video we’ll go over some things Avatar gets right and some things Avatar gets wrong, so that you can learn to master any skill way faster and avoid some common mistakes that will stall your learning process. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:28 - #1: Find the right teacher for you. 3:07 - #2: Set goals that are a stretch for your abilities, but are within your abilities. 4:29 - #3: Find a way to make practice fun. 6:05 - #4: Don't let the ego get in the way of learning. 8:08 - #5: Practice at least three times a week. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Avatar #AvatarTheLastAirbender #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/37f85JA How To Create An Attractive Voice: https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50 Our previous video on Joe Rogan: https://youtu.be/GFphNr0FK-0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Joe Rogan is so good at conversation that he just got $100,000,000 to license his podcast to Spotify. A big part of Joe’s success comes from his ability to command respect from a broad range of people. From fighters to movie stars to academics. Which is why in this video we will go over 4 things you can do to command more respect in conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:47 - #1: The way he speaks. 1:53 - #2: He does not allow people to derail him, if he has something important to say. 5:01 - #3: Joe will share his honest thoughts, even if people don’t like them. 8:50 - #4: Joe actively seeks to break the echo chamber. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JoeRogan #JRE #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fx3dI7 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we're going to be looking at one of the most charismatic people in the world, and that person is Craig Ferguson. Craig Ferguson, at the beginning of each interview, would rip up the pre-interview questions, and basically ad-lib. So today we're going to look at what we can learn from him, and how you can bring this type of spontaneity to your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:53 - #1: Lower your filter. 2:05 - #2: Don't answer literally all the time. 2:28 - #2.5: Enjoy yourself and laugh. 2:47 - #3: Make your jokes complimentary. 3:13 - #4: Purposeful misinterpretation. 4:01 - #5: Don't rush your jokes. 5:33 - #6: Playfully self deprecate. 6:16 - #6.5: Be enthusiastic with your compliments. 6:35 - #7: The Rolodex method. #CraigFerguson #CharismaOnCommand Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3DXCqhG Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe 90 Day Fiance videos have been making the rounds on YouTube recently, and wow, there are some amazingly toxic relationships in that show. Unfortunately it can be hard to recognize when your own relationship is headed towards trouble until it's too late, so today we're going to cover 7 red flags that are early signs of a toxic relationship. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:48 - #1: Prioritizing being attractive over being honest. 1:50 - #2: Makes it a headache to not give them what they want. 3:46 - #3: Their actions don't match their words. 4:56 - #4: Your friends and family don't like your relationship. 6:15 - #5: Toxic people will try to distance you from other people. 7:44 - #6: We see our significant other as we want them to be. 9:15 - #7: Your relationship is a roller coaster with extreme highs and lows. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #90DayFiance #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Emotional Mastery: http://bit.ly/3ok86ma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Ellen Degeneres has been getting a lot of hate on the internet recently. This video isn't meant to be a commentary on her, one way or the other, but after seeing those hate videos, we thought you might want to know the most common types of jokes that make people dislike you, and some of the jokes you can make instead to make people like you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:14 - #1: Sharing their sensitive information to get a laugh. 3:53 - #2: Making jokes designed to make the other person feel guilty. 6:10 - #3: Teasing someone of lower status than you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #EllenDegeneres #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and a monthly selection Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Bobby Axelrod from Billions has more money and power than most of us could imagine, and it's not just because he's a good investor. Bobby is a brilliant negotiator, capable of getting people to give him almost anything he wants. In this video, we're going to cover 5 tactics Bobby uses in almost every negotiation, and how you can use them to negotiate better, whether it's at work, in your romantic relationships or with friends.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:27 - #1: Nail down what people need before negotiating. 2:45 - #2: He will use his body language to manipulate other people's emotions (don't do this in your own life). 4:47 - #3: He uses an exploding offer to create panic in the other person (don't do this in your own life). 6:00 - #4: Always be willing to walk away from the table. 7:44 - #5: Point. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BobbyAxelrod #Billions #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T8O91z Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With his popular YouTube channel Some Good News, John Krasinski is showing how powerful it can be to combine humility, positivity and humor. In this video we'll be covering 5 ways John Krasinski is able to make you laugh, that you can use in any situation, from school, to work, to dates, that will get people to instantly like you more. We will also cover a major mistake people make, and how you can avoid it.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:18 - #1: Use go to stories. 1:10 - #2: Act out your characters. 3:01 - #3: Be comfortable using self-deprecating humor. 4:20 - #4: Tell jokes that elevate other people. 5:43 - #5: Double-down on other people's jokes. 7:21 - Mistake: Be genuine and share your emotions. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #JohnKrasinski #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Emotional Mastery: https://bit.ly/3T8ALua Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Normally, earning respect takes years of demonstrating high character, but there are exceptions. That's why in this video I will cover 6 psychological tricks that you can use to command respect almost instantly.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:16 - #1: Upgrade your thin slice. 1:22 - #2: Physically take up more space. 2:32 - #3: Get comfortable with platonic touch. 3:59 - #4: Don't allow yourself to be cut off. 6:07 - #5: Compliment your competition. 8:17 - #6: Openly share your shortcomings. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I was browsing YouTube today, and I noticed something interesting. As I scroll through the feed I noticed that there were several videos with Bill Gates in them that had a lot of views, and a terrible like to dislike ratio. And as I click on them I see that the comments are either turned off or absolutely awful. What is it that Bill is doing that makes him so hard to trust (from a charisma perspective)? In this video we'll look at why that is, and what you can do to avoid falling in the same trap.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  2:12 - #1: He smiles at inappropriate times. 3:20 - #2: Bill appears hesitant in his speech. 3:37 - #3: Bill swallows a lot. 6:50 - #4: Bill is missing the positive / effusive emotions. 8:07 - #5: Bill lacks dynamics. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BillGates #BodyLanguage #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With everything going on in the world, online dating is booming. That means more and more noobies are joining, and more of the same, common mistakes are being made. You don't want to be that person, because that means you'll be getting fewer matches, and you'll have a lower chance of meeting someone you really like. That's why in this video I want to cover 5 of the most common mistakes people make on these dating apps, and what you can do instead so that you can stand out from the crowd and get more matches.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:25 - #1: Your bio. 2:16 - #2: Your photos. 3:36 - #3: Your opening message. 4:50 - #4: Not leaving the app. 6:09 - #5: Not meeting up. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #OnlineDating #Tinder #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we're going to look at one of my favorite "charisma icons", Russell Brand. He's one of the sharpest people when it comes to speaking off the cuff. Which is why in this video we'll be looking at Russell Brand's most savage moments, and see what we can learn from them :-) Russell Brand on MSNBC video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9Na6CmJwn4 Russell Brand VS Donald Trump word choice video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgTlQgabv2o ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - Clip #1 1:09 - Clip #2 2:02 - Clip #3 2:29 - Clip #4 3:16 - Clip #5 4:28 - Clip #6 4:42 - Clip #7 5:49 - Clip #8 6:23 - Clip #9 7:35 - Clip #10 8:00 - Clip #11 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Check out Emotional Mastery: https://bit.ly/3rIp5mv Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether we call it stress, worry, or just planning - nearly all of us struggle with some form of anxiety, but not Sadhguru.  So in this video, we’re going to break down how you can overcome anxiety (and the fear of being judged) in the instant you feel them.  We’ll also cover how you can shift your mindset so that they don’t bother you in the first place. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:28 - #1: Reveal your palms. 1:40 - #2: Replace filler words with pure silence. 3:10 - #3: Use re-framed phrases. 5:02 - #4: First accept, then change. 7:18 - #5: Stop depending on the external world to make you happy. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Sadhguru #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3zIG9gl Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe David Dobrik is a popular guy, not only with his massive audience, but also with very different types of friends including his vlog squad buddies, Jason Nash who is 20 years older and the one and only John Stamos. In this video we’ll dive into how you can be insanely popular without being an inauthentic try hard.   ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:21 - #1: David Dobrik makes you laugh. 3:55 - #2: He uses a lot of high impact words. 7:32 - #3: He's very comfortable with self-deprecating humor. 8:58 - #4: He puts the spotlight on other people. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #DavidDobrik #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and two Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Emotional maturity creates strength and resilience in the face of life's obstacles, but pinning down what emotional maturity looks like and how it's developed can be hard to do. In this video we're going to cover 7 specific signs that you're emotionally mature, and if not, 7 things you can do to begin working on it. Animation by Zeino: http://youtube.com/zeino ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:16 - #1: Emotionally mature people do not demonize exes. 0:48 - #2: Recognize that they contribute to bad experience. 1:43 - #3: Do not take responsibility for other people's feelings. 2:38 - #4: Get angry, sad and anxious. 3:27 - #5: Don't need to dwell or wallow. 4:02 - #6: Can speak about emotions without getting emotional. 4:31 - #7: Can pause. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Animation #Zeino -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3ejuNYW Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Almost all of our expectations about love and relationships have been set by Hollywood. The problem is that these movies are putting absurd ideas into your mind about what love really looks like, which can lead to some boneheaded decision making, maybe even ruining what could have been a great relationship. So in this video we’ll look at 8 ways Hollywood ruins your relationships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:32 - #1: Movies train us to substitute emotional intensity for emotional quality. 2:09 - #2: The perfect person will magically take interest because they see the real you deep inside. 3:20 - #3: Love at first sight 4:13 - #4: Love, in Hollywood, is proven by ignoring explicit rejection. 5:43 - #5: Giving large unrequested gifts as a way to make amends. 7:14 - #6: Pursuing someone who is currently in a relationship is romantic and not at all doomed to failure. 8:12 - #7: Suffering, dependence and self sacrifice are all treated as indicators of love. 9:22 - #8: A romantic relationship is the solution to the problem of life. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #DatingMistakes -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Want to work for Charisma on Command? https://www.charismaoncommand.com/writer2020/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today's video is a fun one. Charlie will be reacting to some pick up videos, and potentially see what we can learn from them! Let us know what you think of this style of video by leaving a comment down below! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:11 - Video #1: Are you Pikachu? 0:43 - Video #2: Earthquake pick up line. 1:46 - Video #3: Confidently speaking nonsense. 2:29 - Video #4: Space buns pick up line. 3:03 - Video #5: "You shine brighter than any diamond". 3:50 - Video #6: Great attire. 5:39 - Video #7: Girl picking up girl. 5:56 - Video #8: Girl picking up guy. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #CharismaCoachReacts -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UtzZc9 Kevin Hart - 3 Tips To Instantly Tell Better Stories: https://youtu.be/vn_L4OPU_rg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With 3 consecutive Grammy’s to his name, it’s safe to say that Dave Chappelle’s humor works.  If not for literally everyone then at least for the vast majority of people. So in this video we’re going to explore what we can learn from Dave’s admittedly difficult to imitate style. Because even though getting to Dave's level may be impossible, there are 5 core building blocks that anyone can use to immediately become much funnier. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:35 - #1: Adopt different characters. 1:31 - #2: Adopt the tone and mannerisms of the character. 3:39 - #3: Have good comedic timing. 6:29 - #3: The fake out. 9:31 - #4: The comedic simile. 10:28 - Final mindset. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #DaveChappelle #Comedy #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook and two Audible Originals for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text "charisma" to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe It’s scarily true that powerful psychological tricks can be used against us to make good people do bad things. So in this video we’ll be looking at the realm of persuasion that some call brainwashing to explore the psychological tricks cults, sociopaths, and manipulative others use to make good people do bad things. Hopefully these red flags prevent you from falling victim, either in a toxic relationship or from a predatory organization. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:59 - #1: Separating you and replacing the family unit. 4:38 - #2: Lingo that disguises what is truly happening. 6:11 - #3: They demonize the asking of questions that threaten their authority. 8:11 - #4: Games or tests that reward obedience. 9:29 - #5: Your own desire to be fair is often used against you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Psychology #Cults #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3Nys4rA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Witcher’s Geralt of Rivia is a man of few words, but despite that the is an absolute Beast, and we see that not just through his swordsmanship, but through Henry Cavill’s commanding physical portrayal of Geralt. That’s why in this video we’ll be breaking down 4 body language tips that you can use to instantly make your body language come across as more confident. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:25 - #1: Geralt has slow, languid movements. 2:27 - #2: Geralt is very comfortable turning his back on others. 3:55 - #3: Confident people can afford to handicap themselves. 7:07 - #4: Geralt is extremely non-reactive. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TheWitcher #Geralt #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3WtSJKj Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A sad irony of the Joker is that it’s only after his descent into madness that Arthur appears happy and confident But of course turning on the world isn’t the only way to feel mentally strong, and that’s why in this video I want to use Arthur’s story to talk about 5 habits that kill your mental fortitude & confidence and what you can do instead to build mental toughness. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:40 - #1: Arthur often engages in fantasy. 1:57 - #2: Arthur lacks self efficacy. 4:23 - #3: Arthur has no outlet where he can honestly express his emotions. 5:46 - #4: Arthur inadvertently disowns aspects of himself. 7:04 - #5: Everything we have discussed results in Arthur’s total hatred of the world. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Joker #ArthurFleck #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: Constance - The Descent by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100850 Artist: http://incompetech.com/

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3sYOfxO Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Changing someone’s mind is hard. I believe a huge part of the reason boils down to the fact that we often trigger one another’s emotional defenses before the content of our arguments can be evaluated. That’s why in this video I want to give you 5 do’s and don’ts to actually change someones mind and we’ll be using Steven Crowder’s “Change My Mind” segment to do it . ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:48 - #1: When persuading someone, go slow. 2:10 - #2: Build rapport. 4:08 - #3: Don't use insults. 5:49 - #4: Concisely summarize how the other person feels. 7:45 - #5: Make it clear that you're speaking from your individual perception of reality. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #StevenCrowder #ChangeMyMind -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3sVGKYo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe It’s frustratingly common to get completely tongue tied when we’re in front of people we’d like to impress. Which is doubly unfortunate because it’s often those situations that could lead to us landing a great new job, connecting with a mentor, or even dating someone we’re smitten with. That’s why in this video I want to cover how you can avoid that awkward trap and impress the people you admire by standing out in a positive way. To do that, we’ll be referencing someone who has done it many times: Sean Evans of Hot Ones. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  1:38 - #1: Ask questions beyond the obvious ones. 3:09 - #2: Use the question preamble. 4:48 - #3: Steer conversation towards things that elicit emotion. 7:40 - #4: Tease playfully / have fun. 9:18 - #5: Comfortably express disagreement. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HotOnes #SeanEvans #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3T8qP3w Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account:  http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jumanji is back and once again, The Rock, Kevin Hart, and Jack Black are getting back together.  All three are super charismatic, we’ve covered them in previous breakdowns, but today I thought it’d be fun to combine their strengths to talk about how you can build rock-solid confidence from the ground up, going from shy to confident. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  0:25 - #1: Command attention. 4:38 - #2: Share the spotlight (turn it back on the other person). 8:13 - #3: Fully commit to your actions. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Jumanji #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get 3 months of Audible for just $6.95 a month. Choose 1 audiobook and 2 Audible Originals absolutely free. Visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text Charisma to 500 500! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We've done several videos on this channel on how you can command respect through very subtle behavioral shifts, but there's a flip side to this. You can lose respect through very small behaviors, and you are probably doing several of these today. In this video I will be talking about 7 common behaviors that I see all the time, that are causing you to lose respect, and what you can do instead so that you stop. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:22 - #1: When the first thing you do is sharing your achievements. 1:38 - #2: Diverting your attention. 2:51 - #3: How you handle being interrupted. 4:01 - #4: Not following through on your words. 5:05 - #5: Instantly changing your energy levels based on who you're talking to. 6:34 - #6: Selling to your friends and family. 7:58 - #7: Lapses in honesty & integrity. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University / CTA: https://bit.ly/3Ui2rha Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Paul Rudd is almost universally well-liked. And after watching his most recent Hot Ones interview, I realized he makes an excellent example of some of the most fundamental and easy to implement charisma principles, that nonetheless most people just skip. So in this video we’ll be covering those 5 core principles and what you can do to make sure you’re not one of the people who are getting it wrong. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:19 - #1: Don't skip the friendly touch when first meeting someone. 1:31 - #2: Joke about others in a positive manner. 3:19 - #3: Support other people's jokes. 5:23 - #4: Use direct and genuine compliments. 7:48 - #5: Turn the question back on the other person. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PaulRudd #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Our breakdown on Oprah: https://youtu.be/v-ps2nfkAiA Our breakdown on Chris Hemsworth: https://youtu.be/T5_KFy6qy-A Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to the podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Learning things slowly is a bummer. Unfortunately, that is the route I see people go when it comes to learning confidence and charisma.  That's why in this video I want to give you 5 tips for taking everything you've learned on this channel, and making it an unthinking habit much more quickly. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰  2:22 - #1: Test your hypothesis in the real world. 2:43 - #2: Be aware of what makes a charismatic impression on you. 4:15 - #3: Bounce your ideas off a friend. 4:29 - #4: Don't try to do everything at once. 5:26 - #5: Model someone you look up to. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #Podcast -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3NxH4pI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Okay, you guys win. By far the most requested breakdown of the last several months is here: Thomas Shelby. Today we will dig in to what you can learn from him when it comes to staying cool in high pressure situations and then how you can use your wits to come out ahead. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:40 - #1: He rarely overreacts in situations of extreme pressure. 7:00 - #2: Thomas gives both the carrot and the stick. 8:48 - #3: His ability to turn trash into resources. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TommyShelby #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3Dyu26J Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Whether you realize it or not, negotiations are happening in your life all the time. They have a profound effect both in your personal relationships and the working world. Which is why in this video, I want to give you a 4 step system that you can use to maximize what you get out of any negotiation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:14 - #1: Identify what your real objective is. 2:24 - #2: Make a list of all the ways you can get to your objective. 3:14 - #3: You need to fall in love with your no deal option. 6:10 - #4: Speak the entire process out loud to the person that you're negotiating with. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HowToNegotiate #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join 14,000+ members at Charisma University! https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Check out our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Want to start a Global Language channel? Apply here: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/ytflc/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes arguments can get heated and spiral out of control. So while we all want to win an argument, not making an enemy in the process can be even more important. Which is why today we’ll be looking at Trevor Noah and what you can learn from him about coming out of verbal scruffs not only on top, but looking cool calm and collected. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:28 - #1: Sub-communicate that you're not there for a fight. 3:46 - #2: Ask questions instead of making statements. 6:39 - #3: Confidently defend yourself without coming across as antagonistic. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TrevorNoah #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2psreFK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NQiHtbpa8s Harvey Specter isn't exactly the perfect man. He can be rude, emotionally stunted and sarcastic. But even though he is flawed and of course fictional, his portrayal can teach you quite a bit about confidence and power in the real world. So in this video you’ll learn concrete steps and deeper mindsets for conveying a deep sense of confidence and power. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone. 4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult. 5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress. 8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario. 9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HarveySpecter #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fwpPsr Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe George Clooney has a subtle and almost effortless charm. And unlike some of the people we’ve covered on the channel, you don’t have to take drastic steps to emulate it. So today, we’re going to be looking at some of the habits that makes Clooney so effortlessly charismatic and learn what you can do to convey that same charm in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:15 - Lesson #1: Focus on setting the tone for the interaction. 2:37 - Lesson #2: Laugh with your eyes. 3:56 - Lesson #3: Genuine eye contact. 5:57 - Lesson #4: Self deprecating humor & complimenting others. 7:57 - Lesson #5: George’s goal is to feel good. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GeorgeClooney #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff: Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast channel: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Our minds are littered with booby traps. If we’re not careful we fall into one of those traps and all of the sudden it becomes harder to feel happy, and to develop yourself further. That’s why in this video I will be giving you 5 tricks that your mind is playing on you all the time. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:16 - #1: The “free” trap. 1:48 - #2: Projection. 3:36 - #3: Social proof. 5:46 - #4: Choosing integrity over honesty. 7:50 - #5: We try to recapture something in the same way that we lost it. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Get your first audiobook plus two Audible originals free when you try Audible for 30 days, go to https://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Staying confident in embarrassing / nerve wracking situations can be tricky. Unfortunately those are the times you need your confidence the most. In this video we will be using Margot Robbie to demonstrate 5 things that will make sure you stay confident, even in situations where you might normally feel embarrassed or nervous. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - #1: Smile more frequently. 2:29 - #2: Give yourself permission to be authentic and transparent. 4:16 - #3: Lean into the embarrassment to minimize it and regain confidence. 6:39 - #4: Break the golden rule. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #MargotRobbie #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n In this clip from The Charlie & Ben Podcast, the guys answer the question “How do I stop valuing things that make me unhappy?” Putting value in things such as money and prestige can be self sabotaging, but Charlie & Ben give their advice for changing your mindset and increasing your likelihood of happiness and success. Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3rHtG8l Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Aubrey Plaza is pretty well known for her awkward moments. Despite and even because of her awkwardness she is extremely popular, successful and attractive to a lot of people. Which is why in this video we’re going to break down how to turn YOUR awkward moments into ones that actually make people more drawn towards you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:03 - 1A: Introduce yourself with some form of physical touch. 1:19 - 1B: Call out awkward moments when they happen. 2:27 - 2A: Lean into the awkwardness even further. 3:09 - 2B: Call out when you see someone making these social mistakes. 3:59 - 3: Add a sentence to your one word answer. 5:03 - 4A: Flat deliveries work best when what you are saying is outlandish. 5:25 - 4B: Laugh at yourself or simply explain yourself. 6:34 - 5: Introduce a “hard pivot”- Do/say something even more awkward than the situation itself. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AubreyPlaza #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Help us get clean water to those in need: https://charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There’s no rule book for how to have an incredible relationship. And that means that a lot of us (myself included) make tons of mistakes. I’m turning 32 on October 5th. And as I look back on the last decade or so, I realize that I’ve done some things wrong. Which is why in this video I want to share with you 7 things I wish I knew in my 20s. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - #1: People change because of internal motivation. 2:01 - #2: Chemistry is a phase. 2:24 - #3: People who are fundamentally friends have the strongest relationships. 3:49 - #4: Duration is a bad measure of quality. 4:47 - #5: Conversation shouldn't have to change when he/she enters the room. 6:01 - #6: Never give up your friendships because of a relationship. 7:24 - #7: You need to show your work emotionally. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3zHPlSl Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Shia Labeouf has had some incredible swings of popularity in his life. From child actor to blockbuster megastar, outcast, and now to an indie hit maker. In this video we’re going to learn how Shia has gone from those low points to regaining popularity, all without being fake. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:28 - #1: Have good sub communication. 1:15 - #2: Slow it down when telling stories. 2:12 - #3: Make eye contact during your main points. 2:44 - #4: Be more honest. 4:27 - #5: Be vulnerable in a non attention-seeking way. 6:13 - #6: Be non-judgemental. 9:19 - #7: Focus on the quality of your connections. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ShiaLabeouf #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3TbnukW Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe You probably know that your body language says a lot about you, but what you might not know is what it’s saying all the time. That’s why in this video, I thought it might be fun to cover 7 things that your body language at some point is telling other people, so that you can come across as more confident and likeable. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:23 - Sign #1: Scanning the room: You come across as boring 1:32 - Sign #2: Not letting people interrupt: Singles you out as a leader 2:59 - Sign #3: Leaning against something: You are the centre point 4:06 - Sign #4: Having your hands in your pockets: Signals nervousness 4:29 - Sign #5: Using precise and open gestures: You seem more confident 5:15 - Sign #6: Hanging your head: It makes the problem seem worse 6:27 - Sign #7: The eyebrow flash: Communicates friendliness -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BodyLanguage #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook and 2 Audible Originals free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500 Watch our video on Oprah: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-ps2nfkAiA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe No one teaches you how to flirt, which is a shame, because it means that sometimes, even with the best of intentions, you can come across as creepy. In fact, it’s more common than you might think. If you like someone you do NOT want that to be the case. In this video, you’re going to learn 4 common ways that you might be creeping your flirt out without even realizing it. You will also learn what you can do to adjust so that you come across as cool, confident and suave. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:22 - Adjustment #1: Use the goldilocks rule when making eye contact. 1:14 - Adjustment #2: Combine sincere compliments with a joke. 2:07 - Adjustment #3: Your touch should not be too light or heavy. 3:05 - Adjustment #4: Don’t make them feel trapped. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HowToFlirt #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Check out Zeino: http://www.youtube.com/zeino Story-board & illustrations: Zeino Animation: Guilherme Janini / Eija Riihjärvi Music + SFX: Cody Codbarley Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fB1v8K Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe With the exception of the big one, Avengers Endgame has almost no fight scenes. That’s because the core of the drama is the character’s internal struggles. Almost every Avenger starts out lacking in confidence and self-esteem, then they must go on their own journeys to reclaim those things. In this video, we will look at 5 key mindsets that raise your self-esteem and confidence, as shown through each character’s journey. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:42 - Mindset #1: Failure does not make you unworthy of happiness or love. 3:06 - Mindset #2: Offer yourself as much compassion as you would a dear friend. 4:42 - Mindset #3: Don’t deny responsibility for what you do now. 6:33 - Mindset #4: You need to learn a healthy, enlightened selfishness. 8:22 - Mindset #5: No matter what, you will be okay. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Endgame #CharismaOnCommand #MCU -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Tags: charismaoncommand, charisma on command, coc, charisma, charlie houpert + Tube buddy tags

Check out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UfAqXo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Tom Hanks has one of the most captivating personalities in Hollywood. What’s interesting is that his charm has much less to do with what he is saying compared to how he says it. So in this video, we’re going to break down 4 habits that make everything Tom says more interesting, and how you can use these to ensure that you are never boring in conversation, even if you don’t have super interesting topics to talk about. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - Habit #1: He uses a story gap. 1:45 - Habit #2: He inhabits the character/action that he is talking about. 4:02 - Habit #3: Tom uses dynamics. 6:02 - Habit #4: Tom includes everyone in the group. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHanks #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: http://simplehabit.com/confident Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes becoming powerful can make people act like jerks. The same thing can happen as you improve your charisma, which is a measure of social power. If you’re not careful you can become a domineering leader that is dislike for how you wield that social clout. In this video we are covering 3 common myths about being an alpha personality that actually just make people dislike you, and what tweaks you can make to be a respected leader that people love to be around. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:44 - Myth #1: They direct attention towards themselves. 3:27 - Myth #2: They are intimidating with their bodies. 6:02 - Myth #3: They are stoically unimpressed. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Alpha #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3SSdEVk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe For many men, Don Draper is the epitome of confidence. What most people don’t realize is that confidence actually comes in two flavors. There is the external confidence that you project, which can make closing deals, making friends or seducing happen more naturally. There is also the internal confidence you feel which is how comfortable you are in any given situation. In this video, we’re going to analyze what Don can teach us about both levels of confidence, and how mastering each level can take you from being nervous to completely confident in any situation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Lesson #1: His relaxed body language. 2:58 - Lesson #2: Don is non-reactive. 5:18 - Lesson #3: He doesn’t try to convince other people. 6:57 - Lesson #4: The belief that he will be okay, no matter what. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #DonDraper #CharismaOnCommand #Confidence -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Want to work with Charisma on Command? (Writing position) https://bit.ly/30KNvvV Check out our new podcast! https://bit.ly/2JDS2Lz If you’ve been watching this channel for a while you might have realized that the most interesting and useful psychological tricks that we talk about are not taught in school. Good news is, that’s where we come in! In this video, we’re going to cover 5 psychological tricks that can get you more of what you want from life, more easily. These are very useful in scenarios where you’re trying to persuade someone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Trick #1: The word “but”. 1:28 - Trick #2: A double bind. 2:52 - Trick #3: Visualization. 4:53 - Trick #4: Framing. 6:28 - Trick #5: Scarcity. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #5 Psychological Tricks -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: http://simplehabit.com/charlie Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Very few people can control a conversation better than a comedian. They have arsenals of jokes that put rude people in their place and redirect the flow of conversation. Even when there isn’t a conflict, when a joke lands and everybody laughs - there is a period of space where you can redirect the conversation wherever you like. In this video we are going to look at 3 specific types of jokes that Russell Brand uses to masterfully control a confrontation on MSNBC. We’re also going to see how you can use these same jokes to confidently steer conversation in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Joke #1: Unpointed wit. 2:38 - Joke #2: Purposeful misinterpretation. 4:20 - Joke #3: Sarcasm. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3UkcHoS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Like it or not we have all been awkward at different points in our lives. Sometimes that awkwardness gets in the way of connecting with other people or even feeling confident in ourselves. Awkwardness doesn’t need to be the end of the line. In fact, if you handle yourself well you can turn awkwardness (whether it’s just a moment or a way of being) into confidence. Which is what we are covering in this video featuring Tom Holland. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - Point #1: Adjust your body language. 4:05 - Point #2: Handle friendly teasing. 6:39 - Point #3: Tell your own embarrassing stories. 9:37 - Point #4: Let go of managing people’s opinion of you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHolland #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Click Here To Donate: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature. So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others. 2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence. 3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures. 5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type. 7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #KeanuReeves #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/confidence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe You’re going to come across some conversational bullies in the course of your life. Generally, people try to shut them down with insults and aggression, and some others prefer to walk away from these interactions to avoid that kind of negativity. But there is a third, potentially more effective way to deal with these toxic people. Russell Brand, for instance, tries to take control of the conversation instead of shutting it down. This allows him to stand up for himself without coming across like a jerk. His interview with three hosts at the MSNBC morning show is a perfect example of the main strategies that you can use to dominate any bully in any conversation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:55 - Practice #1: Continue speaking until the end of your sentence. 1:55 - Practice #2: Treat each member of a group as an individual. 2:51 - Practice #3: Emphasize similarities with other members. 10:01 - Practice #4: Learn to detach your ego from personal attacks. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook and 2 Audible Originals free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations. On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening 4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring 6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea 6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SophieTurner #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3U1aAXk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview. Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns 3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions 7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it 11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Watch more: Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyBIT0Q7fOc 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM 7 Reasons Ben Shapiro Is So Dominant In Debates https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JY5t6iUzajk Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast channel: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are making a tier list of Game of Thrones characters ranked by their charisma. Keep in mind that we are not judging charisma in modern day times, like who you would sit down and get a beer with. It's Game of Thrones charisma, which means: Are you persuasive? Do your plans work out? This might make you a wrong person, but you can still be highly charismatic. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:29 - F Tier 3:09 - D Tier 5:48 - C Tier 7:44 - B Tier 10:48 - A Tier 15:15 - S Tier -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameofThrones #CharismaOnCommand #TierList -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are talking about self-doubt. The particular self-doubt that gets in your head, maybe when you’ve gotten a promotion, or you just started dating someone that is a bit out of your league. It says: “You don’t deserve this, you shouldn't be here”. This is called imposter syndrome, and unfortunately, it can make you self sabotage the thing that you just got so you fall back to where you feel comfortable, even though you were deserving of what you had. Which is why in this video, I will talk about three behavioral changes to CRUSH imposter syndrome. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:55 - Change #1: You will not overstate what you can do going forwards 3:32 - Change #2: Take honest stock of your past, then see if you can help 4:50 - Change #3: Focus on creating results for the people around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #ImposterSyndrome -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n How To Make An Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2VPE2po Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We all handle relationships in different ways. One powerful way to understand these differences is through the lens of Attachment Theory. According to psychologists, there are four main “attachment styles” which have a profound effect on our relationships. In this video, we’ll break down these different styles using some iconic characters, and show how you can use this knowledge to improve your relationships with everyone around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Style #1: Avoidant 3:01 - Style #2: Anxious 6:03 - Style #3: Fearful 9:27 - Style #4: Secure -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #AttachmentTheory -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: www.bensound.com

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3CJyu3i Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing. Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation. 1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell” 4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself. 7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter. 9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrieLarson #CharismaOnCommand #MCU -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Learn How To Make An Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2UJ56RN Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Iron Man has some of the most savage moments in the entire Marvel Cinematic Universe. There is actually a consistent pattern between these moments that makes them so satisfying to watch, and so useful if you apply the lessons to your own life. In this video we are going to be breaking down Iron Man’s most savage moments, so that you can learn to command respect in any situation. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - Pattern #1: Iron Man is an expert at using humor 2:45 - Pattern #2: Iron Man is incredibly decisive 6:09 - Pattern #3: Robert Downey JR’s powerful body language -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #IronMan #CharismaOnCommand #RobertDowneyJR -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

6 Types Of Charisma Women Find Irresistible: https://youtu.be/cpHNwgM1_oE Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Avengers Endgame is finally here! One of the things that stands out the most as I watch clips from Avengers Infinity War in preparation is how much people love Thanos. You can learn quite a bit from dangerous personalities like Thanos’ by taking pieces and adding them to your own charisma arsenal, which is why in this video, I want to explore 3 ways that dangerous personalities can actually be more attractive. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:44 - Reason #1: They’re non-reactive 2:26 - Reason #2: They have extreme conviction 4:56 - Reason #3: They tend to carry out random and surprising acts of kindness -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Thanos #CharismaOnCommand #AvengersEndgame -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3NxIUH2 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe While watching clips from the previous Game of Thrones breakdown, I came across some cast interview clips, and I could not help but notice how effortlessly charming Emilia Clarke was. Emilia displays a number of charismatic habits, though, while seemingly simple, are extremely powerful. In this video, we are going to break down 4 of Emilia’s habits that make her so charming. These might seem very simple at first, but there are nuances that take them from ordinary basic advice to habits that can make you extremely charismatic if you hit the nuance. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:38 - Habit #1: ”Smile frequently (and genuinely)” 2:59 - Habit #2: “Build other people up” 5:29 - Habit #3: “Raise the energy in your interactions” 7:21 - Habit #4: “Be an active listener” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #EmiliaClarke #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/confidence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Todays video is a fun one. I will be reacting to some cringe videos, and potentially see what we can learn from them! Let me know what you think of this new style of video by leaving a comment down below! ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:18 - Video #1: “Guy Awkwardly Trying To Pick Up Girls” 1:30 - Video #2: “Awkward Dating Show Moment” 3:19 - Video #3: “Girl Rejects Kiss” 4:45 - Video #4: “PewDiePie Handshake Fail on Conan O’ Brien” 5:40 - Video #5: “Leafs Bernier Calls Nelson Mandela One Of The Most Known Athletes” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CringeCompilation #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/confidence Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There are no classes in school that teach you how to flirt, and unfortunately what that means is that when you go out into the world to do it, sometimes some weird things can escape your mouth. Which is why in this video, I will be giving you five things that you should NEVER say when flirting, as well as some things that you can say instead. ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:16 - Phrase #1: “That person is…” 1:19 - Phrase #2: “That’s amazing!” 2:41 - Phrase #3: “Do you want to go out sometime?” 3:37 - Phrase #4: “Can I get your number?” 4:34 - Phrase #5: “You would look better if you…” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #HowToFlirt #CharismaOnCommand #Dating -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Game of Thrones has kept its fans hooked for over 20 years. The excitement that I and millions of other people feel as season 8 approaches is a testament to the power of its storytelling. In this video, I want to talk about 3 reasons its story is so genius, and show how those reasons predict how it all ends, based on the structure of the story. ​ ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - Reason #1: Fiction often treats good & evil as uncrossing opposites 2:43 - Reason #2: Drama is built on the reversal of fortune 5:24 - Reason #3: Game of Thrones is a hidden Hero's Journey -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameOfThrones #CharismaOnCommand #GoTSeason8 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Become A Member Of Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3ROrPZS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The first impressions that you make often hinge on the smallest of things. It can be a gesticulation or a choice of words. Your first impressions snap into place in just seven seconds. These judgments are influenced by a number of factors. Choosing the right things to say and do will affect your relationship with the person you are meeting with in a big way. In this video, I want to share 5 phrases I hear all the time that can destroy your charisma. I will also give you some things that you can say instead, so that you can continue to make amazing first impressions, and become your most confident, charismatic self in the moments that matter the most! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:23 - Phrase #1: ”Sorry for taking your time” 1:45 - Phrase #2: “Fine” 3:03 - Phrase #3: “Hey…” 4:06 - Phrase #4: “Nice to see you” 5:07 - Phrase #5: “Can I buy you a drink/coffee?” -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #FirstImpression #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

How To Make an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2HCHuLC Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sam Harris has been one of the world's most formidable debaters for nearly 20 years. Sam has gone toe to toe with other people we've covered on the channel, like Ben Shapiro & Jordan Peterson, and he has held his own. In this video, we will break down 5 reasons Sam Harris is so excellent in his debates, and how you too can use these tactics to your advantage. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:50 Tip #1: Identify the premise 1:14 Tip #2: Apply your opponents logic to extreme situations 3:41 Tip #3: Use conciliatory statements 5:08 Tip #4: Frequently crack jokes 6:22 Tip #5: Use vivid, specific imagery Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Upsu7k 5 Habits That Guarantee You Become Charismatic: https://youtu.be/Takobi8jsEI Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This video seems quite hypocritical, especially on this channel. Mainly because we talk a lot about impressing others, how to seem cool, confident and general tips to increase your charisma. However, there is a fine line between genuine charisma and people pleasing, and the latter is exactly what we DON’T want. So today, let’s dive into the subtle signs of people pleasing that you are likely doing so we can solve them and crush them for good! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Sign #1: Mismatch Between What You’re Saying And What You’re Thinking 1:43 - Sign #2: Setting Up “Covert Contracts” 2:53 - Sign #3: Difference In Behaviour Between Groups 4:18 - Solution #1: Listen To Your Internal Voice 5:12 - Solution #2: Be Creative In Expressing Your Real Self 6:05 - Solution #3: Pay Attention To Consistent Personality Traits 7:25 - How To Make An Amazing First Impression -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PeoplePleasing #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2H01c4h Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown https://youtu.be/dVLERJ5IdrA Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers: https://youtu.be/liJbB_0eCTo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Mr. Beast has been blowing up the past year. He’s all over my suggested feeds. He’s commonly known for ridiculous stunts like saying Logan Paul thousands of times or donating yearly incomes worth of money to streamers and strangers. Today I want to show you Mr. Beast’s climb to success so you can get a better understanding of what it takes to get millions of views and subscribers. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:45 - Step #1: Put In The Work 1:38 - Step #2: Stop Trying To Find Shortcuts 3:21 - Step #3: Choose The Path That Interests You 4:00 - Step #4: He Makes His Content About Other People 5:50 - Step #5: He Invests In Growth -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #MrBeast #CharismaOnCommand #Success -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Become a Charisma University member: https://bit.ly/3DZk6EM How To Spot A Liar: https://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe There are people in this world that are looking to take advantage of you. Many of these signs are subtle and take a trained eye to catch them. Today we will dive into the mind of a narcissist so you can learn what signs to look out for when meeting someone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:23 - Sign #1: Obsessed With Their Image 1:56 - Sign #2: Lie About Ridiculous Things 3:27 - Sign #3: Different Relationship With Lying 7:03 - Sign #4: They Don’t Give Up On Their Lies 8:32 - Sign #5: They Will Dismiss You -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Narcissist #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music by: CO.AG Music "Peaceful Ambient Background Music - Heroes" ​

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/charisma 7 Red Flags In Dating You Should NEVER Ignore: https://youtu.be/oMH_WWL9Rac Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Dating certainly isn’t easy, and if you’re like me, you may have had made some mistakes in your dating life. These are the mistakes that actually resulted in why my ex and I broke up… If I simply understand what I was doing wrong, chances are we still would’ve had an awesome relationship. Since I’ve realized these common dating errors, it’s had a tremendous benefit on my life and I want to share them with you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 3:57 - Point #1: Don’t Go Anywhere You Don’t Want To Go 4:23 - Point #2: Don’t Stick To Things That Are Safe 4:50 - Point #3 See If You Have Created A Split Personality -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.ourmusicbox.com/willingtotry

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get their Presidents’ Day promotion now through February 18th: Audible for $7.95/month for the first 3 months. Go to http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500 How To Make Someone Trust You: https://youtu.be/7TR4N4WOadM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Theo Von’s charisma is quite refreshing as it's not flashy. He doesn’t have to scream, say ridiculous statements, or do strange gestures. He’s the antithesis of the dancing monkey; cool, calm, collected and charming. Today I want to touch upon 3 points so we can understand Theo’s charisma and implement his tricks to better our social skills. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:50 - Point #1: Isn’t An Over The Top Attention Grabber 2:45 - Point #2: Active Listening 6:20 - Point #3: Non-Judgemental Authenticity Arabic: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbkEIWrL4Xf8ndZzQkSmNuQ Hindi: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi3vbgNWFQj1i6dffA2BhZg Mandarin: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCWYXUqJvK92r3bROSSyNqg -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TheoVon #CharismaOnCommand #SocialDynamics -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2DRkZ32 How To Be More Self Aware: https://youtu.be/R3kkqOzjrM4 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe What I’m about to say sounds pretty ridiculous… But… Stop changing people! I don’t mean stop caring, stop having compassion and turn the other way when people ask for your help. Quite the contrary. It’s important to be empathetic, have compassion and help those in need. However is it NOT your responsibility (and even within your capability) to change people. They have to be willing to do that themselves. Resources: Yoga Meditation Surfing Hiking PD Seminars Reading (fiction and non-fiction) Volunteering Connecting with family of origin Isolation events (whether a tank or a cabin in the woods) Vigorous exercise ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Story #1 2:20 - What People Need To Change 3:10 - Story #2 5:40 - Point #1: It’s Not Your Responsibility To Change People 6:35 - Point #2: Re-Try New Activities/Resources That You Abandoned 7:50 - Point #3: You Are Going To Make Mistakes 9:16 - New Channels Announcement ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #SocialSkills #SelfDevelopment ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Language Channels: Arabic: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbkEIWrL4Xf8ndZzQkSmNuQ Hindi: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi3vbgNWFQj1i6dffA2BhZg Mandarin: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCWYXUqJvK92r3bROSSyNqg Russian: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXppDx0xzfKqOafJunzcEw Italian: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChVKViVsVzeI-9BxB0ZM-Nw Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_p2pDMqZ5bjNpQTL3K4r1g Portuguese: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxTTuAGVXR-xz9z5A-6BlEQ German: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLygLz2cBFeh5VEXleTP0aQ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! To start your free 30-day trial and receive a free audio book visit the link below or text "charisma" to 500-500: https://www.audible.com/charisma Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FViqPU My Favorite Non-fiction Books (besides those mentioned in the video; in no particular order) 1.Letting Go - David Hawkins 2. 6 Pillars Of Self Esteem - Nathaniel Branden 3. How to Win Friends And Influence People - Dale Carnegie 4. Essentialism - Greg McKeown 5. Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely 6. The War of Art - Stevem Pressfield 7. Influence - Robert Cialdini 8. A New Earth .- Eckhart Tolle 9. Awaken The Giant Within - Tony Robbins 10. Radical Honesty - Brad Blanton Buckle down and grab your self-development hat… Today we’re going to BUST some myths. It’s pretty interesting how counterintuitive the life advice given by our parents, school and society is. Today we will explore some of this advice. If I didn’t break these beliefs, Charisma On Command wouldn’t have existed... ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:44 - Myth #1: You Need Credentials 2:34 - Myth #2: Wealthy People Got Good Grades 4:25 - Myth #3: Unlimited Freedom Makes You Happy 5:50 - Myth #4: Your 20s Are The Best Time To Grind 7:35 - Myth #5: People Are Born Artists And Create Art When Inspired 9:10 - Book Recommendations ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment #Audible ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: "Willing To Try" by Jay Man - OurMusicBox http://www.youtube.com/c/ourmusicbox

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FKd1tX How To Spot A Liar: https://youtu.be/KLvTSMLIPpM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Audible: https://www.audible.com/charisma I know this sounds a little insane… People are trying to manipulate you ALL THE TIME! No, I’m not joking. Sometimes this comes from a relatively positive place, like when your parents would tell you to eat your veggies so you can get superpowers. BUT people don’t always have your best interest in mind. That’s why we’re going to breakdown what manipulation looks like so you can save yourself! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:51 - Phrase #1: “You Said…” 2:04 - Phrase #2: “I Would Never…” 2:51 - Phrase #3: “Don’t Throw Away ____” 4:16 - Phrase #4: “What A Good Man/Woman Should Be” 6:14 - Phrase #5: “This Is How We Do Things _____________” 8:45 - Book Recommendations ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #CharismaOnCommand #SocialSkills #SelfDevelopment ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3fvIIMa 3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF: https://youtu.be/G_SmshF2ynw Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden): https://youtu.be/MceYE8zxk3Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jack Black posted 2 videos the past week and he’s literally taking over YouTube With nearly 3 million subs in such a short period of time I felt obligated to explain why Jack is so entertaining and loveable Today we’re going to explain Jack’s charisma! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:29 - Point #1: Comfortable With Himself 1:25 - Point #2: Displays and Accepts Weaknesses 3:07 - Point #3: Committed With His Actions 5:21 - Point #4: Very Comfortable Giving Compliments 6:38 - Point #5: Burns People As A Character 8:07 - Charisma University ----------------------------------------------------------------------- #JackBlack #CharismaUniversity #SelfDevelopment ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Free week of premium, Simple Habit:- on your mobile browser, go to http://www.simplehabit.com/charisma Search "Charisma on Command" inside the Simple Habit app to find the exercise for social confidence :-) Thank you to Zeino for the amazing animation! www.youtube.com/zeino Video on using financial stakes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz0dNt6GpRQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3Cl5tK7 Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EYEjNZ 6 Types Of Charisma Women Find Irresistible: https://youtu.be/cpHNwgM1_oE Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe After a decade of researching charismatic individuals, I’ve narrowed down all the forms of charisma into 5 types I’m going to share that with you today so you can see which one you fall into and why these types are charismatic ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Type #1: Authentic 1:44 - Type #2: Self Assured 3:02 - Type #3: Empathetic 4:23 - Type #4: Energetic 5:30 - Type #5: Funny 6:55 - Charisma University ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TypesOfCharisma #CharismaUniversity #SelfDevelopment ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Since this video was published, we've made some changes and we no longer offer the Emotional Mastery program year round. If you want to know the next time Emotional Mastery is available, you can join our email list on our website www.charismaoncommand.com 7 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence: https://youtu.be/Ce2uYAaAdAg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Emotional intelligence is an interesting subject What does it even mean to be “emotionally intelligent?” I’ve gone through most of my life feeling pretty great! I would never blow up on people and I’d hardly get angry Yes I’d get sad here and there but for the most part I felt happy and excited Although that was how I truly felt, the methods, mindsets and techniques I learned were simply unsustainable most of the time So we’re going to dive into where I’m at now and dissecting the flaws of my past approaches ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:40 - Point #1: Flawed Perspective: The Control Aspect 04:40 - Point #2: Suppressing Emotions Doesn’t Work Long Term 11:54 - My Skin Care Routine --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #EmotionalIntelligence #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2GgL0fH Elon Musk, Defining Your Own Vision: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liJbB_0eCTo Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Lebron James is a legend and he never fails to impress the world with his next level plays However, there’s so much more to Lebron than how he dunks and dribbles on court Today we’re going to talk about Lebron’s charisma and mindsets and how we can learn from him as a leader ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:22 - Point #1: Turning Challenges Into Motivation 2:12 - Point #2: Focus On Your Locus Of Control 3:06 - Point #3: Don’t Obsess Over Vanity Metrics 4:40 - Point #4: A Philosophy That Is System Oriented 5:34 - Point #5: Leaders Make It About Other People 6:44 - How To Make Amazing First Impressions ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- #LebronJames #CharismaOnCommand #Leadership ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Interested in managing a foreign language channel? We are especially interested in Arabic, Mandarin, Hindi, and Japanese, but we’re open to just about any other (we already have Russian, Spanish, Portuguese, and Italian) If so, email me at [email protected] with: 1) The subject line in this layout, with the language first and "language channel" after (ex: German Language Channel) 2) A sample of you dubbing any of our videos in the particular language. One minute is enough. This is to make sure you have the basic ability to translate and dub and to give you an idea of what would be involved. 3) A short note explaining why this interests you Best of luck! :) Also if you want to see the other language channels, here they are Russian (courtesy of Erik and his team):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXppDx0xzfKqOafJunzcEw Spanish (courtesy of Lucho): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_p2pDMqZ5bjNpQTL3K4r1g Portuguese (courtesy of Yan): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxTTuAGVXR-xz9z5A-6BlEQ Italian (courtesy of Samuele): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChVKViVsVzeI-9BxB0ZM-Nw Be More Self Aware: https://youtu.be/R3kkqOzjrM4 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I sometimes think back like “I wish I knew that at 20…” or “Imagine where I would be now if I took more action…” and “If only I bought bitcoin when it was $1…” I’m sure you’ve all been there This fueled the idea of today’s video 7 tips that I wish I knew when I was 20, now in your hands to implement! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:34 - Point #1: Constant Criticism About You Is Probably True 1:09 - Point #2: 90% Of Negotiation Success Is In Starting It 2:13 - Point #3: Scarcity Is Often A Sales Tactic 3:26 - Point #4: Arguing Over Life Philosophies Is A Waste Of Time 4:27 - Point #5: Value Experience Over Theory 5:37 - Point #6: Remove Lies Of Omission 6:36 - Point #7: Growth Comes When You Do The Opposite 7:59 - Foreign Channel Announcement ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ #LifeAdvice #CharismaOnCommand #SelfDevelopment ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Using this link, new members can get 3 months of Audible for just $6.95 a month. Go to https://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500 Flirting Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVYuMhjk58o&list=PLefV978fp07dLgZhVLE8J5dSlQX7z-iKH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you ever been confused on whether someone likes you? Maybe you’ve been indirectly flirting, at least verbally, but have been blowing your cover with your body language What are the signs? Fear not, Charisma on Command is back again to slay the confusion dragon Today we’re talking about 5 common indicators of interest! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:30 - Point #1: How The Person Breaks Eye Contact 1:13 - Point #2: How They Touch You 1:59 - Point #3: How They Touch Themselves 3:04 - Point #4: Where Their Body Points 4:26 - Point #5: How They Talk About Potential Admirers --------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dating #CharismaOnCommand #BodyLanguage --------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Ly0j2j Why PewDiePie Is Unstoppable: https://youtu.be/-31CYrfMMTY Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I know, we’ve finally reached the inevitable tragedy... PewDiePie has lost the sub wars with T series. Regardless, we all know who’s number one in our hearts! Aside from the hot pursuit, today we’re going to take a look at how Felix’s charisma has grown, his use of clickbait, and how he’s trumped the big media scandals of the past. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:45 - Point #1: PewDiePie Is A Master Of Capturing Attention 1:54 - Point #2: PewDiePie Is Self Aware 4:31 - Point #3: PewDiePie Makes Content He Actually Likes 5:34 - Point #4: PewDiePie Seems Happier ------------------------------------------------------------------- #PewDiePie #CharismaOnCommand #SubWars ------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions For An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Fvcduv How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully: https://youtu.be/hsQLksbfDSo Zeino's YT account: https://www.youtube.com/user/GeekZeino Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Picture this. You're having a conversation, maybe with a friend, maybe with someone you just met. It might be the case that you actually like the person you're talking to but the conversation is numbingly boring. You might have something to do or you're just no longer interested in talking anymore. You know it's time to exit. But you don't want to be harsh or rude nor do you want to lie and come up with a fake excuse. What are you supposed to do? How can you leave the conversation without feeling like a bully or a liar? Let's talk about it! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:38 - Part 1: Interrupt And Interject 0:58 - Part 2: Say What You're Going To Do 1:10 - Part 3: Say A Kind And Truthful Comment 1:31 - Scenario 1: Someone That You Like 2:22 - Scenario 2 - You Want To Move Along 3:17 - Scenario 3 - You're Not Enjoying It ------------------------------------------------------------------ #SocialSkills #CharismaOnCommand #EndConvo ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: Cool Vibes - Film Noire by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100863 Artist: http://incompetech.com/ Willing To Try By Jay Man: ourmusicbox.com/Willing-to-try ​

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/charisma [Animation by Zeino]: https://www.youtube.com/zeino Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qsWl1w 5 Common Phrases That Show You Lack Confidence: https://youtu.be/4R-3PPsM8HQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes we all say things, unfortunately, that can make other people judge us negatively. This can really impact our social, business, and familial life. It can truly be puzzling, especially when we’re unaware of what we’re doing wrong. Today we’re going to shine some light on how we communicate, so we can clear the clutter that’s blocking our confidence! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:15 - Phrase #1: “Just” 0:51 - Phrase #2: “I was wondering” 1:13 - Phrase #3: “Is this guy bothering you?” 1:44 - Phrase #4: “Uh… Um… Like…” 2:09 - Phrase #5: “I’m sorry (but)” 2:40 - Phrase #6: “You probably don’t care (but)” 3:02 - Phrase #7: “My (...) is making me” ------------------------------------------------------------------ #BeConfident #CharismaOnCommand #Animation ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qsWl1w How Jordan Peterson Wins An Argument: https://youtu.be/fS5nmy1v34c Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Arguments can be real tricky at times. We’ve all had that moment where we have great points and feel like we’re in the right, but once we start conversing and expressing our opinions we either look like a fool or a bully. How can we effectively win an argument or a debate? We’re going to breakdown some of Ben Shapiro's debate tactics and techniques so you can win an argument, even if you’re wrong. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 01:11 - Technique #1: Catching Non-Arguments 01:55 - Technique #2: Getting Emotional 02:40 - Technique #3: Pushing For Specifics 04:07 - Technique #4: Ben Knows His Arguments Inside And Out 06:02 - Technique #5: The Use Of Snuck Premises 08:35 - Technique #6: Moving From The Abstract To The Concrete 09:45 - Technique #7: Emphasize The Conditions That You Would Agree With Your Opponent ------------------------------------------------------------------ #BenShaprio #CharismaOnCommand #WinArguments ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music : Willing To Try By Jay Man: ourmusicbox.com/Willing-to-try Time Passing By by Audionautix is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Artist: http://audionautix.com/

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2CLEMkE How To Be More Self Aware: https://youtu.be/R3kkqOzjrM4 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I know we talk a lot about social dynamics, how to make great first impressions and creating fun conversations--but I don’t want you to feel like being alone is a bad thing. It might be tough seeing your friends going out every weekend with their significant other while you hang out in your room on a friday night--but that’s life and there will be days and nights like that (and it's totally normal and okay). So how do we be in solitude and not feel lonely? ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:28 - Point #1: You Don’t Need People To Deal With Loneliness 01:33 - Point #2: The Prediction Spreadsheet 03:32 - Point #3: Doing Things That Don’t Make You Happy 05:00 - Point #4: Build Habits Of Fun Activities 06:03 - Point #5: Do Something Special ------------------------------------------------------------------ #SelfHelp #CharismaOnCommand #FeelLessLonely ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2AcO9rm How To Connect With Anyone: https://youtu.be/v-ps2nfkAiA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Shane Dawson is an absolute juggernaut right now. Last I heard our attention spans were as bad as fish, how in the world is Shane able to keep the internet hooked and so engaged with his videos? The past months he’s been releasing documentary style videos each being nearly an hour long. At the moment he has nearly 19M subs and his view count on his recent uploads are equal to his sub count, in most cases, they’re more (which is a rarity on YouTube) How is he scoring more views than full out high budget TV shows? Here’s why Shane’s videos are so addictive. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 02:04 - Point #1: The Exposition 04:54 - Point #2: Fun 05:49 - Point #3: The Interview ------------------------------------------------------------------ #ShaneDawson #CharismaOnCommand #ShaneExplained ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: Time Passing By by Audionautix is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Artist: http://audionautix.com/ Infados by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Source: http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100449 Artist: http://incompetech.com/

Drop a comment on our latest IG post for a chance to win Powerful U Tickets: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/ https://www.instagram.com/charismaoncommand/ Learn more about the event: https://powerful-u.com/ You can save $25 on tickets with the code "charisma" Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2LyBbZw Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe When I was studying abroad, I literally didn’t date for an entire year. I wasn’t really that confident and found some parts of dating awkward. Over time I’ve certainly grown out of my old introverted self, you can tell by all the extroverted dating advice that’s on the channel. But I know you introverts out there still have this pain point, so let’s dive into it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:17 - Tip #1: Logistics - Where To Meet Women 01:47 - Tip #2: Wear Your Interest On Your Chest 03:02 - Tip #3: Open-Ended Questions 03:24 - Tip #4: Elaborate Then Relate 05:08 - Tip #5: How To Land The Date ------------------------------------------------------------------ #HowToFlirt #IntrovertFlirting #CharismaOnCommand ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Sign up here: https://www.betterhelp.com/charisma Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2Q0ujod Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we’re going to talk about 3 traits that make you attractive in social circles, business and the dating world. There has always been a clash of thoughts on these topics. When I say “attractive man” and “dating” you commonly think “arrogant jerk no one likes”. Even the word “attraction” has a lot of superficial connotations like material possessions. No need to worry about buying a Lamborghini to fit into a business clique or buying 10 drinks for the lady at the bar. What we’re talking about today is 100% free :) ⏰TIMESTAMPS ⏰ 00:17 - Trait #1: Enthusiasm 02:50 - Trait #2: Decisiveness 04:50 - Trait #3 - Gesticulations ------------------------------------------------------------------ #3AttractiveTraits #HowToBeAttractive #CharismaOnCommand ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Free week of premium, Simple Habit:- on your mobile browser, go to http://www.simplehabit.com/charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2NWCcic Some of you thought Conor McGregor got to Khabib Nurmagomedov in the press conference prior to UFC 229 some thought he didn’t. But almost no one seemed to think Khabib got in Conor’s head and I agree, so we’re going to stick to analyzing how effective Conor was in executing his pre-fight gameplan. Though he may sometimes look outlandish and crazy, Conor is very logical about pursuing his 2 main goals: he wants to make more money and he wants to anger his opponent enough to disrupt their fight plan. And have some fun while doing it #ConorMcGregor #KhabibNurmagomedov #UFC229 Really interesting fights breakdowns of each person's style: Conor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3ZmS5zxFEA&list=PLKb7D4fR_VOg2Nhy94-08Wz23jfg1BvLQ Khabib: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FrjANY1T40&list=PLKb7D4fR_VOgpL5vXnex_sK5lDFZKHILs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2OODLv0 Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University: https://bit.ly/3sVcmMk Joe Rogan has the most popular podcast on the planet. And I think a huge portion of that can be credited to the fact that his authenticity, especially in the face of conflict, is respected by a huge portion of his audience. So in this video we’re going to talk about 5 things that you can do which will command respect in tough situations without acting like a jerk. The first thing that cannot be discounted is that Joe Rogan is a trained fighter. He knows how to defend himself physically. So he’s more likely to speak up around people who act violent than you would be if you were afraid of getting hurt. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: https://www.simplehabit.com/charisma Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2xzbEZJ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We’ve heard this topic time and time again. People’s lives transforming, some feeling like a Shaolin monk while others not really noticing anything. If you’re like me, I would always get so bored when I’d try to meditate. I never really got anywhere with it. But you can’t just meditate for a few days, then say “meh has no effects, useless much”. Maybe meditation can actually transform our lives even if it’s a small change. So I took it upon myself to try a 30-day meditation challenge and here’s what happened. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 00:34 - Point #1: I Started To Enjoy Meditating 00:52 - Point #2: The Type of Meditation Changes Your Results 01:31 - Point #3: Guided Meditation Gave Me The Fastest Results 03:10 - Point #4: Meditation Boosted My Athletic Performance 04:54 - Point #5: Revealed My Compulsive Addictive Thinking 06:01 - Point #6: Made Me More Comfortable Being Alone 07:17 - Point #7: Meditation Made Me Hallucinate ------------------------------------------------------------------ #HowToMeditate #MeditationForBeginners #SimpleHabit ------------------------------------------------------------------ Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Talk to a licensed, professional therapist: https://www.betterhelp.com/charisma Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2CAsixO 5 Steps To Win Any Argument: https://youtu.be/smhta1x_OfA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe I know you all have been hyped for this week’s breakdown. Most of the footage we’ll be looking at is Jordan Peterson’s recent conversation with Sam Harris. Now the problem is how do you go about having a productive confrontation, debate, discussion or argument without demolishing your relationship with the other person? I’m sure, at some point, some of you have been in that agitating scenario where your arguments and points have been taken out of context and the other person you’re arguing with is making you feel like a fool. Nobody likes to feel like they’re wrong. So today we’re going to talk about 5 points that will help you be the bigger person in your future debates and how to come out knowing more than you did before! ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 01:01 - Tip #1: Lay Out The Points of Agreement 02:58 - Tip #2: Clarify The Other Person’s Perspective 04:02 - Tip #3: Establish Your Good Intentions 05:01 - Tip #4: Separate Your Views From Your Ego 07:26 - Tip #5: Not Identifying With Your Perspective & Winning Mindset ------------------------------------------------------------------ #JordanPeterson #CoCBreakdown #SamHarris ------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! To start your free 30 day trial and receive a free audiobook visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500! Four Emotions for an Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2MIRUNE Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Sometimes, we all say things, unfortunately, that can make people judge us negatively. And in this video, I want to talk about things that make you come across as lacking in confidence because these phrases are arrogant. As you may know, it's the most arrogant people who are oftentimes the most insecure. So I'm gonna give you five phrases in this video that will make you come across as lacking in confidence and what you can say instead to not come across that way. The first phrase is "Obviously." Also related to "Obviously" is, "Oh, that's not hard to tell" or "I already knew that." Now, of course, you can use these phrases in other areas of your life but if you find yourself saying this after someone has told you something that they thought was novel and interesting to you, you are essentially dismissing what they said. You're saying, "Your perspective has nothing new to add. I already knew that. It was so obvious to me and I am so smart for having known this before you told me." Now, what should you do in the scenarios where someone is telling you something that you already knew? You put yourself on the same path as them; you are two learners. 0:24 Saying the phrase, "Obviously" as a reply 1:28 Coming across as arrogant when giving advice 2:34 Using the word "real" like it's absolute 3:20 Disagreeing with someone by starting with "No, but..." 4:53 Assuming that your life is more difficult than someone else Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2RMJdzs How to Handle Small Talk as an Introvert — Kanye and Jimmy Kimmel Breakdown We look at the Kanye-Kimmel interview today and do a break down on how to handle small talk especially if you're an introvert. Small talk can be a pain for some people especially introverts. Now, there is nothing wrong with light and playful banter and we've covered that in other videos but in this video, we are going to discuss how anyone including introverts can become a master of quickly moving through small talk to something more. And for some people, it's going to come as a surprise that I am featuring Kanye West in this video. To be clear, I'm not saying that Kanye West is necessarily an introvert. Kanye may not be an introvert but in his most recent interview with Jimmy Kimmel, I did see a number of behaviors that are typical of an introverted type that doesn't really want to engage in small talk. And I thought that this could make a good jumping-off point for the topic. First off, small talk can be difficult for people because they don't know when to participate. If they aren't asked a question, they feel like they shouldn't speak up and then the dreaded awkward silence ensues before the other person excuses themself. In reality, there are almost always subtle openings and invitations to join in. 1:00 Notice subtle openings for you to share your thoughts 2:15 Respond with an open-ended statement to keep the conversation going 3:00 You don't have to answer questions if you want to talk about something else 4:11 Pause to create opt-in points for others 5:22 Try to get to a conversational topic you both care about Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Consider online counseling by visiting http://betterhelp.com/charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2MC1X6a Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Channel: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The thing that gets in most people's way of achieving their hopes, goals and dreams more than anything else in their entire life is, paradoxically, themselves. And the problem is that they can't see how they're doing it because they lack self-awareness. Now, this is a question that I wish I got more often — "How do I be more self-aware?" — because without self-awareness, you can't see your own failures and shortcomings and you'll have no way to catch your own blind spots which means that in certain areas of your life you're gonna run in circles giving rationalizations and excuses for why you're stuck and missing the real point which is why in this video I want to give you some mindsets and exercises to increase your level of self-awareness and get out of your own way. The first mindset that is absolutely essential is to recognize that in your life, the person who is most likely to lie to you beyond anyone else is yourself. We have some very, very complicated booby traps up here; we have ego defense mechanisms that want to keep us — A — safe from a survival perspective but B — safe from a self-image perspective. So if we get evidence if we behave in a way that doesn't suit our self-image and we don't like the story that it creates about us, we tend to discount that evidence. 0:39 You're more likely to lie to yourself 1:39 Put honesty before integrity 2:30 Give yourself permission to live in paradox 5:30 Go to people you know well 7:00 Give yourself space Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Logan Paul VS KSI — Who Won the Mental Fight? Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2MnGuxD Other videos on remaining calm and confident: https://goo.gl/7EgNgV Tyrion Lanister video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMliNd2b2K0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Logan Paul and KSI are set to box in an event that may be the biggest in internet history. And in this video, we are going to explore the mental side of this fight including who is behaving in a more dominant manner and who appears to think that they are going to win. But before you can understand all the real importance of KSI-and-Logan smack talk, you need a basic understanding of frames. Now, this is something I've discussed in a video on Tyrion Lannister from Game of Thrones and you can check that out in the description but basically, a frame dictates the rules and context of any interaction. So two people may enter an interaction with different frames but usually, the frame that is held more strongly will change the other one. For a concrete example this, just watch the master of frame control, Conor McGregor. Now, frame control isn't just duped out with words though; you can see frames clash simply with body language. Johanna here goats Rose Namajunas offering the frame that she should have a typical dominant style stare-down. And of course, Johanna wants to win that display of dominance. But Rose does not enter that dominance frame; Rose doesn't flinch. 00:25 Frame dictates the rules and context of any interaction 02:00 Consider the eye contact and body language game 06:00 Be composed and collected 09:50 Steel your nerves before the interaction 10:44 Define how you would like to behave before the interaction Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Why Good Relationships Turn Bad Our Self Love Playlist: https://bit.ly/2vHi6g4 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today, I want to share with you what I think is the biggest reason that good relationships turn bad and I'm doing this because I want to help you because I get a lot of messages and I've experienced this myself of the pain when you are in a relationship and it is struggling. Or sometimes, even worse, when you wish hadn't ended; it can be very devastating. And so I want to share what I've sort of seen and learned in order to help you if you're in a relationship and perhaps navigate down a different path. And if you're not in a relationship, in your next one, hopefully, you can get it started on the right foot because what I'm sharing with you I see as the underlying reason that relationships go bad is, yes, there's cheating, there's distrust, there's resentment, and all that stuff builds up but I think it comes from a soil — the wellspring The myth that someone can come make us happy, which is so powerful, because we start from a place of feeling a deep black wouldn't be something that was at all able to be sold to you if you didn't feel like you were incomplete to start with. 04:10 A marketed myth in America about relationships 07:13 And Charlie's answer to that 09:45 Epic relationship questions you should check out 10:52 Action guide whether you're dating and in a relationship or just had a breakup Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: http://www.bensound.com And: "Above and Beyond" by Jay Man http://ourmusicbox.com/ms_song/above-and-beyond/ "Willing To Try" by Jay Man http://ourmusicbox.com/ms_song/willing-to-try/

Free week of premium, Simple Habit:- on your mobile browser, go to http://www.simplehabit.com/charisma Thank you to Zeino for the amazing animation! www.youtube.com/zeino 5 Reasons Relationships Go Bad Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2K7Tja9 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe In life, the smallest actions can sometimes have the biggest results and that's why in this video we are going to explore five simple habits that can completely change your life for the better in just a few minutes a day. Number one is doing the scary thing socially; this transformed my life. You see, I was extremely shy up until I was about 20 years old and I only broke out of it when I started asking myself, "What am I afraid of doing right now?" At first, it was little things like saying one extra sentence to a cashier to make that interaction more human then it was asking a stranger for directions — maybe a recommendation of where to eat in a new area of town. Eventually the scary thing was sharing everything that I've learned here on YouTube. And terrifying as the judgement was, it turned out to be one of the best things I ever did. So wherever you are, from super shy to incredibly confident, lean into your personal social fears. You're gonna see a massive gain in your self-esteem and you'll probably attract amazing new people into your life. The second life changing habit is defining your ideal before you get realistic. 0:11 Do what scares you socially 0:56 Defining your ideal situation before your realistic situation 1:55 Meditation can also help preserve relationships 2:44 Cut out even the little white lies 3:37 Stop always listening to sad songs and ones that don't bring positivity [Animation]: www.youtube.com/zeino [Music]: ourmusicbox.com/ms_song/willing-to-try/ ourmusicbox.com/ms_song/Distant-Tales/ www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezZdbzreNcs www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDkddvltoUk www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebyReNR658w Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Consider online counseling by visiting http://betterhelp.com/charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2LJPPfx Oprah Winfrey has a superpower. For over 30 years, people who speak to her have not been able to help but to open up, sometimes crying, expressing joy, or just showing the most vulnerable parts of themselves. That ability propelled Oprah to a net worth of four billion dollars not to mention launching books to the top of the bestsellers list and Dr. Phil's television career. So in this video, we are going to explore how and why Oprah is the best connector that I have ever covered on this channel. And you're gonna learn how to live so that people will naturally find themselves opening up and connecting with you. First off, Oprah sets the stage to connect literally. Unlike many other TV show hosts, she is famous for walking the aisles of her studio audience and for sitting on the same couch as her guests. Later on, she would actually go into their homes for intimate interviews. Now, the lack of physical barriers such as a desk tends to make two people feel more connected and that's why you are more likely to find a spark on a first date if you sit adjacent to your date rather than being separated by a table. 0:33 Set the situation so connecting is easy 1:17 Connect physically and emotionally 2:58 It's easier to open up if there's eye contact 3:29 Actively listen and paraphrase accordingly 4:38 Call out whenever there are commonalities Oprah makes James Corden cry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GZlUextcAA Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

To take advantage of the Amazon Prime offer go to http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500 500. Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2uDyjTb Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Every single day, we do something that are fantastic for our confidence and we do others that aren't so good — they drag it down and destroy it. The problem is we can't always tell which of those is which. And that's why in this video, I want to show you five very common behaviors — some of which I bet you are doing — that are secretly destroying your confidence because if you can remove these from your life, it's dramatic how your self-esteem and your confidence will skyrocket. So the first one that I've had a very, very first hand experience with was staying in a situation that you really dislike. Now, it's obvious that you're not going to want to stay in a situation you dislike by definition but it actually destroys your self-esteem when you do that. And I realized this back in the day when I had my first job as a consultant. I didn't love it, it wasn't horrible but when I got up in the morning, I felt like I was faking it; I felt like I was putting on the suit pretending to care about something that I didn't really care about. Simultaneously, I found myself feeling less confident myself; I was starting to doubt myself. 0:24 Staying in a situation that you really dislike 2:20 Focusing intensely on practice 3:54 Belief that a certain person's approval will make you happy 4:58 Disqualifying yourself verbally before doing something 6:06 Saying the "I don't care" in order to be kind Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2u6k21J How to Think Faster Under Pressure High-pressure situations are, unfortunately, absolutely inevitable. Whatever it is that you want, oftentimes, it comes after a high-pressure situation. Whether it's an interview, a networking event, or a date, it's those times where we really would like an outcome that we feel the most pressure. And unfortunately, all too often we go home kicking ourselves saying, "Why did I say that and why didn't I just say that other thing?" So that's why, in this video, I want to help you think more sharply and more quickly in those high-pressure situations so you don't wind up at home kicking yourself and instead you are celebrating your big win. The first thing is to initially recognize that high-pressure situations caused us to do the exact opposite of what we would if we were going to do things well. And what that means is that when somebody approaches you at work and they're being hypercritical, what is the instinct? It's to shut down and close off. If somebody walks into a room that you really would like to speak to whether it's a mentor or a date, the instinct is to have your heart race, breathe really shallow, then go, "What do I say? What do I say? What do I say?" We need to do the opposite of these things physically. Dating Framework: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dx7v_9ABB0c Charisma Mindset Framework: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjES8831wKc 0:32 Change your state by doing the opposite 1:59 Know what to say in any high pressure situation 3:31 Know your framework 6:57 Summary on how to deal with high pressure situations Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: http://www.bensound.com

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2KAGI3v Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The ability to influence mass media is an actual real life superpower. The Kardashians for instance, have earned over a hundred million with that power But by far the best media influencer I have ever seen is Donald Trump. While other people get buried by scandal, he thrives on it. Trump won the presidency through a hailstorm of media scandals that really, no one else could have come through despite spending only slightly over half (55%) what Hillary did on his campaign That was because Donald was able to get the media to influence votes towards him for free - despite the fact that many outlets were trying to do the exact opposite. That’s why in this video we’re going to talk about why Trump is able to thrive in today’s news media environment. 01:40 What makes you watch, click & share 07:55 Don't waste too much time defending yourself 09:28 Quickly counter-attack with vivid imagery 12:40 If you don't like this, what can you do? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

7 Psychological Tricks To Make People Respect You IMMEDIATELY Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2IvW4kK Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Earning respect takes time. This is something that you build over years of being honest, having integrity, and showing your character But that said, there's a couple things that you can do that really do create respect immediately. And that's why in this video, I want to give you seven things that you can do today to create respect right now. Now, don't think of these as replacements for actually developing stalwart character. But think of these as guidelines to help get you there. The first one is defending your time because when people don't respect your time enough to give you a heads-up when they're going to be late beforehand and this is a first interaction it means that they likely don't think very much of you and it's not gonna go well regardless so just get out of there. And this is very important in dating; defend your time — don't always be available, don't sit around waiting for someone to call... Now in friendships and work or any area where you have an ongoing relationship, of course you'll be late, people will be late and sometimes they might forget to text; it happens. But if it becomes a habitual thing, the right thing to do 0:26 Our first psychological trick, defend your time 1:40 Second trick to get respect is to pause 2:15 Gesticulate and take up space, use body language 3:03 Finish your sentences strongly 4:25 Display social courage 6:36 Share your values 8:40 Call people out on their bad behavior Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: http://www.bensound.com

How to Sell Anything — the Alpha M Method Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2t4d2Si Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We talk about Alpha or Alpha M: how to sell anything. The sales pitch not only applies to selling. Whether you like it or not, you are selling yourself all the time. Job interviews, dates, meeting with potential friends, people have to decide whether to invest their time and energy in you or not which is why it can be incredibly helpful to study sales not just for those occasions where to actually have a product to sell but for all the other times when the product is actually you. And that's why in this video, we are looking at Alpha M. who is probably the single best salesman that I have seen on YouTube. And apparently, his numbers bear that out. Whereas other channels struggle to integrate sponsors in a way that doesn't get pushed back and hate from their audience, Aaron has a promotion in almost all of his videos and his audience seems to love it, they meme about it and they buy in droves. So today, we are going to look at what you can learn from Alpha about selling especially when you're selling yourself as we so often have to like in a date or an interview scenario. And keep in mind this is not the only way to effectively sell; it's just some of the things that Aaron does really effectively. 1:06 Build rapport 2:54 After building rapport, you can now give recommendations 4:42 Demonstrate the result and the product 5:57 You're really selling yourself and the product is just a part of it 8:00 Be congruent with what you're saying Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: http://www.bensound.com

How to Handle Toxic People Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2LFJ3ah Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Hey, guys! Here's another video for you on how to handle toxic people from friends to family members and just shut down that negative behavior. There's times when it feels like all the charisma in the world just won't stop one person from ruining your day. Now, maybe this person is a complainer, maybe they are a whiner, or maybe there's someone who is verbally abusive to you but whatever it is, they have this toxic pattern of behavior and it's really starting to bring you down. That's why in this video, I want to talk about how to handle difficult toxic people in a way that is charismatic. You need to separate from a toxic person because what's keeping you close to them is not something that ought to. When I've talked to people and they have left, no one has ever regretted it; you would be shocked how much you can be dragged down by a negative person in the workplace. 3:21 Think concretely what you want a toxic person to change 1:25 Find the timing to approach a toxic person 1:53 Give them a sense that you're approaching them differently this time 4:47 Ask permission to remind them gently if they do the negative behavior again Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic (Animated) Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2sGNRnQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Check out After Skool: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1KmNKYC1l0stjctkGswl6g These are the six mindsets that will make you charismatic and magnetic! We talked about it on the channel about the the eye contact, the body language, and the tonality that conveys charisma but behind all of those things, there are mindsets. And the mindsets are so critical because when you have them in line, all of a sudden, you don't really have to think about the eye contact as much and it just happens and your body flows naturally and your tonality is on point. So in this video, what I want to do is cover these six most important mindsets that will make you magnetic and this is a topic that I've covered before but today, I am very happy because we have the help of After Skool to animate this and make it much more interesting updating it for 2018. And those mindsets are, starting with number one — no matter what, I will be okay. In my opinion, this is the most fundamental mindset to charisma because so many people live their life wrapped in this sort of mental loop of what-if questions. "What if I speak up and my boss doesn't like my idea? What if I asked this girl on a date and she says no? What if I'd leaned in for a kiss and even worse, she ducks away?" "What if I were to ask this person to go just as a friend out to coffee and they said, 'I was busy that day'?" All of these sorts of things stop people from acting, from speaking up, and from expressing who they really are. 0:35 No matter what happens, you will be okay 2:17 Care more about your character than your reputation 3:19 Have impeccable honesty and impeccable integrity 5:28 You don't need to convince anyone of any particular belief 7:39 Start communicating your purpose more proactively 9:00 The last mindset is that you need to start going first Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Why We Love People Who Hurt Us Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe This is a video on why we love people who hurt us! Just what is it that makes someone love you and not someone else and what does it make you love that person back as opposed to every other person in the world? On the channel, we talked a lot about the general things that you can do from a charisma perspective like eye contact, tonality, and body language that make you more attractive to people generally and I'll throw up a video on body language of attraction right there. But that doesn't answer the question of why you tend to have a specific blueprint for the type of person that you are interested in. And it doesn't answer the question why you might fall so hard for someone and your friends cannot see what it's all about or vice versa — your friends fall hard for particular individuals and you don't get it. So in this video, what I want to do is explore your individual blueprint — why is it that you like the people that you like and why is it the people who like you are drawn to you? And I hope not just to get you this blueprint but an entire new realm of thought awareness and development that you can step into because I've found this to be very profound in my own life 01:01 Love and attraction are involuntary 01:37 They remind you of your childhood caretaker 10:01 Charlie gives tips on how to explore this Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Listen to Kick Ass with Mel Robbins. ONLY on Audible. Get it now at http://audible.com/charismamel or text charismamel to 500-500. Video on inner child: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4EEQuc01UDg Jordan Peterson has hundreds of hours of interviews and lectures on YouTube but with so much volume it can be tough to distill the essence of his life philosophy. And to make things even more difficult, he sometimes uses abstract language like this. It's within the individual that redemption can be... manifested, let's say. And even in so far as the state is concerned because the state's proper functioning is dependent on the proper functioning of the individual rather than the reverse, most fundamentally. That is actually the most concise explanation of his life philosophy that I've heard but what does it mean concretely? Well, today we're going to break down the three things that you should and should not in order to live an exceptional life according to Dr. Peterson. And I'm going to simplify as best as I can in order to keep this simple to understand; forgive me for that Dr. Peterson. Also, at the end, I'm going to get some concrete actions to you that you can take today in order to move forward on each point. 0:56 Fix yourself before you fix the world 2:14 Tell the truth 7:14 Refusing to acknowledge your "shadow" Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2k2QHzH Join The FB Q&A: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand How To Be Sarcastic Without Being A Jerk - Deadpool/Ryan Reynolds Breakdown Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We often see the sarcastic moments of Ryan Reynolds, the actor of Deadpool, and in this video, we talk about how to use sarcasm without looking like a jerk. Sarcasm is one of the toughest types of humor to pull off. When executed improperly, it can leave people angry at you as often as it leaves them laughing. So in this video, we are going to take a look at the king of sarcasm, Ryan Reynolds, a.k.a. Deadpool. So how do you use sarcasm without leaving people angry or hurt? Well, if you're going to do it it cannot be a one-off potshot; otherwise, it feels like a pointed attack. So getting in the habit of joking all the time even in semi serious moments helps signal to others that your statements are usually to be taken in jest. We also talked about this at length in our video on Chris Pratt so check it out as well! 0:34 Get into the habit of joking even in serious moments 3:17 Lessen filtering words to blurt out and experiment 5:16 Making yourself the buttt of your sarcastic comments helps 6:09 Still utilize compliments so as to not look like a total jerk Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2jAKKtw 7 Red Flags In Dating You Should NEVER Ignore One of the difficult things about dating is that sometimes people put a version of themselves forward that doesn't correspond to who they really are. So you can start a relationship, think you're dating this wonderful person and find out after several months that that's in fact not the case. And that's why in this video, I want to give you seven red flags that you absolutely need to be aware of to avoid dating someone that you don't want to be with. And this is true of both men and women and I'm gonna focus on things that aren't so obvious and not just jealousy or clinginess — things that might be happening that you're not noticing that if you did, you could save yourself a lot of pain. So the first thing is that if the person that you are dating has friends that you don't like, chances are the person you're not like. dating is someone you eventually will Now, of course you want to treat them as an individual, right? You're saying, "They're not like their friends. They don't have these qualities so why should I ascribe to them qualities that I see in these other people?" And if that's a wonderful feeling but the truth is we are all products of the five people that we hang out with the most. We're like our friends especially if we spend a lot of time with them. 0:37 Check out the friends of the one you're dating 1:20 Check out how they treat waitstaff or service people 2:17 Be wary when they tell secrets that aren't supposed to be told 3:18 They're heavily engaged in social media 4:33 They had short-lasting relationships 5:38 They put all the responsibility onto their ex when they broke up 7:05 They have the idea of their partner being perfect Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2w0FiJy Follow us on FB to join the Q&A tomorrow: https://www.facebook.com/CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see me playing music - Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Today in this video, we share six tips of psychological tricks to make people like you immediately. We don't always realize it but it is often in very small moments that people decide whether they like us or whether they don't and that is why in this video, I want to give you 6 things that you can use to make people like you immediately. Starting with the first one, a very specific type of compliment because you're not going to compliment people on what they have, you're going to compliment people on what they've earned and worked for. The truth about compliments is, yes, it feels amazing when people compliment us; of course, we like that. But when it comes to compliments, it often turns out to be that people are hearing the same ones over and over. For instance, maybe they have really nice eyes or they have a good sense of style and when they start to hear that over and over, it can become something that doesn't mean much to them. If you can be the person that finds out what they are working on and notices that while they're still working and struggling and then compliments them on that, it will hit them so hard. 0:19 Compliment people on what they've earned 2:05 Get them to talk about what they love 3:09 Share a truth that is to your detriment 4:56 Open body language 5:47 Exceed expectations without asking permission 7:46 Be the first person to joke Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand

Join the Facbook Live Q&A (like us and then tune in Apr 24 at 11AM Pacific): http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2HkWACA Today, I share with you my first Ayahuasca experience that's changed my life. This is a story of the one and only time that I did ayahuasca and I thought about not putting this on the channel but quite frankly, I think that the insights are important enough that I couldn't not share them even though this subject matter is a sensitive one because it has left me and the people that I've been able to share these exercises with feeling more joyous, more energetic, and more positive in their life and I didn't want to hold that back. So the reason that it's a sensitive subject is because ayahuasca is a hallucinogenic plant / habit-ending drug — or how you want to categorize it — that comes primarily from the Amazon rainforest. It is illegal in the United States of America but tribes indigenous to the Amazon have been using it for a long time in rituals and ceremonies and increasingly, Westerners have participated as well. So you should know that I did not go into this lightly; I went into this very, very deliberately. In fact, the reason that I did it was because I'd had a breakup and I was struggling and I'd had a number of friends tell me that this was something that was in the right time to do and I said, "Okay," but I'm not the type of person to do drugs of any kind. I've never smoked a cigarette, I don't drink caffeine these days, I've never done anything with weed or beyond that, and I don't even drink alcohol I except for a glass of red wine before bed. 02:00 Charlie's reaction Ayahuasca 05:00 Start of Charlie'e life changing realization 12:00 There's always an inner child in everyone Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Why Mark Zuckerberg Seems Evil Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2H6fGAg We're hiring! Find out more about the position: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/brilliant-operations-digital-marketing-manager/ Mark Zuckerberg is having a rough time. Not only does he have to deal with congressional hearings but it seems like a good portion of the internet hates him or at least doubts his humanity and it isn't because of the Cambridge Analytica scandal; it's because of the way that he presents himself. So in this video, I'm going to show you the kind of sad reason why some people are just harder to trust than others and it's easier to write them off as potentially evil and it's why negative reputation is just seem to stick to them no matter what they do. I'm also gonna help you find out if you are losing trust without even realizing it plus teach you what to do to get it back. So first off, as a principal, we humans like and trust people who show us that they have nothing to hide. And this isn't just metaphorical. Seeing the inside of someone's hand — seeing their palms tends to put people at ease. The handshake actually originated as a way to show that neither person was carrying a weapon. But Zuckerberg almost never shows us his palms when he speaks which winds up feeling unsettling. First, let me say this — I care deeply about the democratic process and protecting its integrity. Facebook's mission is all about giving people a voice and bringing people closer together. 0:33 We trust people who show that they have nothing to hide 1:09 Your smile is key to improve your charisma 2:42 Congruence is another key that Mark Zuckerberg lacks Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check out our job posting: http://bit.ly/2JrBpA1 Tim Ferriss' TED Talk on fear setting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5J6jAC6XxAI 3 Mindsets That Will Change Your Life Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qggbwW Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe These three tips of mindsets that will change your life will be discussed today, courtesy of Tim Ferris! Whether you realize it or not, every action that you take is generated by your mindset. And those actions add up to give you the life that you have which is why, in this video, we're going to cover three counter-intuitive mindsets for changing your life and this comes straight from Tim Ferris whom I'm a huge fan of and I'm going to tell you how I used these to change my life. But before we get into it, one little thing, stick around to the end because we are making a hire at Charisma on Command; I'm going to tell you about that and how you can make some money for referring that person. Here's what Tim has to say about it. "I find that levels of success in almost any industry or area correlate to a person asking great questions. In some cases, they seem absurd. In fact, the hallmark, in a way, of great questions is that it sounds completely ridiculous." 0:28 First mindset is to ask ridiculous questions 2:25 Tim Ferris talks about fear-setting 5:16 Set one thing that will make the entire day a win Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free audio book download with a free 30 day trial by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma or texting "charisma" to 500-500. Watch the playlist with every video I mentioned: http://bit.ly/2Ee7RSG We show you all the six types of charisma in MCU that seems so irresistible to women. One of the most common misconceptions of charisma is that one size must fit all. The truth is that while there are some high level tips that everyone should follow, there are lots of different styles that you can adopt for success in charisma and in dating. So in honor of the release of Avengers Infinity War, we are going to look at six types of charismatic leading men and the pros and cons of each style then you can decide which style suits your personality best. A few caveats before we begin. One, yes, all of these guys are extremely handsome actors and absolutely, women will be drawn to them because of their looks. Still, there is value to be had for the rest of us in analyzing their personalities because they really are some of the most charismatic people I've seen. Second, I am NOT saying that each actor is always the type shown in this video. It's more about the habits that I've frequently seen in their interviews; and three, these aren't the only types of attractive behavior. There's others but I couldn't find MCU actors that represented them well so we might get to them in other videos 00:58 Robert Downey Jr being The Cool Guy 02:30 Chris Evans being The Giver 04:02 Chris Pratt being The Goofball 06:43 Sebastian Stan being The Suave 09:04 Anthony Mackie being The Attention Grabber 11:07 Tom Holland being The Storyteller Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2RqfK1U How To Crush Any Interview These are great tips on how to crush any interview to get the job! One of the moments in your life where you are absolutely going to want your confidence and your charisma to be on point is when you are sitting in an interview chair because when you've arrived there, they've decided that you have what it takes to get this job but you still have to show the person across from you that you're someone that they like, that they could work with, and that you can communicate the skills that make you a good fit which is why in this video I want to show you exactly how to prep for and crush any interview and that includes answering specific questions like, "Tell me about yourself? What's your greatest weakness and tell me about a time when..." so we're going to jump right into it; I got a lot to say. The first piece is on mindsets. The number one thing that screws people up when they get in interviews besides having not prepped, and you're here so congratulations for that, is that they just get tongue-tied — their confidence is gone — because they're putting so much pressure on the situation. And in order to alleviate this, what I recommend you do and that they do is to zoom out. Imagine yourself at 90 years old. You're looking back at your life. You see the successes, the failures, the happy moments, the sad ones, and I promise you, as you do that and you scan for the most pivotal moments in your life that we're hyper critical, you will not see the interview that you have coming up; there's no chance. It's just not going to crack something that absolutely changes the inevitable course of your life 00:37 Your mindset during an interview will get you the job 01:51 Preparation before an interview is another key to get that job Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Elon Musk: How To Achieve 10x More Than Your Peers How To Give An Amazing Presentation Playlist: http://bit.ly/2poTHJX Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2IBKpCr In this video we have three tips to achieve success and improvement as shown by Elon Musk! In five hundred years, we may look back and say, "Elon Musk was the single most influential person of our entire century." He has been able to do more in his 46 years than most of us could hope to do in ten lifetimes and yes, part of that is because Elon is incredibly smart and he works incredibly hard. ...and we're so hot up; we had just one computer so the website was up during the day and I was coding at night. ...work hard like it mean every waking hour; that's the thing I would say if your particular if you're starting a company. But working 100 hours a week still only puts you at two-and-a-half times as much as the average employee. And most geniuses do not make the international impact that Elon has. In fact, the man with the highest IQ in the world, Chris Langan is a bouncer. So while smarts and work ethic are critical to Elon's success, in order to impact the world, you simply have to be able to influence other people; there's no way around it. That includes employees investors and the public at large and Elon Musk is unique here because on this channel, we can normally point to a leader's ability to nail a public speech. 02:15 Elon perseveres despite a lot of failures 05:05 Elon has a vision that inspires Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Playlist on self love and addiction I mentioned: http://bit.ly/2GhYEvp Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe First off thanks to Tim Ferriss and his podcast with Dr Gabor Mate for inspiring me to share this. Also thank you to Kurzgesagt In A Nutshell for being one of the first to introduce me to the concept of addiction as something other than to hard drugs. So this is a topic that I've been thinking about for over a year and a half at this point and I didn't want to share because I didn't know exactly how I was gonna cover it and my thoughts in many ways are still unclear but I recently heard a podcast from Tim Ferriss with Dr. Gabor Maté and they talked about addiction and new paradigms around it so I feel like it's the right time at this point to talk about my experience and what I think might as well be your experience too. I believe we live in a highly addicted world. I think addiction drives most people’s lives. It certainly has with me and I believe you fall into that category as well. I'll explain why 05:36 Money or work 06:13 Fitness 06:54 Relationships 13:04 Nature Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2H4cPDm Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe https://goo.gl/Bz7r46 Experiencing Physical Warmth Promotes Interpersonal Warmth https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2737341/ A free 30 day trial of Audible if you want to listen to How To Win Friends And Influence People, Influence, or Presuasion. All three are musts if you like this kind of stuff :-) https://www.audible.com/charisma We grow up being told that if we want to be liked, get a date, get sales or a promotion, that it’s based on who’s the most qualified. But qualifications aren't always what influence people. I first saw that when reading Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends And Influence People and Robert Cialdini book Influence. Call it persuasion, influence, manipulation, it's all about learning how to sell (an idea, a product, or yourself) in the best way possible. So in this video I’m going to go over 3 "how to influence" tips that have NOTHING to do with your credentials OR what you say. These can help you be more likable, get a date, and be more successful in business or sales. ALSO The words "manipulation" and "persuasion" have become dirty words in today's society, but in this video, I just mean them as synonyms for "influence". These are harmless, ethical ways you can sway someone to give you a chance (both in business and socially) so that your true merit can actually shine through :-) 0:29 How to game the Stereotype Content Model to influence people to like you more (whether it's to get a date, make friends, or sales) 2:26 How to influence what they think about BEFORE they think about you or what you are asking for (from Robert Cialdini's book Persuasion) 4:08 Does what you hold in your hands impact your ability to get a date or successfully sell? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FwTiMb Here are some more tips on how to be a leader so you can meet cool people, friends, or a social circle after college! https://goo.gl/tBQQ89 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Once you graduate, it can be very hard to figure out where you're supposed to go to meet cool new people or how you're supposed to actually make them your friends. And that's why in this video I want to give you three awesome ways to meet cool people after graduating and this is gonna be really useful if you've just graduated or you may have graduated a long time ago but you're moving to a new city and you have to start over or quite frankly, anywhere in between; because these are the principles for making friends in any situation. So first one is this — be the hub. Now, what I mean by this is if you think of a bicycle wheel, it's got a bunch of spokes coming into a central hub. And the question is — in your friend group, are you more like the hub — the person who is organizing events saying, "Let's go to my house," or "guys, do you wanted me to this restaurant at 7?" or "go to this movie on Wednesday night," — or are you the person who is the spoke? — sitting at home waiting for the text to come in which sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't. That is the downside of being a spoke. Yes, you don't have to take charge of organizing events but you're only invited some of the time and even worse, when one of the other spokes has a party or a cool event and they can't invite everybody, who is the person that they invite? It's inevitably the person that invited them; it's that hub. 0:32 First tip on how to meet cool people after college is to be a hub 1:43 Second tip is to be the beacon 4:27 Saying yes to things that you'd never say yes to Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we’re going to talk about Markiplier and his storytelling. And how you can make any story more interesting :-) https://goo.gl/eLRiqM If you do storytelling well, you’ll find that people love having you around. It’s also much easier to talk about yourself in attractive or interesting ways. It also greatly helps your persuasion and makes it easy to have a group conversation. Why Markiplier? We’ve already covered some aspects of storytelling in our videos on Scott Harrison and Kevin Hart, so what I wanted to show you today isn’t how to tell a good meaty story well, but instead how to get people hooked even when your story isn’t super interesting by itself. So I picked a well known YouTuber named Markiplier because Markiplier is a great example of how to make ANYTHING more interesting. And these lessons transfer very well to storytelling. For those of you that don’t know Markiplier he got his fame as a Let’s Play Youtuber, where he recorded himself playing videos games. There are tens of thousands of people trying to do this, and Markilplier rose to the top because he can make any given moment seem interesting. 0:24 Quick intro to Markiplier 0:45 How Markiplier starts his storytelling specifically to get listeners eager to hear him speak 1:56 How Markiplier uses his voice to make a story sound more interesting. Especially useful in group conversation. 4:54 Convey emotion when storytelling like Markiplier does and you'll be more captivating. Bonus, you're also much better at persuasion. 8:46 should I do another video on Markiplier that’s about being likable / popular? Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free audio book download with a free 30 day trial by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma or texting "charisma" to 500-500. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe These are the three body language tips that anyone can use to be more attractive! https://goo.gl/pNhkkW Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EnCABW Now, here are your three body language tips, plus a bonus, to instantly be more attractive! Like it or not, people are making snap decisions about you all the time and oftentimes, they do it without even letting you speak. Quite frankly, you do the same thing to them which is why in this video, Valentine's Day is coming so, we're going to do three subtle things that you can do to be more attractive with your body language — nothing to do with what you're saying. So I'm just gonna jump right into it; the first one is something that people do wrong and that is T-Rex arms. I'm gonna illustrate this with the story because I think it's the easiest way and it was one of the most vivid ways which I learned it. I was in Las Vegas with a friend of mine. I lived there; he came in to visit and if you've ever been to a Las Vegas Club, it can be overwhelming. So we got into this club, it was just the two of us, were not drinking, and he's not from there so, instantly, I see his body language lock down and he starts to get uncomfortable. To his credit, he starts to walk up, he sees a group of women, he walks up and says hello, and it didn't go well; his lack of confidence shines through and they disappear within pretty much 15-30 seconds. So I said, "It's alright, man. Don't sweat it. We'll have fun on the dance floor." We go to the dance floor and the same lack of confidence is shining through; he's not moving very much. He's kind of dancing in this little box like a T-Rex. 0:19 First body language that's done wrong is the T-Rex arms 2:25 Second body language that's done wrong is the seeking behavior 5:48 When groups go out 7:16 As a bonus body language tip, smiling Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

5 Morning Routine Habits of Successful People https://goo.gl/6YtrCZ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe These are my five morning routine habits and you'll also notice successful people doing these! I'm going to shoot this straight: I invented none of this; I stole it. This is a frankenstein from other people because I get tired of feeling groggy and wasting the first few hours of my day so I looked to the people I respected. And what I noticed was whether it was my partners in crime in equity — the ones I really liked — Tony Robbins, Tim Ferris, and the people I've learned from as I build this Charisma on Command business is — the people that are successful have a morning routine. And they have something that guarantees that they start the day feeling amazing and being productive. Now, a good morning routine is a routine you will actually do. I've made a mistake in the past of creating hour-long routines that I thought would make me the perfect human and they're so daunting that I never did them. So this morning routine is made to wake up your body, wake up your mind, make sure you have a productive day, and make sure that you feel good but it's also specifically quick and manageable so you can actually fit it into a normal life. Change the World by Making Your Bed - by Admiral William McRaven: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaQZFhrW0fU The Jump Rope Dudes: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYew1VwdbpHnSFG-CQ1A-A 6 Phase Guided Meditation by Vishen Lakhiani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EaRu14P9H84 1:09 First habit of my morning routine — water and green tea 1:49 Another habit for a morning routine — make your bed 2:38 I spend four minutes waking up my body 4:26 The next habit of my morning routine is meditation! 6:13 Lastly, do something that guarantees that your day is a win Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Tyrion Video on Frames: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NQiHtbpa8s& Previous JP video on earning respect: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsQLksbfDSo& Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate https://goo.gl/jP3ZYs How To Shut Down Conversational Bullies Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate? See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments! We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in. So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them. 1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap 2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale" 5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique 7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though 7:47 And visual imagery can also help 8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2mHvxck Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson https://goo.gl/DLouoh Jordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism). And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive. So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand. Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect. So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully. Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions. 0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality" 4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively 6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal stories Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EwnzJn Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe You can check out his YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/user/GaryVaynerchuk Gary V, Gary Vee, or Gary Vaynerchuk, as we know him, seemingly has a superpower. In addition to being a very successful investor and entrepreneur, he seems to have the ability to say almost anything he wants and have people love him for it. Gary V, Gary Vee, or Gary Vaynerchuk, as we know him, seemingly has a superpower. In addition to being a very successful investor and entrepreneur, he seems to have the ability to say almost anything he wants and have people love him for it. He may frustrate you by interrupting you or by saying something you don't like but ultimately, people continue to love him because he's a happy, charismatic, and kind person with the intention to give a ton of value to other people. And that is a winning formula you can steal. 0:47 Gary V interrupts people 1:09 Gary Vee will say things he knows you wouldn't like 2:36 Gary Vaynerchuk compliments people 4:30 Gary V is consistently authentic Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

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Click here to enter your name for free coaching here: https://gleam.io/competitions/5tsJp-charisma-on-command-1-hour-coaching-session-giveaway This video will give you 4 go-to techniques for making small talk with anyone :-) https://goo.gl/KEbUrj Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Dj4QSe What’s the goal of small talk? Think of small talk as a way to A.) learn about each other or learn what’s new with each other, B.) see if you connect on anything and want to form or strengthen a relationship, and C.) enjoy yourself. This video will show you how to do that without asking a bunch of questions and making it feel like an interview, and avoid forced conversation or awkward silences. 0:56 What's the point of small talk? 1:37 How to combine a compliment & a cold read to replace a boring question with interesting, fun conversation 2:59 The kinds of questions that lead to excited conversation that flows naturally vs. the questions that lead to awkward silences 4:36 My favorite conversation game that is easy to work into conversation without it seeing weird, and makes small talk enjoyable for both people 5:44 How to guide the conversation towards things you're interested in, by eliciting their advice/opinion Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

3 Reasons The Jedi Mindset Sucks https://goo.gl/YTJrQY Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Link to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/interested-emotional-mastery/ Video on overcoming social anxiety: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yRVP9PHnEE Star Wars is often referred to as a classic good vs evil story. And it’s easy to see why when you have “bad Sith characters." Opposing the Sith are the Jedi who seem like the obvious good guys. But if you dig into their belief system, there are serious problems in the mindsets they promote. In fact, you could say that it is THEIR teachings that ultimately lead to people like Anakin Skywalker breaking and turning totally evil. That’;s why in this video I want to break down the biggest flaw in their teachings. Because you may have unthinkingly adopted these “good guy” teachings that can actually wind up destroying your life. 0:40 Jedi Order expects emotional neutrality from their disciples 1:31 Jedi presents negative emotions as permanent emotions 2:45 Jedi principle is to not feel Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

I collaborated with Paramount Pictures and Downsizing to bring you this video: Downsizing URL: http://tickets.downsizingmovie.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe 6 Small Things That Dramatically Boost Your Charisma https://goo.gl/aKRQgB Oftentimes the little things make the big differences and that’s true when it comes to charisma as well which is why we’re going to be covering 5 small things that dramatically boost your charisma. These are kind of basic in some cases, but they get overlooked too often. Thanks again to Paramount Pictures and Downsizing for sponsoring this video. If you want to see the Downsizing movie with Matt Damon, Kriten Wiig, Cristoph Waltz, Alexander Payne and Hong Chau, click the link in the description above for tickets. 0:48 Downsize your gift 1:53 Donate the things you're not using anymore 3:07 Ask the shyest what they're excited about 4:03 Show engaged body language when talking to someone 5:41 Support other people's passion 8:07 Remember the names of the service people Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

How The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Transformed His Charisma https://goo.gl/uMxcFZ Plus Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2CQkPWS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Jumanji 2 is coming out and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson is everywhere. I’m always amazed by how charismatic he is. Fans literally burst into tears when they see him. I started watching videos of him and discovered something that I thought was really, really interesting. The Rock has not always carried himself the way he does today! In his earliest interviews, The Rock is soft spoken, a little monotone, and rarely flashes his trademark smile. To me that makes how charismatic he is now even more amazing! After digging into it a bit I learned that even Dwayne Johnson's first stint in the WWF was a flop. He was promoted as a good guy that fans were supposed to get behind, but he did not make a good first impression and the crowd booed him relentlessly. And Dwayne Johnson has said he attributes it completely to how he played the character. This is awesome because it means that Dwayne Johnson made a conscious decision to present himself differently, and it led to him becoming insanely popular and beloved by fans. And by looking at clips across time, we can actually break it down and see some of the secret sauce that has gone into his charisma and how to make a good first impression. 1:55 3 ways to build anticipation to captivate listeners 4:43 How to make a good first impression by answering basic questions in an interesting way (most people don't do this) 8:15 How to tell stories that impact people and have them hanging on your words 13:36 How to be a loveable leader Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Star Wars: Why Your Dad Is Your Destiny Link to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/interested-emotional-mastery/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe https://goo.gl/KzbAzw In Star Wars, why do we care that Darth Vader is Luke Skywalker's father? Luke was still raised by his uncle. He never even knew his dad. Why does it matter that his father, a complete stranger, has a different story than he thought? Well obviously because despite Luke’s fathers literal absence in his life, Luke always wanted to be like his father Luke’s mentality touches on one of the most power motivators in people’s lives and also one of the most misunderstood. And that’s why In this video I want to dive into how Luke was destined to become Vader, how Kylo Ren is destined to become more like Han Solo and how your relationship with your father shapes your destiny, not just in the Star Wars universe, but in life. Because it affects you more than you probably realize, And it doesn’t matter whether you think your dad was a good guy OR a bad one. Also, spoilers through Star Wars Episode 7: The Force Awakens coming - some speculation into episode 8: The Last Jedi though I don’t have any advanced knowledge 1:08 Every son idolizes his dad and feels a desire to be like him 4:18 The subconscious will play a part 7:46 Tips to deal with some negative connection between son and father Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman star wars: the last jedi adam driver

Thanks to GoDaddy for sponsoring this video. For more information on how to create a website in under an hour, click here: http://go2l.ink/CoC Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe https://goo.gl/8UoLyK Also if you are specifically interested in starting a YouTube channel, check out our friend Sean and Benji with their video “How to Start a YouTube Channel — 7 Tips for Beginners”. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ya6zybrxczE - - - - - Today’s video is going to be a little bit different then what we normally do, but at the end of the day Charisma On Command is here to make your life better, and that can mean happier, more successful, or better at creating and maintaining different types of relationships. For me, one of the best things I ever did was start an online business. It has been super fulfilling and has made me really happy. THAT is what I want to do for you as well. So whether you work at a job you don’t like, or have always wanted to start your own thing, or just want to make extra money on the side, this video is going to help you to do that. We'll show you how to come up with a great business idea, how to test your business idea so that you know it will make money, and how to grow your online business once it's up and running :-) 1:26 How To Come Up With A Great Business Idea 3:48 How To Validate Your Business Idea So That You KNOW It Is Going To Work (Before You Invest A Lot Of Time And Money Into The Business) 5:55 How To Scale Your Business By Going To Where People Already Are Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Upgrade Your Social Skills With Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Check out my favorite books: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/best-personal-development-books/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe How To Make Yourself Immune To Social Pressure https://goo.gl/yTfcKJ We have another video up that touches on how to deal with social pressure and will help with the improvement of your social skills. One of the unfortunate things about living in the world is that when you have goals, there will be obstacles and those obstacles can often come in the form of other human beings — the doubters, the haters, and sometimes the friends and the family that just don't want you to get hurt or don't want you to change which is why in this video, I want to help immunize you against that peer and social pressure. The holidays are coming up so you’re going to get a healthy dose of social pressure when you go home (about your job, your dating status, whatever), so I want to help you to handle it, especially when that social pressure and doubt is coming from people you love. 0:55 Write down your values 2:30 Build a core group of positive influences 4:56 Find a way to build conviction in yourself Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2APRHgD 5 Common Phrases That Kill Your Charisma How To Win Any Argument: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=smhta1x_OfA Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Welcome to another Charisma on Command video where we talk about phrases that kill your charisma. In the past, I've spoken a lot about phrases that you're gonna want to add to your vocabulary in order to become more charismatic and persuasive. But the truth is far more common are phrases that you currently have in your vocabulary that are killing your charisma, that are making you far less persuasive, and that are getting people to fight with you. So in last video, I discussed some of the things you definitely want to say in order to persuade people, but far more common are the things you definitely DON’T want to say. So in this video I want to share 5 things I hear all the time that make people much less likable and less likely to be able to persuade anyone. 0:25 Charisma tip one is to tweak, "No problem" 1:33 Charisma tip number two is to not say, "You messed up" 3:19 Charisma tip three is the Preemptive disqualification 4:36 Don't say, "You always/never" followed with a negative comment 6:15 Being specific can also help with charisma and show confidence Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Stephen Colbert: How To Be Funny Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2D0CHlo Here are 3 jokes that are guaranteed to make people laugh. Stephen Colbert is one of the most popular comedians on television today and it is largely due to his ability to think on his feet and make people laugh. He is a fantastic person to model if you want to know how to be funny. Today we’re going to talk about three go-to jokes that form the foundation of Colbert’s humor. Once you learn these, it will be easy to be funny. Jokes will start to come to you on the fly and you’ll have people laughing without even trying. 0:38 The first joke Stephen Colbert learned from his time in improv is The Fake Out 1:38 a literal formula you can steal from Stephen Colbert for how to be funny 2:11 how to be good at improv comedy 2:35 Stephen Colbert's favorite joke on The Colbert Report was The Caricature, a great technique for how to be funny 5:14 The best of Stephen Colbert's improv background shows every time he uses "yes and". This is my favorite technique for how to be funny, because it creates a great team dynamic and make everyone around you laugh 7:35 How to make this a habit so that it's easy to come up with something funny on the spot Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: https://bit.ly/2xFhSaZ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Persuasion. When someone is persuaded, it's amazing how positive things turn out. Some psychology on how to persuade someone, empathy, and your personal development off of it will be talked about. You probably like to think of yourself as a rational human being like when you have a decision to make, you take all the information you make a pros and cons list and you add that up to make the best decision possible. But you're a human being and the truth of human beings is we are far more irrational than we'd like to admit. Oftentimes, our decisions come down to the smallest irrational things and oftentimes, that can be just a few words which is why in this video, I want to give you 6 phrases that you can use to turn the tide in your favor when you're trying to persuade someone to do something that you might like. Now, this is not going to be a substitute for really developing a true persuasive strategy, it's not a substitute for empathy but start adding these phrases into your vocabulary and I think you will be shocked with how quickly and how effective they are. So, the first one is when you're coming up against a gatekeeper and the phrase is simply going to be — "Have you ever made an exception?" Now, I used to use this all the time when I would try to get into bars and clubs after it was technically at capacity and it worked pretty well. 0:44 First persuasion phrase is to let them think it won't be a big deal 1:38 A person will more likely be persuaded if you bring empathy to the table 2:58 Make them see you in a positive light and work on your psychology prowess 4:19 Call them by their name 5:14 Another persuasion tactic is the use of the Yes Ladder 6:45 Use the power of "because" More on persuasion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMliNd2b2K0 Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Athletic Greens for sponsoring this video! Go to http://athleticgreens.com/charisma for their special offer :-) This is the first sponsor that we've ever proactively pursued. If you watch the video you'll see why when we get to step 3. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe VIDEOS I REFERENCE: Intermittent Fasting 101: Intro to IF for Fat Loss - John Romaniello https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-n8xJXYHIg and The Best Reps, Sets And Rest When Training? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WxDaaFVXFyU - - - - - Here are five ways to increase confidence, testosterone, and energy. Whenever people talk about confidence, they talk about the same stuff: pushing your comfort zone to get comfortable being uncomfortable and repeatedly exposing yourself to what makes you nervous until it’s no big deal. And that’s all true and awesome. But I want to approach it from a different angle today, because there’s also a hormone in your brain that will increase your decisiveness, assertiveness, and energy levels, and as a bonus, it makes it easier to gain muscle, easier to lose fat, and gives you a higher sex drive. And it’s been shown to heavily correlate with confidence. The only thing that’s unclear is if it’s a first order cause of higher confidence, or if the increased decisiveness, energy, assertiveness, muscle, etc. is what leads to confidence. Either way it seems like it’s a hormone worth optimizing! 2:28 Why when you eat impacts energy levels and your hormones 4:14 Lift weights the right way to increase testosterone and confidence 5:12 Your diet can improve confidence and testosterone and thus, your charisma 7:54 The importance of sleep 9:13 4 common things that destroy your energy and your testosterone Also I say this in the video but just as a reminder: I’m not a nutritionist or a doctor. Please pay careful attention to serving sizes. There IS too much of a good thing. Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Join Emotional Mastery with the launch discount here: https://emotionalmaster.samcart.com/products/emotional-mastery-1/ Video on motivation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz0dNt6GpRQ Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Most Powerful Psychological Force In Game Of Thrones What would be the most powerful psychological force in Game of Thrones? In this video I want to talk about why his identity as Stark or Greyjoy is so psychologically important for Theon. We’ll discuss how a sense of identity helps Theon recover from his devastation at the hands of Ramsay after he becomes Reek and how we can all think about our own identities so that they serve us in the best and worst times in our lives. First off, in the context of Game of Thrones being a Stark and being a Greyjoy mean two very different things. Starks are honor bound to a fault, morose, and completely without guile. Greyjoys are pillagers who take advantage of the weak, enjoy the hedonistic pleasures in life, and are constantly looking to improve their position. Theons choice to identify as a Greyjoy over a stark changes the entire course of the story. 6:43 Names matter as shown before Game of Thrones season 8 8:32 Environment and peers affect Theon in HBO Game of Thrones 9:36 Habitual environment trumps labels like with Reek Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

As requested! A breakdown analyzing Loki's charm and appeal :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The Marvel Cinematic Universe is pretty much the only thing guaranteed to get me to the movie theater on opening night. I am literally counting down to Thor: Ragnarok! But even though the Marvel movies are amazing, there is popular criticism that their villains are kind of weak. And yet, from Thor to Avengers to Thor The Dark World, Loki is the one villain that everybody seems to adore and root for. While most Marvel villains get killed off or captured after just one film, Loki has now played a major role in 4 films. Loki won MTV's sexiest Avenger. There’s even been petitions for Tom Hiddleston to star in a Loki standalone movie. I believe there are four major reasons why Loki has literally gotten away with murder and become one of the biggest fan favorites in the Marvel universe. And understanding these four things will help so you too can get away with making mistakes or screwing up, without it being something people hold against you. 0:55 Loki is the best villain as he is charming 3:38 We understand and relate to Loki 7:32 He is a tortured soul as shown in these Loki best scenes 9:50 You can't keep Loki down being the brother of Thor Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join our email list to learn more about our Emotional Mastery course (we'll be launching it next week): http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD It’s obvious that confidence and self-esteem are the defining traits of happiness and success. And for a long time I thought that high self esteem was the end all be all. If you had that - you were set, but I actually think there is another internal mindset that’s even more important. That concept is self love - unconditional self love - and that's what I want to share in this video. 0:00 Self Esteem and self love and self improvement and personal development and more! Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FqI2AM Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Also as promised, here is our breakdown on why Chris Pratt is so awesome: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_SmshF2ynw And here is our recent video “How To Create An Attractive Voice”: https://youtu.be/RuXkEJzmp50 If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok. I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him! There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him. Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is. And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man. And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok). Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised. So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special. 2:33 How To Make Jokes That Elevate The People Around You (and make them love you for it) 4:16 How To Be Funny By Teasing And How To Be Genuine 5:30 How To Touch In A Way People Like And How To Touch Without Being Creepy 10:11 How To Share Embarrassing Stories In A Way That Conveys Confidence And Makes People Respect You 11:41 Sharing Praise And Being Everyone’s Favorite Team Member 13:25 How To Make A Compliment Feel Genuine And Not Fake (i.e., How To Compliment Without Being A Suckup) Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

The Nice Guy Paradox: How Being A "Nice Guy" Is Sabotaging Your Relationships And How To Get More Of What You Want In Life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe The "Nice Guy" gets harpooned in today's society. We're told that nice guys finish last, that nice guys can't get the girl. And this is true of nice women as well. I completely disagree. I think that might be true of a weak person, an indecisive person, someone who lacks confidence or people skills. A "nice guy" can be an incredibly charismatic, strong leading, attractive person. Now that being said, there IS a habit that I see from "nice" people that is sabotaging your relationships. And there's a better way of doing things that can help you get more of what you want while conveying extreme levels of confidence and will make people respect you more. * I'm appreciative to the book No More Mr. Nice Guy and to Landmark Forum. Both contributed to my learning this about myself and starting to observe it in others * 1:12 Build confidence and stop scorekeeping as Dr. Robert Glover say 2:08 As Dr. Robert Glover said about the nice guy syndrome where guilt is instilled 3:58 Nice guys finish last because of the reply no and present being a nice guy 4:42 Not necessarily how to stop being nice or how to ask for love but a tip for common case Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

4 Steps To Escape The "Friend Zone" Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression (join our email list with this link): http://bit.ly/2ExoklE The dreaded friend zone. Like it or not, it's a common experience amongst many people and escaping the friend zone can be a confusing prospect. That's why in this video I want to show you 4 steps to get out of the friend zone and maybe wind up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend 1:11 Take responsibility so as not to be in the friend zone 2:00 Focus on bettering yourself 3:23 Steady your nerves and work on that charisma 8:00 Reveal your feelings and see how to escape the friend zone Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTzFub Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Posture is probably the easiest and healthiest way to improve your appearance. Your posture impacts your thin slice, determining how attractive you appear and how confident you appear. Posture also has a major impact on airflow and blood flow, meaning it has a MAJOR impact on performance. Posture impacts how well you speak, how athletic you can be, even bedroom performance. And lastly, posture has a fairly meaningful impact on your health, ESPECIALLY as you get older. Your posture today is dramatically going to impact if you’re the kind of person that’s living a full life when you’re older. If you don’t fix the minor issues you have today, they will compound over time. I’m going to go piece by piece through the most common postural issues, the common causes and how to minimize that negative impact, and then how to proactively fix your posture so it’s perfect. 0:50 Fix posture for the forward head and present a better posture and avoid neck pain 2:48 You won't show a more confident body language with this so do improve posture 6:17 How to have a better posture if not a perfect posture is to do these posture exercises Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

How To Never Be Boring Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Nobody wants to be boring. But unfortunately no one teaches us how not to. Which is why in this video we are going to cover 5 things that you can do to avoid boring everyone around you and instead attract people to you you like a magnet while enjoying your life much more. Animation by Zeino: YouTube.com/Zeino Music: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI Music: https://youtu.be/3W89LQqk06w 0:14 Improve your energy which will always help personal development and relationships 0:59 Make backup list of topics as second tip on how to never be boring 1:57 Learning to tell a good story as a self help in social will aid in self improvement too 3:35 Spend part of your every day pursuing a dream on the philosophy side Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

Click here to donate to Charlie & Ben's birthday fundraiser: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Click here to donate your own birthday: http://bit.ly/2x9sAU1 Thank you guys so much! This decade is going to be the best yet :-) - - - - - - An attractive, confident voice can totally change your life, making you more appealing to whoever you're dating, impacting how much people respect your ideas and follow your leadership, even determining how funny people think you are. It completely shapes how people respond to you. And there are a LOT of ways to do it wrong. I absolutely trashed my vocal chords by following some bad advice, which I’ll touch on during this video. It actually got so bad that I needed surgery. I was completely mute for a month recovering, it was a bad time. For the last 8 months I’ve spent many many hours and thousands of dollars working with multiple speech therapists, singing coaches, and Alexander Technique trainers. And I want to share some of the biggest takeaways that can help you have an attractive, confident, healthy voice. 1:01 How to have an attractive voice pitch and timbre and the wrong way of doing it 1:49 How to have a deeper voice and how to get a deeper voice 2:45 How to have a strong, resonant voice that projects and carries 3:25 A common misconception about how to breath into your diaphragm 3:57 Tips to have confidence for public speaking and be more attractive 6:00 Some exercises in how to sound confident and how to speak confidently 7:36 How to have a better voice and how to have a confident voice that's more expressive 8:55 A special announcement for Charlie's birthday. Happy 30th big guy! And here's the Elliot Hulse video How To Create A DEEPER Voice that I referenced! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Click here to donate to Charlie & Ben's birthday fundraiser: http://bit.ly/2yDrPnv Click here to donate your own birthday: http://bit.ly/2x9sAU1 Thank you guys so much! This decade is going to be the best yet :-) The ability to tell a story can literally transform your life. It can land you a job in a crowded applicant pool, make you stand out on a first date, or be the difference between your business succeeding or failing. Today I have a very special breakdown on storytelling. Not just because storytelling is so important to charisma and life, but because I am actually in this breakdown as the interviewer. And the person I’m interviewing is without exaggeration one of the people I most admire on the planet. His name is Scott Harrison and as the founder of charity:water he has helped raise over 100 million dollars by telling stories for a good cause. So in this video you’re going to learn the 3 high level principles that will help you to tell more engaging stories in any environment. And I should warn you, these stories are heavy and contain really sad, but important messages, which is necessary when you’re talking about the truth of why charity water exists. I’m also going to let the clips run longer so you can hear a bigger part of the story uninterrupted and comment later. 2:30 Take the listener to the same emotional journey you had when storytelling 4:18 Have a mystery to keep listener engaged like Charity Water story 5:47 Have a lesson at the end for personal development as the Scott Harrison interview Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2mpoTr6 Liza Koshy has quickly become one of YouTube’s fastest growing stars, hitting 10 million subscribers within two years of starting! Liza Koshy started on Vine as Lizzza, where she cut her teeth making videos that had to be 6 seconds or less. Because of this, Liza Koshy is very very good at quickly getting people to like her, relate to her, and laugh with her. So today we’re going to talk about 3 things that Liza Koshy does consistently that make people love her and how you can incorporate them into your own life. I picked these three things specifically because they are easy to do, they get great reactions quickly, and if you use all three you will be the type of person that people gravitate towards and want to be around. 1:17 Lizza Koshy purposely misinterprets things to create humor 3:20 How to use comedy to cheer up your friends and avoid social anxiety 3:53 Liza Koshy jokes with confidence like with Liza David cute moments 5:34 Lizzza does honest comedy so see how to be funnier with her sketch 7:08 David Dobrik and Lizakoshy can also show how to make friends Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Why Wonder Woman Is So Insanely Inspiring Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ARlGoo I felt like Wonder Woman was the first female character in a long time who would say something like this. Now I am not saying that there are no admirable women in cinema. There definitely are (Mulan) I’m saying that when it comes to recent blockbusters (Fifty Shades, Twilight) and superhero movies, women are usually either supporting cast (Black widow) or not exactly role models. Wonder Woman isn’t perfect, but she gets a lot right which is why I want to talk about what her character does differently from the common female tropes that men and women alike can learn from. 0:39 Wonder Woman played by Gal Gadot is enthusiastic like with Chris Pine 2:24 2017 movie Wonder Woman directed by Patty Jenkins shows idealism 5:24 DC comics character Wonder Woman questions the rules 6:33 With a movieclip of No Man's Land scene Wonder Woman VS Ares Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Rick and Morty: why everyone loves Rick Sanchez. For more Rick and Morty videos, subscribe here: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today let’s talk about Rick & Morty! Rick and Morty is one of the smartest, funniest, most entertaining shows in recent memory. One super interesting aspect of Rick and Morty is that its title character, Rick Sanchez, is beloved by fans despite being an apathetic horribly flawed criminal. In fact, the majority of Rick and Morty viewers root for Rick more than any other character. Today we’re going to go over why exactly that is, using some of my favorite Rick and Morty clips, and also a few things you can apply to your own life to be as magnetic and well respected as Rick, without all the terrible traits mixed in :-) 0:58 A quick rundown of flaws of Rick Sanchez of Rick and Morty 1:50 People admire excellence as also mentioned on Emergency Awesome 2:20 Humor affects the impact of what is said on Rick and Morty Adult Swim 3:00 The power of speaking unpopular opinions out loud 4:30 The dark side of human emotion which is also shown on Rick and Morty season 3 6:13 The film theorists even agrees wisecrack Rick taking risks to protect Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

James Bond: 5 Charisma Tips From The “Perfect Man" Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2DlS8lU I was rematching James Bond: Casino Royale and this scene really struck me.... I realized that in many ways Vesper is speaking for the audience because James Bond represents our cultures masculine ideal. Whatever he is, is what so many young men are kinda wishing they could become. So in this video I want to investigate who exactly that aspirational man is. Because there is definitely something to be learned, some positive traits we can add to our lives. But there’s also some ideas of “masculinity” that we’d probably be better off discarding. So let's break down Bond in Casino Royale. 0:41 Eva Green as Vesper loves Bond as he is insanely capable 2:43 James Bond or 007 is mostly unreactive and emits confidence 4:40 Daniel Craig as James Bond is loved by women and flirting 6:56 He's willing to die for his ideals as in Casino Royale or in Skyfall Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Thanks to our sponsor Blue Apron the first 100 people to sign up will get three meals off their Blue Apron order free! Click here: http://cook.ba/2upczfv Everyone in the world is given the same amount of time. Yet some people are able to run multiple startups simultaneously, some people are able to learn amazing skills, and some people don’t seem to be doing much besides treading water. What's the difference between these people? PRODUCTIVITY. So in this video, Ben goes through 6 ways to massively increase your productivity so that you can get twice as much done every day. Or get the same stuff done in half the time, so that you have more time to do what you love doing :-) The goal of productivity is not to get as much random stuff done as possible. These productivity tips are geared towards completing your highest leverage, highest impact tasks. 0:54 Killing Bob and getting things done to avoid procrastination 2:11 Make work an escape room and improve productivity 3:17 Say no to time vampires as one of productivity hacks 5:25 Avoid brain-draining activities to help with productivity 6:06 Wake up your body to wake up your mind 6:50 Time arbitrage is another of many productivity hacks Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

5 Steps To Win Any Argument Join our online training course Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument. And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here. I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win. And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want. Because we are dealing with people. And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want. Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view. 0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means 1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want 2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets 4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent 5:21 Build your confidence and make your case Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Thanks to our sponsor Dollar Shave Club! http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charisma New members get their 1st month of the ‘Sh*t, Shower, Shave’ Starter Set including the Executive Razor and trial-sized versions of their Shave Butter, Body Cleanser and One Wipe Charlies’ Buttock Wipes for ONLY $5 (and free shipping). After that razors are just a few bucks a month. Exclusively at: http://www.dollarshaveclub.com/charisma Graham Norton has what many people would consider their ideal charisma - for two reasons. One, Graham Norton doesn’t need to hog the spotlight in order to shine. And two, Graham Norton seems to have the ability to make ANYONE like him. From rockstars to movie stars to professional athletes, people from all walks of life seem to love being around him. So today we’re going to talk about a 4 step formula that Graham Norton uses to make people love him even while he teases them, and how you can use it to make yourself both funnier and more well liked. 0:34 Graham Norton creates a warm and positive connection 1:26 Graham Norton compliments especially on Graham Norton Show 2:55 How to be funnier and how to make people like you 5:33 How to use banter and teasing to get everyone on the same level 9:00 Graham Norton does the art of self deprecation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman Instagram: @CharlieHoupert

3 Easy Ways to Start A Conversation With Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eytv4T How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation: https://www.youtube.com/edit?o=U&video_id=QXiAPiw7vfc One of the most common questions I get is how do I start a conversation in this situation or that situation. And so what I thought would be helpful is to give you 3 simple ways to start a conversation (aka conversation starters) that you can use anywhere. You don't need to be a genius, they’re super versatile and I use them pretty much every day. 0:44 Being a human Google is one of the conversation starters and openers 3:27 Being a human Twitter to develop how to start a conversation Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Frs8WX And for more on Dealing With Conflict, check out Charisma University: www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university _ _ _ _ _ **Hello! Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You. This is Ben! I'm the guy in this video. I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago. You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself. Charlie is still creating videos! He's going to release his next one on Monday. Hope that clears things up a bit :-) _ _ _ _ _ Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it? Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work. Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career. And we never get taught how to do it correctly! So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you. You don’t need to use all of these in all situations. What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in. 00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations 00:42 Draw your line. Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable. 02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person 03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have 04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation 04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive 05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like 06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise 08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking 08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive feedback 12:05 How to handle emotionally charged conversations and have confidence 13:50 How to calm down a tough conversation that is getting heated 15:40 A more formal introduction! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @IamBenAltman and @CharlieHoupert

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free 30-day trial today by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma Why Daenerys Loves Jon Snow Why does Daenerys Targaryen fall for Jon Snow? I mean he’s a powerful handsome guy, but Daenerys has had plenty of offers from powerful handsome men, like Jorah and Daario, and none truly interested her. Something is different about Jon Snow though. The show gives us some clues that actually can teach you a lot about attraction and love in the real world, which is why I wanted to explore exactly what it was that created that spark of love - because you also you might learn something for your own life. 3:00 Jon Snow by Kit Harrington showed confidence to Khaleesi by Emilia Clarke 6:30 Jon Snow of House Stark can be honest to Daenerys Targaryen 9:30 Winter is here and in Game of Thrones GOT everyone can count on Jon Snow Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How Conor McGregor Can KO Floyd Mayweather Conor McGregor's unshakeable confidence and extremely powerful visualization rituals make him almost unstoppable. Every boxing analyst is saying Conor McGregor doesn’t stand a chance against Floyd Mayweather. And maybe they’re right - but I have a different perspective because while I don’t know much about boxing, I AM a student of human psychology. And I’ve never seen anyone with a better mental game than Conor McGregor. He is insanely confident, which creates the optimal emotional state for dominating a fight. And a big part of that confidence is how Conor uses visualization to see his victories before they happen. 00:30 Three Conor McGregor predictions tmt 01:11 Visualize the pregame like in the coming Floyd Mayweather fight 03:07 The details: what Conor chooses to visualize 04:21 Creating physical manifestations of your vision in the world 06:52 Grounding what you visualize into reality which is pop in Vegas and sports 09:10 Time of Visualization like back in UFC as in boxing on Showtime 12:00 One also needs to speak as shown in this McGregor VS Mayweather fight Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert and @IAmBenAltman

Have you ever been out with a group of people, you start to say something or tell a story, and then somebody cuts you off? It can sap your confidence and leave you in your own head unsure how to get back into the conversation... So today we're going to cover how to captivate a group without getting interrupted! With 6 strategies you can use to engage a group of people so that instead of cutting you off, they're hanging on what you have to say. These strategies touch on both WHAT you say and HOW you say it. 0:45 Put pregnant pauses mid-sentence NOT at the end 1:17 Express excitement with your voice to activate listener mirror neurons 1:48 Be loud enough with your voice and your body so as not to get interrupted 2:13 Speak like you deserve to be heard which is also good in group dynamics 3:06 Tell tight stories to captivate and develop those social skills 3:47 Make yourself enjoyable to listen to 4:28 Wrap complaints in story arcs 4:50 Relate back to the listener Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation Click to join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ [Music by Exurb1a]: https://goo.gl/TjP4YN [Animation by Zeino]: https://goo.gl/344LHV We’ve all been there - you’re in conversation, things are humming along nicely and then out of nowhere the awkward silence rears it’s head. At just that moment, your mind goes completely blank, you don’t know what to say and you can sense the other person’s eyes wandering as they look for someone else to talk to. That scenario sucks so here are 5 tips to make sure you never run out of things to say in conversation 0:20 Play Reminds Me of 0:54 Ask open-ended questions 1:40 Use revival questions 2:37 Make a complimentary cold read 3:00 Flip the script and let them be the one to talk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Why My Girlfriend And I Broke Up Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2D3Jc7O In which I tell the reasons behind my break up - at least as far as I can see them today. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

3 Surprising Steps To Influence Anyone Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2qTSVYG Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Join Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ Margaery Tyrell might be the most underrated player in Game of Thrones. And it’s a shame that she meets her end so early, at least in the show, because more than any other character I’ve covered, she has the most to teach you about how to behave in the real world. Which is cool, because unlike Littlefinger and Tywin Lannister, I don’t have to tell you NOT to do these things. We’re talking about good stuff here, so you’ll want to apply a lot of this even if you don't live in the Game of Thrones, beginning with Margaery’s first incredible talent: her ability to build rapport with anyone. She has a number of incredibly effective strategies. 00:16 Build rapport as the HBO show Game of Thrones here shows 06:33 Learn as much as you can about the person to truly empathize 07:39 Lead them as shown as examples here from Game of Thrones Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Thanks to our sponsor Blue Apron the first 100 people to sign up will get three meals off their Blue Apron order free! Click here: http://cook.ba/2upczfv Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Thanks to Blue Apron for sponsoring this video Tywin theories I mentioned (watch the whole 5 part series on 2x speed, it's worth it): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdxWJxwOx-k How Tywin Lannister Commands Respect in Game of Thrones Tywin Lannister is a beast. He effectively served as king for many years under Aerys and wielded massive influence over Robert and Joffrey. He would have continued to be the power behind the thrones had he not been so horrible to Tyrion - more on that later - but that’s not the point. In this video I want to explore why Tywin was able to command so much respect, breaking down everything from his body language to his strategy. 00:28 Game of Thrones of HBO shows this Tywin Lannister epic king outlook 04:40 One of the analyses of GOT Tywin Lannister dominance 10:20 Towering Tywin Lannister over Cersei and Tyrion Lannister Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How Littlefinger Controls The Game of Thrones https://goo.gl/uNmVQH Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FGX6uj Littlefinger Is probably the single best player in the Game of Thrones. He’s indirectly led to the downfall of at least 3 major houses and has advanced his station at every opportunity. In this video we’re going to do an analysis on what it is that he does that makes him win and how deviating from his strategy may lead him to the end of his winning streak. 2 caveats. First spoilers through season 6 and some speculation into season 7. And two, don’t do the things little finger does. It’s fun to analyze Littlefinger manipulations and learn how you can avoid them in your own life - Sansa Stark would benefit for certain - just don’t be a liar and backstabber. It’s not cool. Let’s begin - Game of Thrones is all about power. Some people, like Cersei, use their position to command others. Or people like the Mountain who literally just dominate through brute force. But in the long run, it’s those who wield power more subtly who excel at the game. And perhaps no one is more subtle the Petyr Baelish. He is the ultimate power player in the game because he gets other people to do what he wants, without them even knowing he’s influenced them 01:10 Littlefinger got the power subtly and not by force in Game of Thrones 07:53 Cersei Lannister is opposite of Petyr Baelish in terms of subtlety 08:14 Petyr Baelish in HBO Game of Thrones lets other think they control him 09:46 Marriage scene with Tyrion Lannister 13:15 Littlefinger talks to Sophie Turner as Sansa Stark Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Why Logan Paul Is A Genius Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2DaJYvF Logan Paul has the fastest growing channel on YouTube and he’s unlikely to slow down. I originally wanted to cover him for this reason alone - after all you have to do something right to accrue millions of new fans a month. But after digging in, I found out that he is doing something special on the business business - so this is as much a charisma breakdown as it is a business and sales breakdown. I spoke about this at length in the Pewdiepie video, but the jump cuts and intense emotion keep the video incredibly engaging since the human brain is trained to pay attention to people showing strong emotion as well as anything that changes rapidly. Logan Paul is a natural performer and comedian who is willing to be goofy in public. Together with his brother Jake Paul, the two are poised to move from Vine and conquer YouTube. 1:40 Chloe Bennet comments but Logan knows what has to be done 2:52 Logan Paul loves what he does as shown when he does his vlog 8:51 Paul shows the merch and Maverick clothes plus the hollywood hero trophy Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

The Dangerous Side Of Tom Cruise’s Charisma Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/charismaoncommand Here, we try to look into the dangerous side of Tom Cruise's charisma. Tom Cruise is known as one of the most charismatic celebrities in Hollywood. When Rolling Stone writer and author Neil Strauss met him, he described him as “the perfect specimen” who has “a natural ability to remain dominant in any social situation without seeming to exert any effort.” As amazing as that sounds, that kind of superhuman charisma does have a dangerous downside. And it’s both of those things that we’re going to explore in this video: the specific behaviors that make Tom Cruise such a dominant social force. And the potential cost of being so charismatic. Below are the ones that make him so charismatic. 0:36 Tom Cruise commands his physical space as in The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon 2:20 He genuinely smiles all the time and with other celebrities 2:53 He mentions the name of the person he's talking to as in this NBC interview 3:37 Tom Cruise keeps eye contact and in Oprah as well 4:28 His talent in conversation also shows when he leans in when talking Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

9 Mistakes That Kill Your Charisma Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nVneJx You may be doing some pretty little things that can have a big negative effect on what people think about you so in this video, we're going to cover nine of the most common mistakes you may be making that can kill your charisma and some quick fixes. Here we go. First — not proactively introducing yourself. Many people feel uncomfortable when they enter into a new group so in order to keep a low profile, they often offer a small hand wave or just stand there quietly — this is uncomfortable for everyone involved. So the next time that you find yourself entering or being pulled into a small group, make sure to make eye contact and introduce yourself to everyone there with the handshake. 0:14 Not proactively introducing yourself 0:46 Not introducing your friends when you're in a new group 0:55 Talking about things no one cares about 1:16 Not soliciting feedback will not help self improvement 1:41 Trailing off or mumbling may not show self confidence 2:03 Answering questions with single words 2:31 Whining will not help with personal development 2:42 Not remembering names won't help with your social skills 3:08 Lack of principles won't help with your charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert MUSIC: https://goo.gl/2sKQlI

How Tony Robbins Outsmarts Depression Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EapCaf Tony Robbins is probably the most gifted communicator I have ever seen. One of his most amazing feats is that in his live seminars, he is able to take people from feeling depressed to empowered in just one conversation. So in this video, we’re going to talk about just one of the techniques that Tony Robbins uses to accomplish this. It’s called a state break and that is anything that you do to shift someone from one emotion to another. It sounds simple, but if you can master this skill, your ability to help other people, to persuade, and to live a more fulfilled life goes through the roof. 0:50 Anthony Robbins gives the opposite of what they expect 3:20 Tony Robbins resorts to humor like in I Am Not Your Guru 7:35 Calls for body motion for self help and personal development Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert personal development

Philip DeFranco: How To Make People Trust You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eu4uLB Philip DeFranco is probably the most trusted newsperson on YouTube. And in an era where mainstream news is suspect and allegations of fake news fly even from the President’s mouth, that might make Philip DeFranco the most trust newsperson in America. In this video I want to talk about what you can learn from Philly D in terms of generating that kind of trust and respect, even when you’re talking about really controversial topics. And let me warn you, this isn’t always going to be easy As Phil says, let’s just jump into it. 0:31 Philip DeFranco delineates between facts and his opinions 1:25 No hiding of biased opinions in Philip DeFranco Show 4:52 Philly D knows his principles and in DeFranco Elite Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Master Your Mind If you want updates on the Belief System course I mention, leave your email here (didn't have time to make a separate sign up page, but I'll make sure you get the survey!): https://goo.gl/AiIEjJ If you’re like me, your mind has sabotaged you in the past. You want to feel confident, but it makes you shake You want to eat healthy, but junk food wins Today I’m going to give you some high level strategy for dealing with all those things and more. Let’s start with the operating principles What makes one person walk into a room confident, head held high excited to meet people on the top of their game and another slink in? What makes one person work on their business like crazy When you think about what people are willing to do for religion, give their lives, hurt other people, help other people, it should become clear that your beliefs drive action. The problem is most of us do not know how to choose what we believe. It might sound crazy, but imagine if you could simply choose to believe that everyone was excited to talk to you. Or you could choose to believe that putting long hours into building a business was fun. Or that eating junk food was worse than being hungry. Imagine how easy it’d be to achieve your goals if you could just pick the beliefs that supported them. Well, that’s where I’m going, so I want to introduce you to the principle that drives what we believe. 3:58 Recognizing the positive intent for the self confidence 5:00 Associate a painful consequence if you do not change 7:59 Determine the pleasure you get when you change Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

The Introvert's Guide To Networking Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FZ27h5 Last week I went to a conference called ClamourCon I saw something that really surprised me. In fact it wasn’t a something, but a someone. This person, a self professed introvert, was one of the best networked people I know, with connections from Holly wood to the venture capital world, to personal development world. Once I found this out about him, I began to ask him how that all came about and that’s what I want to share with you today. His name by the way is Evan Carmichael, he’s a YouTuber who makes inspiring content for entrepreneurs. I’ll put a link to his channel in the description. So here’s what I saw from him. First off, redefine what constitutes a networking event. Most things with “networking” in the title are a complete waste of time. It attracts people who are looking to develop a network instead of a relationship. And it’s especially bad if you’re an introvert, since you’ll be competing with a bunch of other people hungry to share their story and what they are working on. Evan's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/ModelingTheMasters 0:50 Redefine your networking philosophy as per Evan Carmichael 2:15 Be open to people and have confidence and believe in yourself 3:28 Know what people want which is easier for an introvert 5.07 Play matchmaker and help others in their self improvement Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BfF4iS Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos. So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable. In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity. Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice. That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity. Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily 0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet 4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert 6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Text A Girl Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Ec5fcK Have you ever met a girl, hit it off, exchanged numbers, texted her to set up plans and then NEVER seen her again.  Yeah, probably more than once.  And that’s because there are about a dozen other men trying to get her attention at the same time and your texts just don’t stand out.  Even if you hit it off in person, you’re sunk in this day and age if you can’t make her like you over text. So I want to give you 5 things you can do that will separate you from the pack, make her more attracted to you, and get you meeting her in person. 0:32 Save yourself in her phone as something fun 1:00 Send yourself a text as her after you have saved your name 1:35 Do not make things all logistical 2:20 Use callback humor 2:50 Get her excited about the plans you will make Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How Louis CK Makes Everything Funny Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BOd1In The humor breakdown I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjRgT8QQ3c Louis CK is one of the most respected comedians in the world. And part of it is because he seems so effortlessly funny. There’s no big action like Jim Carrey or Robin Williams, no elaborately clever set ups, just simple truths that make audiences crack up But it’s not that simple. Because while the truth makes for good art, it isn’t always funny. Louis CK has devised a way of delivering his stories and jokes in packages that are different from what most of us do. And because of that he’s able to create hilarious moments from everyday commentary. Today we’re going to explore 3 of Louis techniques that will make you make just about anything funnier 1:00 Louis CK times it where this Stephen Colbert clip shows 4:24 Louis CK repeats the punchline like in this Jimmy Fallon clip 7:27 Louis CK acts his jokes out like in The Tonight Show and more Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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Tai Lopez - Here in My Garage EXPOSED Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ErnhqL The “Here in My Garage” by Tai Lopez ad has achieved meme status on YouTube with over a million dollars spent to get it in front of your eyeballs. And whether you think Tai Lopez is awesome or not, one thing is true. You’ve probably never seen a YouTube ad more times or seen an ad that has generated more discussion, parody videos, and interest than Here in My Garage. And all that implies something else: the ad must be working. Meaning that Tai Lopez is making more than a million dollars worth of sales, otherwise, the money would just run out. Which means that like it or not, something special is going on in these 4 minutes. That’s why I want to break down the video to understand what is going on from a psychological perspective that gets people interested in buying Tai’s products. 00:54 Specific video production as in Here in My Garage lamborghini 04:18 The mechanism is done like when he mentions his mentors 05:14 Tai Lopez anticipates where the viewers' mind is at 05:42 Tai Lopez utilizes a real disqualifier in his products 07:24 Tai Lopez repeats the call to action multiple times Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

The Easiest Way To Make The Best Friends (Vlogbrothers) Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Eshgu0 Hank and John Green of the vlogbrothers are some of the most influential people on YouTube. Collectively, they’re responsible multiple huge channels (including vlogbrothers and Crash Course, which just came out with Sociology) bestselling books and movies like the Fault in our Stars, Harry Potter inspired music and the YouTube conference - Vidcon. In his video we'll cover the Vlogbrothers' (Hank and John Green) unique style of education as well as the genius way they build communities. Link to John's video on depression: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ooCeoh6608&t=5s 1:49 Attention first when you communicate as CrashCourse sample 4:58 Hank and John Green built a community they are part of 5:27 The vlogbrothers talk about what they believe 5:57 Nerdfighters share the same beliefs as Hank and John Green 9:39 The vlogbrothers keep their focus on other people Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Liars, Thieves, & H3H3 Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nJkIqH Ethan and Hila from h3h3 are basically the Southpark of YouTube. They parody the most outrageous things going on in the community, and despite the fact that they are primarily a comedy channel, they often manage to make a point about the way we ought to behave. In this video we’re going to look at what has made h3h3 so popular. We’ll focus on Ethan in particular because he is on camera far more than Hila. 0:27 h3h3 often gets their point across using parody 3:54 h3h3 stands up for people like when Ethan & Hila was sued 5:38 h3h3 holds on to their principles even if there's lawsuit involved 8:09 h3h3 tells the truth and practices free speech Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Donald Trump: Art Of The Handshake Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ESFWtH Donald Trump recently made news with his 19 second hand shake of Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe. I’m going to break down some of the more unique aspects on Donald Trumps handshake and then we’ll cover the more standard business shake - which many people habitually do incorrectly, creating an impression of weakness or overcompensating insecurity. We'll also take a look at Trump's handshake with Justin Trudeau 0:54 Yank during handshake with Trudeau on the receiving end 1:13 Wrist bend and lift as Trump did with Prime Minister Shinzo Abe 1:36 Hand tap during handshake as Donald Trump still does in 2017 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

3 Surprising Problems of Successful People Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nJlBj1 Why You Don't Feel Good Enough (video I reference): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gcH6tFugYfo Email list (click the blue button): www.charismaoncommand.com Answering What Do You Do: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/never-run-things-say/ Success is awesome. Getting what you want is a wonderful thing in many ways. But it has downside that almost nobody talks about and it makes us sitting ducks for confusion and unhappiness. I make this video for 2 reasons, 1) to help you prevent against these things if you’re on the come up, and 2) to help you identify them in your own life if you’ve already achieved success. Since we’re told getting what you’re aiming for is a good thing, we can become blind to the very common problems that come with it - or else just think we’re weird for having them. So if you are successful, hopefully this video can help you solve some problems you might instantly recognize without ever having named. And for the rest of this video, I am going to be talking about success in the professional sense, though I know these problems could occur just as easily with dating success, physical fitness success and just about every area of life where you can achieve your goals. 1:08 Success invites a comparing mind 3:42 Success can become a social crutch 6:54 Success can be a crutch for happiness Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Conan O'Brien: How To Be Witty Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BNrmF6 Comedy Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07dqsgcxRNQITnahKaSFgp96 Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit. When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series. But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often. And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier. So let’s take a look at those principles. 0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example 3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example 4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBS Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

James Corden - How To Be Nice Without Being A Pushover Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EdT6Qs Push Pull In Flirting: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Self Deprecating Humor: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07cE9uFJ-SqUHQvmuNbhdRmz James Corden has the fastest growing Late Night channel on YouTube thanks mostly to the massive success he has had with Carpool Karaoke on the Late Late Show. And while it is certainly fun to watch your favorite singers rock out to their most popular songs, a big contributor to the success of those videos is the dynamic James is able to create in such a short time. He’s able to get people to open up and really enjoy themselves. And if you watch closely, there is a moment where these stars who were previously bored or skeptical, seem to really begin to like James Corden. James Corden’s magnetism comes from the fact that he is able to make people feel good, without losing their respect. That is what we are going to learn how to do in this video. 01:44 Make your compliments more specific and direct 02:06 Push-pull compliment to avoid the vibe of butt-kissing 02:54 If tension arises when complimenting, follow up with a joke 06:01 For certain groups, don't get walked over by dishing it back out 07:55 Set boundaries at times too like what James Corden did here Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

4 Surprising Things That Sabotage Friendships Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EQVPAG Friendships are some of the most important things in life. Yet sometimes it can seem difficult to start friendships - other times friendships you have simply dissolve. And that may be because you are doing something to sabotage them. Either having an idea of how to make friends or keep a friendship and relationships, you will surely realize something new in this video that maybe you haven't. 00:42 Lack of integrity in a friendship or relationship 03:43 Manipulating your friend with guilt 06:57 Being inconsiderate of your friend 08:40 Your values have diverged from your friend's Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Click on this link to donate: https://my.charitywater.org/charisma_on_command/give-a-fuck “How can you stop giving a fuck?” It’s a question I get fairly often and many times, the person asking it has Tyler Durden in mind (played by Brad Pitt), the cool bad boy from Fight Club that is the not giving a fuck ideal I think it’s because when we watch Fight Club, so many of us feel like the Narrator, played by Edward Norton. Sometimes we’re afraid to ask for what we want. Sometimes we avoid confrontation. And then we see Tyler Durden. Tyler can’t be controlled by ads. He can’t be threatened, because he’s not afraid of anything. Men follow his lead and Marla continues to hang around even when he treats her terribly. Tyler Durden is a shining example of someone who has everything we want without seeming to even struggle. 05:57 Care intensely about just a few things 07:30 Have a life philosophy with conviction 09:15 Distinguish the things that really matter 10:54 Care about other people to balance it Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Stop Caring What People Think Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nNVCa0 Have you ever lied about an odd hobby you have? Or maybe your job status? Or your height? Or even just avoided putting yourself in a situation in which you knew you were likely to fail? Why did you do that? Short answer: because you were embarrassed. Embarrassment comes from trying to control how other people perceive you. So instead of just showing the world your nerdy hobby, say you collect Beanie Babies, you go “I don’t want people to think I’m a dweeb.” and you pretend you don’t have one. The same process plays out with hobbies as it does with mistakes we’ve made, areas in which we are weak, and areas where we might get publicly rejected. We hide what we don’t want people to know about us. We conform to what other people would like us to be. But that doesn’t have to be the answer: Because there is another, more empowering mindset: Instead of focusing on other’s perceptions and feeling embarrassed about what they may think… Focus on whether or not you live up to YOUR OWN values. That's what this video is about and that's how you'll learn to stop caring what people think about you. Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan

BEST FRIEND BRAIN Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EaYfJo So this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week. I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself” And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-) 2:49 Feel isolated mentally 3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented 5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Facts Beat Feelings - The Trump Prediction Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BOeluP So in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-I The video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there. And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016. Facts Come Before Beliefs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Why PewDiePie Is Unstoppable Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ESHLXz Pewdiepie is the biggest YouTuberr by far, its not even close. And with his recent milestone of 50 million subscribers, I thought it would be interesting to look into the factors that contributed to his massive success. And obviously his enormous catalog of videos, and early entry into lets play genre contributed, but in this video we’re going to focus on the psychological factors that make him so unstoppable And I promise you, even if you hate Pewdiepie or don’t yet know who he is, you can learn from his success. Because he has tapped into the fundamentals of the way people work We'll talk about how Pewds got away with not deleting his channel at 50 million subscribers and instead deleted the jacksepticeye channel, how his let's play videos capture attention so well and why he's likely to stay on top Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How to Shut Down Haters Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C44Mne One of the unfortunate downsides of making positive changes is that people around you sometimes get negative. It doesn't matter what it is. It happens with people beginning new fitness regimens. . It happens with people starting new businesses, And it certainly happens with people who follow tips on this channel to become more charismatic. As they say, haters gonna hate. In this video, you’re going to discover 5 tips to put haters in their place when they start chirping.. 0:22 Ignore the hating, ignore the haters 0:50 Play along with passive-aggression 1:07 Special tip when haters say, "I could never do that..." 1:39 Share your values and concerns for people close to you 2:31 Find a community without haters Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Fadhila Arimurti, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan

How To Stay Motivated In Tough Times Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C5WpHz Have you wanted something more than anything, but for the life of you, you couldn’t stay motivated to actually make it happen. For some people, this is sticking to the diet, and going to the gym. For others, it's starting a business and persisting through the difficult times. No matter what it is for you, we all have something that we’ve not been able to achieve, and the reason that we often give ourselves is that we just didn't have enough motivation. So in this video you’re going to discover 5 keys to game motivation so that you can accomplish more of what you really want. 0:26 Don't rely on motivation because motivation can be fleeting 1:22 Making decisions drains your willpower 1:57 Change your environment to save willpower 2:28 Set hard and fast rules 2:56 Use the moment of inspiration to commit yourself going forward Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Animations by RSDF Studios, Jakarta (http://rambatansaddhadhika.co.id/) Art: Bonni Rambatan, Dwinanda Edo Editing: Bonni Rambatan

The Walking Dead - Why Negan Is Doomed Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2ES2uuw Negan is about to cause his own overthrow. It might not look like that from our last video, which discussed how effective his rule-based brutality was for controlling people, but he neglected one critical piece which will be his undoing. In this video, we’ll cover how Negan is likely to meet his end. The inspiration comes from CGP Grey’s recent video Rules for Rulers and of course the book it is based on The Dictator’s Handbook. Both are definitely worth checking out, especially since I’ll be repeating some of the main points here. 0:32 Negan controls the keys to leadership and as a ruler 0:32 Negan distributes wealth to his inner circle as a leader 3:08 Negan minimizes key supporters as a leader and ruler 6:00 Biggest mistake of Negan which will lead to his doom 6:46 Although Negan could probably tell if something is amidst CGP Grey's Rules for Rulers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rStL7niR7gs&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=Lead&utm_medium=NeganDoomed Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: https://goo.gl/lExR7u Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How Negan Rose To Power In The Walking Dead Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Bj8DjH Negan is one of the most ruthless leader in the world of the Walking Dead. He literally brings Rick Grimes to his knees. And perhaps what’s most scary about him, is that people like him are not just dominant in social interactions (even over guys like Daryl) but they oftentimes DO become leaders in our own world, especially in times where security is so hard to find, like in the Walking Dead. In this video we’ll break down what traits make Negan such a dominant force, why those make him a natural leader, and how you can handle those traits when you encounter them in real life - without the baseball bat named Lucille obviously. By the way, spoilers through mid season 7 of the Walking Dead AND some graphic images, because we’re talking about Negan here. 00:30 Negan's body language plays a role 3:22 Negan makes the rules clear 5:38 Negan doesn't just punish, he also rewards 7:06 Negan builds a cult of personality Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Why Instagram Is Ruining Your Life Link To Confidence Tip: https://goo.gl/J8LD0L If you were an alien looking at the Instagram news feed, you would have to conclude that most humans spend their lives in leisure traveling and smiling all day long. You assume that there were far more honeymoons and fights -- far more moments of laughing so hard that you cry than an actual crying and far more successes than failures but none of that is true. Our lives are not represented by the photos that we share. We are pretending and it comes at a dire cost. There's been a lot said about the dangers of consuming social media. After all, the sites are designed to be more addictive than crack. The articles do little more than waste your time and the misrepresentation of how people live can lead to depression with the state of your own life but those are the easy criticisms. The real danger of Instagram and other social media sites is not in what we consume but in what we create. Think of it this way -- every time you post a photo you are contributing to the creation of a persona. Kind of like in a video game -- you post a photo in front of the Eiffel Tower and your sophistication stat goes up, you delete a photo where you look bad and your beauty stat goes up, or you share a funny meme and your humor step goes up. 2:14 You'll be more unhappy the more you care about those likes 2:43 You sacrifice your own experience to promote your identity 3:16 You outsource your happiness to the masses 3:38 Curating an identity stops you from investing in you 4:08 Curating an identity limits you FB Newsfeed Eradicator: https://chrome.google.com/webstore/detail/news-feed-eradicator-for/fjcldmjmjhkklehbacihaiopjklihlgg?hl=en Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Conor McGregor: How To Be Confident Without Being Arrogant Get Our Best Tip To Turning On Confidence In Just 60 Seconds: https://goo.gl/AiIEjJ Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes in the world. He displayed that confidence in his flawless victory over Eddie Alvarez in UFC 205. But even though Conor McGregor's confidence is one of the best traits you can have, arrogance is one of the worst. And the line between the two can be blurry. Some people are worried that if they become confident, they’ll cross the line into arrogance - or that even if they don’t other people will perceive their new confidence as arrogance. In this video I want to help distinguish between true confidence and arrogant bravado 0:52 Don't talk if you can't back it up 1:01 Confidence is a statement while arrogance is a scream 2:55 Achieving more doesn't mean you're better than other people 4:05 Arrogance doesn't share the credit of success 5:04 Confidence is secure because it's based on reality Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Subscribe To Our Russian Channel: http://bit.ly/2fjsTGX Subscribe To Our Spanish Channel: http://bit.ly/2fIzB6j Subscribe To Our Portuguese Channel: http://bit.ly/2fX6yAU Interested in managing a foreign language channel? Email me at charlie@charismaoncommand with 1) The subject line in this layout, with the language first and "language channel" after (ex: German Language Channel) 2) **A sample of you dubbing any of our videos** - I did not mention this in the video, but I realize it's necessary to find people with both the drive and the equipment to do this. One minute is enough. Just a note, not everyone who applies can manage a channel :-) Interested in animating for us? Email me at charlie@charismaoncommand with: 1) The subject line "Animator" (no quotes, just the word) 2) A sample of you animating 1 minute of any of our videos so that I can see your style. 3) The rate you would charge and your estimate for the cost of animating a 10 minute video Here are a few samples of animations that I think do an excellent job of enhancing the audio. Obviously the styles are very different. The most important thing is that the visuals aid in watchability. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ig_qpNfXHIU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbaRgEnF3Sg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZsaaturR6E Thanks! I'm really excited about this! Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to 3 ways to start a conversation video: https://goo.gl/a58xcW The BIGGEST Mistake People Make In Dating There is one thing that ruins more relationships than any others. And while the examples I give are from my own life, this is true for men and women, straight, gay, it doesn't matter. That thing is neediness. It often looks like obsessiveness, meaning you start imagining what it would be be boyfriend and girlfriend after one encounter, discussing kid names, giving larges gifts, talking to them about your future together in early dates, or when you spend all day thinking about why they didn’t get back to that text you sent. And it’s repulsive. And it’s the biggest thing that messes it up right after you meet someone you really like. And I want to give you three simple things and one harder thing that you can do to fight neediness - because if you’ve got it, it can kill a relationship before it begins. Trust me, I’ve experienced it plenty of times. Keep in mind this specific advice is for early in a relationship 0:51 Trying to contact them every single day 2:37 Pleading when they can't meet up 3:55 Changing your schedule to fit theirs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

3 Books To Make Your Dreams Come True Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FYOtuh After family and friends, there is nothing in my life that has had a bigger positive impact on me than books. And today I want to the 3 most important I’ve ever read. I recommend each for different reasons, but I recommend them to anyone who wants to create an exceptional life for themselves. And rather than tell you what they’re about, I want to share what you can get out of them if you read them: Four Hour Work Week How To Win Friends And Influence People 6 Pillars of Self Esteem 0:36 The Four Hour Workweek 2:30 How To Win Friends And Influence People 4:39 Six Pillars of Self-Esteem 6:13 Summary of all the best books for your personal development Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Debate Analysis on Trump and Hillary Third Presidential Debate Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nMoIXl The second and third presidential debates between Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton are in the books and everyone is talking about who won but today, we're not talking about policies or strength of argument. I want to analyze who won strictly from a charisma angle so let's get into it. The first thing to note is that previous presidential debates, especially the primaries, were defined by zingers and there were a handful mostly from Trump. There was a different vibe in this debate though since the audience couldn't laugh out loud at Hillary and there were longer uninterrupted stretches to answer questions. Instead of punchy one-liners, these debates came down to two main principles. This is an analysis on the final debate and the election is getting near the end! 0:57 Credibility -- being an authority on the issues (Hillary won) 1:08 Use of specific numbers to build authority (tie between Trump and Hillary) 2:13 Specificity does not equal truth 2:29 Comfort in answering difficult questions (I'd say Clinton won, though Trump had a rougher go from the moderators) 6:25 Conviction and congruency being major contributors to charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Why Jimmy Fallon Seems Fake On The Tonight Show Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2Ec8iOc Jimmy Fallon’s hosts the most watched Late Night show on TV (the Tonight Show). And in an industry where most games, stunts, and celebrities are interchangeable, that says a lot about his likability. But Jimmy is not universally adored. A glance at the YouTube comments shows that some people find him fake. Specifically they think his laugh is fake. In this video we’ll look into the things that may make it seem that way to some. Oddly enough, it’s also his biggest strength. Long story short, I think it isn't (it's probably just a habit Jimmy picked up while working at SNL) but what's most interesting is how his laughter affects the people around him - and what we can learn from that "easy laugh" 6:59 Watch videos that make you laugh 7:27 Paying compliments by laughing at someone's joke 8:32 Celebrate stupid little things 10:02 Doing goofy things that you find personally amusing Funny videos I like to watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IixQox4rhEw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nEl04eG8Eg Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

3 Ways To Be Little Happier Every Day Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2sioXy8 A few months back I made a video about a break up and ever since then I have been very interested in happiness, because at the time, it was hard for me to feel as happy as I was used to. I began experimenting with different happiness exercises and measuring how they made me feel, I tried a whole bunch and still have lots more to go, but I want to share 3 that work really well and very rapidly. So whether you’re having a tough time, or just generally want to be happier, give these exercises a try 0:36 Create space for subconscious problem solving 2:22 Second is tied in to the third one relating to gratitude 2:51 Practice negative attitude by appreciating horrible things 4:22 Practice gratitude towards others 6:27 Recommendation to be grateful and achieve happiness 750words.com (Free freewriting for first month, then $5/month) 3pages.fr (Free freewriting forever, in French) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert

How To Stop Procrastination What do you want to do that you keep procrastinating? https://goo.gl/X1QoIA Maybe you’re even putting it off right now by watching this video. Keep it in mind, because by the end of this video - my goal is to get you doing that thing. Because if you’re like me, you’ve found it comparatively hard to hit the gym, write a thesis, make a sales call, and most recently making these YouTube videos. And comparatively easy to playing video games, browsing reddit, and watching old episodes of Supernanny. But if you understand why procrastination happens, you’ll realize there are three levers you can use to trick yourself and train your brain to stop procrastinating. So let’s do it. 0:26 Three psychological triggers for procrastination 0:35 Lack of clarity is the first trigger for procrastination, overcome by setting daily deadlines 1:48 Overwhelm is the second trigger for procrastination, overcome by creating Tiny Habits 2:58 Delayed gratification is the third trigger for procrastination, overcome by rewarding yourself immediately after the fact 4:14 An extra procrastination tip to make everything work better Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Trump v Clinton - Who REALLY won the debate? Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BQv80i The first Presidential debate is over and everybody is weighing in on who won. Was it Donald Trump? Or Hillary Clinton? But I have a different question: How did each candidate perform during the debate from a charisma perspective? This is critically important. When people don’t know who to trust, we oftentimes just choose the person they “have a better feeling about”. You might not like it, but it’s the truth of how we work. So if you want to know how undecided voters will vote in the 2016 presidential election - you can’t ignore the charisma angle. Link to How to Memorize a Speech - with No Notes video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaoxXFju6uo Link to Genuine Smile video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxzR4n0OHHk Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Ellen Degeneres' Tips To Making People Instantly Like You Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nWBHVU We all want people to like us. And Ellen Degeneres seems to have that down to a science. Ellen Degeneres is one of the most likable hosts on TV. And it’s largely due to the types of jokes that she makes. Almost all hosts are funny, but Ellen’s style of comedy has a way of instantly endearing her guests to her. Today we are going to talk about the most common types of jokes that Ellen makes, how you can use them to get people to immediately like you, and some habits that you can work on to just generally be funnier throughout your day. 1:10 - The kind of jokes that make people sad, ones that Ellen rarely makes 2:08 - Self-deprecating jokes make people feel comfortable around Ellen 3:10 - Poking fun at subjects that people are not insecure about allows Ellen to crack jokes without upsetting people 5:20 - Making ego boosting jokes that make other people feel good, makes Ellen someone that people want to spend more time with 5:59 - Ellen can also joke around and just simply be silly Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert

How to tell if someone is lying to you Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C4PWg0 How can you tell if someone is lying? How many times do you think that you've been lied to today? Go ahead and take a guess because the answer might shock you. Studies show that on the low end, that the number of lies is somewhere around ten times. And on the high end, that number could be up to two hundred times in just one day. You are being lied to constantly so this is a video on how to tell if someone is lying to you. What’s worse, your lie detection capabilities are definitely not 100%. In fact, studies show that they could be anywhere from 50% to 75% wrong. This video is meant to put the odds back in your favor because there are things that you’re probably not taught that can help you become a human lie detector. And I want to cover those four things plus touch on some examples of some masterful liars getting caught in the act. If you’ve enjoyed this one, go ahead and make sure to subscribe to the channel. We have tons of videos on how to boost your charisma, your confidence and of course, your ability to read social situations. So if you never want to miss one of those, click Subscribe and you’ll see us on your homepage every single week. I hope that you’ve enjoyed this video and I look forward to seeing you in the next one. Key points to tell if someone is lying: 0:46 How can you tell if someone is lying? Body language 1:40 Good liars know how to lie so here's "blocking" as a follow-up 2:51 The liars "duping delight" 4:36 The "redirection" of the lie 6:10 Test the chronology of the lie Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How to 10x Your Productivity, and Achieve More With Your Time! Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://goo.gl/cu5ve2 In many ways, I consider myself a lazy person, which doesn't mean that I sit at home and I stuff my face all day while watching bad re-runs. It just means that I like to protect my free time. I want to do the things that I want to do. And achieve the specific things I want to achieve. So when I found out from the beginning of this year to today I've 10x my productivity in this Charisma on Command business, I was very happy because that meant I got to spend more time doing things I love and less time doing things I felt like I had to. This isn't just about making money. This is really about how you spend your life. It's about becoming productive. So if you're interested in more of the good stuff, and less of the things you have to do. Go through these 4 steps to achieve more with me right now. (And make sure you write them down because that's how you're going to get the biggest productivity results from this) 0:46 Identify your goal to achieve (and the biggest driver) 1:45 Write down everything that is 'supposedly' taking you to your goal 2:51 Eliminate and simplify in order to become productive 4:56 Find and eliminate your 'Herbie' in order to achieve more 7:21 A review of the 4 steps to increase your productivity Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

The reason why Hilary Clinton is beating Donald Trump Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BMEIBj At the end of July, Trump was at a dead heat in the polls against Hillary Clinton, but in just a span of just a week, things turned on their head for Trump and according to polls, he's currently a long shot to be President. What's most interesting is that Trump didn't change much in that week. Rather, Hillary's team effectively countered techniques that Trump has been using for months. In this video, we're going to look at what persuasion mistakes Trump made, how Hillary capitalized on those mistakes, and what both candidates need to do to win. So let's start by exploring how some of Trump's most effective weapons have been turned against him. 0:33 Trumps "Others have said..." technique 1:33 The start of Trumps troubles 3:57 Hilary started to portray Donalds exaggeration as facts 5:00 The end of Trumps political incorrectness 6:10 Showing the human side of Hilary Clinton Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Do you ever feel like the fear of rejection is holding you back?... Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2C43VD8 Like maybe there's someone that you would have really liked to ask out, someone that you've had your eye on for a long time, but when you think about asking them out you think about them maybe saying no. Rejecting you. So you don't even want to try. Or maybe you're an artist of some kind and you'd like to share your art, you'd like to publish it, you'd like to maybe even pursue it as a career... for me, this was writing. But, when you think about being criticized or rejected for that art, you don't even want to throw your hat in the ring. If that's something that you can relate to, the good news is that you don't have to continue to relate to it because there's people in the world that are basically immune to rejection! They don't feel it in the same way that you might, and they don't fear it. And the only difference between them and someone who has issues with rejection that were kind of fears it is the way that they perceive it in their mind and that's what we're covering today. How can you make those quick little rejection tweaks? They're gonna make rejection kind of feel like something that just rolls off your back like nothing at all! Rejection Mindsets and Strategies: 0:57 Think of a time that you have been rejected exercise. 1:15 Disassociate yourself from the rejection. 2:44 Broaden your perspective and goals of being rejected. 4:20 Success is a numbers game (roll the dice). 5:50 STOP using the word "Rejection" Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get INSANE Confidence Instantly! https://bit.ly/2QWM1uq Nate Diaz has changed Conor McGregor since their UFC fight. Conor McGregor looked unstoppable. He beat everyone that he fought, and predicted many of his victories with surprising accuracy, and had unshakable confidence... But when Conor fought Nate Diaz things didn't go as planned. The question is how has that loss impacted McGregor's confidence? He's unlikely to share candidly, but if you know what to look for you can see cracks in Conor's confidence. Hopefully by the end of this video you will know how to read anyone in your life and know what they are really feeling instead of just what they are saying. So let's begin with Conor's tells: 0:41 Conor McGregor's trash talking at every opportunity 2:00 Conor's confidence demonstrated through gesticulation 2:40 McGregor imposingly takes up space within every room 5:35 The new style of trash talk from a defeated McGregor 6:00 A subdued Conor compared to a confident Conor 7:30 A look at Nate Diaz's confidence and pre-fight predictions 9:12 A comparison between confident Conor and a hesitant one (post his fight with Nate Diaz) Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/kaWl1i How To Give An Amazing Speech Without Using Notes Public speaking is terrifying. But at some point in your life, no matter how much you avoid it, you’re going to get called on to give a speech. It could be a presentation for work, a best man speech at a wedding, who knows. And if you can’t give it without notes, you’re at a huge disadvantage. Because not only does it come off as less authentic if you’re constantly referencing notes, but if the powerpoint breaks, you’re screwed. This video is going to to teach you how I regularly talk for 10-20 minutes, with minimal memorization and how you can learn to public speak without any notes too. 0:32 - Outline your speech in memory friendly form 2:00 - Write out everything on paper (or computer) 2:43 - Subvocalize your speech without using visual cues 4:25 - Memorize the first and last sentences word for word Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Are you shy? Discover how to not be shy in social situations within 60 seconds of first feeling it. Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: https://goo.gl/lka4SA This is video on overcoming shyness will be useful to you if you have had the experience of getting locked up in your head in a social environment. You go from feeling comfortable and fine in one group to suddenly not knowing what to say. You draw a blank and when you can think of something, it’s just stupid and goes over poorly. Your hands don’t feel right anywhere. So you don’t wind up hesitating and missing out on opportunities a networking events with new friends or even a first date. Overcome Social Anxiety and Shyness by: 0:45 Stop trying to do anything and just exist (free yourself) 2:45 Overcome your shy voice that is in your head 5:30 Prepare for interaction to free yourself from social anxiety 7:30 An easy sentence to break through your shy pattern Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Arnold Schwarzenegger's bodybuilding, political and acting successes were no coincidence. Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EOIdWy Arnold Schwarzenegger is one of the most impressive success stories of our era. He won Mr. Olympia 7 times and put bodybuilding on the map, then he became the highest payed actor of his time, then without any elected experience Schwarzenegger became the governor of California. This kind of success tends to alienate people, yet Arnold has almost always inspired love from the masses. Today we are going to talk about what Arnold did that made his success something people were inspired by despite the fact that he was never particularly modest. Watch how Arnold moves from Admiration to actually being charismatic: 2:20 Arnold Schwarzenegger never takes himself too seriously 3:17 Arnold turns a bragging story into a likeable one using humor 6:14 Schwarzenegger is almost endlessly positive 7:08 An insight into how Arnold cultivates positivity in his life 10:00 The powerful "You and I" Switcharoo Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy. Get The 3 Ways To Start A Conversation: https://goo.gl/YcTueW The first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men. Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting. How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide: 0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching 2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone) 2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back 3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension 5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy 6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly 8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wall Link to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2FU1zsL 3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions You might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it. Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete. And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend. So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong. 1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing 2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities 3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communication Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EbWVWt Muhammad Ali's Insane Confidence Muhammad Ali was was one of the most outspoken, self-promoters in sports history. He said he was GREATEST all the time. You would think that confidence would be construed as arrogance, yet Ali is one of the most beloved sports icons we’ve ever known. Today we’re going to look at what him such a remarkable man, how he was supremely confident without coming off as too arrogant, and how we can make the kind of impact he did on the people around us. 1. Trash talk like a pro 2. Be confident, but over perform the arrogance 3. Win the frame games and lead in interaction 4. Stand for something Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Interested in learning more about Charisma University? Click here: https://goo.gl/QaKqLh You’re going to spend thousands and thousands hours learning over the course of your life. What’s crazy is that despite the fact that we have all those hours sitting in the classroom, learning musical instruments, martial arts, business, language, whatever - no one teaches us how to optimize that learning experience. But there are principles that you can apply to any area of life you want to improve in. From beating people who have been training waaaaay more than I have in ju jitsu to watching our business grow exponentially in the last 6 months. So think of an area of your life that you want to start crushing the competition in and apply these 5 tips to learn 10x faster 1. Measure the smallest possible victory 2. Drill one thing at a time until it is unthinking habit. 3. Shorter periods of study every day beat cramming 4. When you are starting, try a million different things 5. Debrief your successes and failures Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

In the previous video, I spoke about self love and it's critical importance to your well being. In this video I answer questions from YOU (in the comments!) about love, self love, and self esteem. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

This is contains the most important thing I have learned in the last year. https://goo.gl/QL2tCL For some of you, I’m sure it will be the most important video I have ever done. In order to do it justice I need to tell you some personal stuff about what has been going on in my life. It occurred as much of life biggest learnings do, when things went wrong. Specifically, I broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We loved each other and still do, but we had very very different ideas of how we wanted to live our live At first, I felt like a zombie. And then I felt sad. And then I bawled my eyes out. I started looking for ways to feel better after the breakup with my girlfriend and I came across something I hadn't expected: love and self-love. In short, this video is about self love, what it is, and why you need to work on it. Here are the three actions steps as discussed in the video 1. Interrupt the negative pattern with eye scrambling 2. Feed yourself self love 3. Extend that love to the person you least want to extend it to Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EPfAIZ Why The Starks Will Always Get Betrayed The Stark men have a grim history of betrayal. Ned Stark by Petyr Baelish (Littlefinger). Robb Stark by Roose Bolton and Walder Frey. And Jon Snow by his Nightswatch brothers. Jon Snow got lucky with the resurrection, but his leadership abilities are still dismal. This isn’t by accident. In fact, I blame Ned because all of the Stark men (including Jon Snow) share some of his flaws which make them doomed as leaders. They try to be good men, to do what’s right, but in the end they fail - this video will cover exactly how and what we can learn from them. 1. Ask: What do you know about the people around you, and what does that tell you about their motives? 2. Ignore what people say. You must look to their past actions to determine what they’ll do in the future. 3. To motivate people, align their interests with your own 4. Make sure the people on your team know the strategy, not just the tactics 5. A good leader repeats the mission and makes sure that people understand why things have to be done 6. Paint a vivid picture of what they stand to gain AND what they stand to lose Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice. In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned 1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves. 2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor. Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path. 3. Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change. Cut the ones that only want you in status quo 4. Pick teachers that have strong morals. You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let in Hope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbS7jO How To Be The Life Of ANY Party - feat. Jim Carrey If you want to be the life of the party, there are really only two things you need to do First, you need to be able to captivate people who you might not know And second, you need to be able to make people with senses of humor laugh The problem is you might not know how to captivate strangers or make people with different senses of humor laugh. Wit might get some people but be lost on others. Amazing storytelling can hook a group, but it can be hard to get people to listen in the first place. So in this video, I want to cover 6 easy ways to become the life of the party and make people with lots of different senses of humor laugh. These are things ANYONE can do, you don’t have to be a comedic genius To illustrate these principles, we’ll be looking at Jim Carrey, because his style lends itself to learning quickly. We'll learn to: 1) Create a character 2) Use specificity 3) Commit 4) Use surprise 5) Find the funny philosophy Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

What would make you happier? Winning the lottery? Or becoming paraplegic? What’s crazy is that a year after winning the lottery versus using the use of their legs, people from both groups rate their happiness as the same. This is called impact bias: we overestimate which things will make us happy and for how long. What’s crazy is this isn’t just a quirk of lottery winners - so many people spend their lives in a pursuit of happiness that is not that impactful and fleeting. You get the a job that you desperately want that once you arrive isn’t as glamorous as you thought, you get a phone, a computer, or a car, and for 2 weeks you notice how new and cool it is, but before you know it it’s just another thing. There are ways to avoid this trap though. I have spent literally years studying people, their happiness, and applying the lessons to myself. What you see is that there are certain approaches that work and certain that don’t. There are 5 things and I’m calling it the happiness ladder, because I tend to see it correspond to phases of our lives and people tend to move from one level to the next in order. My hope is that this video gives you a shortcut to the top. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Eliminate Stress Stress sucks. Not only does it take an emotional toll, but if you live long enough with stress it can literally kill you. So it doesn’t matter, if it’s from your job, your relationship, your financial situation, or getting in an airplane, for your health and your sanity, you have to know how to reduce and even eliminate stress. I want to cover the 3 levers you have to stop stressing out, but first you need to the big misunderstanding people have about stress. Whatever stress you might have is NOT coming from the activities in your life. It’s coming from our habits. It’s coming from a mindset, which is this: Stress comes from needing something to happen that you don’t think you can control (and that you think could go badly). The good news is that understanding stress like this gives three options to combat it. 1. Stop needing things. Fear setting can help with this 2. Increase your feeling of control. Use tree planning as opposed to stick planning. 3. Create the habit of optimism. NLP swish patterns will help here. Happy stress hunting! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC For the Spanish and Russian Channels Spanish: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_p2pDMqZ5bjNpQTL3K4r1g Russian: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnXppDx0xzfKqOafJunzcEw Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EPUGcp Why Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary Clinton Donald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States. Let me be clear. This isn’t a pro-Trump video. I’m not voting for Trump. But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president. Even though I am not voting for him. That’s how confident I am. Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well. So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going. Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke. First he was seen as a joke.... Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle.... Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted... And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton. Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy. Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it. Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card." It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls. Some even have him up. If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November. Check out Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Click here to get the exercise to build confidence & commitment in less than 1 minute https://goo.gl/aBYMNW How To DESTROY Self Doubt Self-doubt can be crippling. And it doesn’t matter if the doubt comes from within or if other people’s negative comments begin to affect you. Sometimes you can get into a spin cycle of doubt and negativity that absolutely crushes your confidence. What’s worse is that we “know” we shouldn't doubt ourselves. We know it’s not helping us. But that doesn't change the way it feels. The negative comments still affect us. Or our own self talk continues to hold us back so that we don’t perform like we know we can. In this video I am going to teach you 5 things that will help you deal with self doubt, especially when it’s the kind of self-doubt that just gets played over and over again in your head without a way out. I recognize that all the motivational speeches in the world haven’t made this problem go away so I want to give you things that are battle tested things that actually change how you feel. The 5 tips are 1. Exercise to change your state 2. find the lesson 3. Change your environment and filter 4. Embody the removal of the negative feelings 5. Get righteously pissed Hopefully those help you regain your confidence and sanity and get you back on track. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Read ANYONE https://goo.gl/Za6Y2J Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything. But we won’t stop there Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it. So let’s get into 1. Increase self-awareness 2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge) 3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site: http://www.microexpressionstest.com/m... 4. Identify common patterns 5. Make predictions based on people's body language 6. Experiment in your own life Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EQiZXI 6 Ways Iron Man is Cooler Than Captain America The rivalry between iron Man and Captain America has reached a fever pitch with Captain America: Civil War. And in the movies (Winter Soldier, Avengers, etc.) and comics both are incredibly effective leaders. What is undeniable though, is that people follow them for different reasons, because Iron Man is much cooler than Captain America. In fact, Captain America can be kind of a dweeb In honor of Captain America: Civil War I wanted to look at the actors behind these 2 iconic characters. Because whether Iron Man has bled into Robert Downey Junior or vice versa, the fact is that they have both mastered the art of witty banter and cool demeanor. Chris Evans and Captain America, still make great leaders but in a very different way. They're much more good-hearted and likable. So let's take a look at how some tiny little habits make Robert Downey Junior and Tony Stark come across as cool while Chris Evans and Captain America come off as something else entirely. We'll explore the different ways that they use sarcasm, joke, and pay attention to other people. And in the end hopefully we can resolve this Civil War peacefully ;-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EvEGPr Why Tyrion Will Win The Game Of Thrones Game of Thrones is extremely violent. Yet despite all the bloodiness, most of the power that you see characters like Tywin Lannister or Daenerys Targaryen wield is not through physical force. Rather it comes from mini-conflicts of body language, eye contact, and tonality. Specifically, there is a battle to control the 4 W's. I believe the person to win the Game of Thrones will be the one that best takes control of these 4W's. And one of the best candidates to win is Tyrion Lannister. He may never sit the Iron Throne himself, but I believe that given his incredible command of power, he will be by the ruler's side. Here are the four W's that make Tyrion so special 1) When: In this scene Daenerys completely controls the when as Tyrion and Jorah are there at her leisure. She also takes command of the silence. 2) Who: Tyrion is great at making himself appear more important. Tywin Lannister is also great at this as he snatches the power from Joffrey, despite the fact that Joffrey Baratheon is king. 3) What: Tyrion does an excellent job of controlling what Dany focuses on 4) Where: Daenerys' power is completely dependant on where she is - when she finds herself in front of Khal Moro in season 6, it's basically at zero So those are the four W's that I believe will win to Tyrion winning the Game of Thrones. Hope you enjoy! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

6 Tips To Deal With The Negative Comments That Come With Self Improvement https://goo.gl/Exsh64 When we make positive changes and pursue self improvement, we sometimes attract negative comments from our friends and loved ones. It doesn't matter if you start taking your fitness seriously, starting a business, or implementing the charisma tips you see on this channel, whenever you start to grow there are inevitably people who would like to see you stay the same In this video I want to teach you how to deal with negative comments and hopefully turn that negativity to positivity. There are 6 tips I cover are 1. Use the toddler technique 2. Purposely misinterpret passive aggressive questions 3. Answer their questions with vulnerability 4. Use the 1 sentence rebuttal 5. Don't recruit; live it 6. Find one other person Those 6 things have been a huge help in removing negativity from my own life. I hope you find them helpful in removing negative comments and negative friends from yours. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nUgFXJ Game of Thrones - Why Tyrion Can't Be Killed Tyrion Lannister has a knack for staying alive. He is constantly getting into trouble and talking his way out. But Tyrion's genius is replicable if you learn how he thinks. And one of the first thing he thinks of is what other people want. That is how he manages to continue through season after season in Game of Thrones. We cover 3 ways to figure out what people want by examining how Tyrion Lannister survives through Game of Thrones: 1. Cold reading - watch how Tyrion cold reads Bronn . Contrast that with Lommy, who never even attempts to cold read Polliver before he kills him 2. Listening - Tyrion listens very carefully to what people say. When the pirates take him hostage and mention they will sell his "manhood" to the cock merchant, he comes up with a clever reason for them to keep him alive. Cersei provides a foil to this in how she behaves with Joffrey. 3. Asking people for their stories - Tyrion asks the members of the Night's Watch for their stories, learning about Grenn and Pip. Jon Snow, on the other hand, just assumes that they hate him because he is better. If you put those 3 things into place you might not win The Game of Thrones, but you can still display some of Tyrion's genius. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

100,000 Subscriber Thank You + Giveaway Didn't think I'd get to do this soon! We just hit 100,000 subscribers earlier this week and I wanted to thank everyone who has watched, subscribed, and shared our channel. Aside from just extending our thanks, we're offering 10 of our subscribers a chance to win a brand new module on Dealing With Conflict. It will cover how to come out of those difficult situations getting what you want while still maintaining a strong relationship. So if you're interested in participating, here's how: 1) Share your favorite video of ours on Facebook 2) Make sure to tag Charisma on Command That's it. We'll add your submission up to 3 times for 3 shares over the next week. The giveaway ends Thursday April 21st. We'll randomly choose the 10 winners then and contact them in the following days. Thanks for making this possible :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2BjiwgX Adele: How to Be Authentic Adele might be the best singer alive. Her music is soulful and moving. What’s fascinating about her is that the “honesty” in her music extends to her interviews and offstage interactions. So in this video I want to explore what makes Adele come across as so genuine. We'll watch her interviews with Jimmy Fallon on the Tonight Show, James Corden on Carpool Karaoke on The Late Late Show, and Fredrik Skavlan on Skavlan. We'll also listen in on her song "Someone Like You" to watch how she delivers it with such pure emotion. Learning where that feeling arises from will make it easier for you to spot fakers and it will make it possible for you to become more genuine yourself, which will make people you barely know trust you and want to get to know you better. James Corden And Adele Singing Carpool Karaoke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nck6B... The three things that Adele does so well that will we cover are: 1) Smiling Genuinely 2) Being Honest And Congruent With Her Feelings 3) Praising Others Openly And Freely Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Video Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.com Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to tip to strengthen your frame & build confidence: https://goo.gl/y2CvdQ Game of Thrones: How Power Really Works Game of Thrones is all about power games. What many people don't realize is that behind those power games are clashes of the way people see the world. There are clashes of frames. The people who can control these frames (like Tyrion Lannister and Tywin Lannister) tend to win over the Game of Thrones people who struggle more often (like Robb Stark). There are tons of ways you can use this understanding of frames in your normal life. We'll look at three in this video Note: the spoilers go up only through season 4, so if you haven't seen all the way to season 6, you are still good to watch 1) Breaking frames for persuasion (Tyrion vs. Shagga) 2) Frames in insults (Tyrion vs Robb Stark and Robb Stark vs. Jaime Lannister) 3) Frames to create options (Tyrion vs. Tywin and Tyrion vs. Lysa Arryn) Let me know how you feel about these fictional breakdowns! I have never done one in the past and would love your feedback. Especially let me know if you like Game of Thrones related breakdowns, because there is a lot more I could potentially cover (like Tyrion's charisma and persuasive abilities) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/7G2Go2 6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally. In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you. Those charismatic beliefs are 1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert Snapchat: @charliehoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nWDgDg The Secret Of Bill Clinton's Incredible Eye Contact Bill Clinton may have the most famously captivating eye contact of anyone alive. On all sides of the political spectrum, people have noted that when Bill Clinton spoke to them, it felt as if they were the only person in the room. Even Newt Gingrich, his political nemesis, said he was "one of the most charming, effective people I have negotiated with." It may have won him the presidency in the 1992 town hall debate against George Bush Sr. and Ross Perot. A huge component of that charm and charisma comes from the engaging way Clinton makes eye contact. And that is the main focus of this video. We'll explore how he is able to convey many emotions with his gaze. Especially a sense of power and genuine connection that come from his intense, narrow eyes. You'll also see how he breaks eye contact in a way that makes people feel heard and be able to contrast that with George Bush Sr. who lost the 1992 debate and maybe the election because of the way he handled this question. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2GY7leb The 5 Charismatic Habits Of The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) Dwayne Johnson (aka The Rock) has been successful in 3 very different careers. He was an excellent football player at Miami (until he injured himself). Then he made the transition to the WWE where he became famous as "The Rock." And then he made an even more incredible career leap to movies, starring in the Fast and Furious franchise. Now he is moving into the comedy real in a new movie called Central Intelligence with Kevin Hart. To be successful in all of those careers, particular the second two, where he was the most successful, you need a great deal of charisma. The wrestling fans need to like you. People need to want to see your movies. And Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson has been able to accomplish that. So in this video we explore what makes Dwayne Johnson so charismatic. Starting back in his WWE days we can see exactly how he learned to gesticulate, to command the attention of a crowd and then moving on, we see how he also learned to show leadership and vulnerability. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/gQT6DN Elliott Hulse's tip for a deeper voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 Original video: https://youtu.be/wiOwqDmacJo?t=2m14s 3 Simple Voice Tweaks To Captivate Anyone Neil deGrasse Tyson is an amazing speaker. He's one of the select group of science educators that appeal to mainstream America. Truly, some of the topics he covers are fascinating. But the truth is that the majority of his appeal comes from the way in which he speaks. In this video, we cover three simple vocal tips that will make you a more captivating speaker. You'll learn how to use your voice in a way that gets people leaning forward and hoping you tell them more. Those tips are, in short 1. Take longer, deeper breaths to lower your voice 2. Strategically use silence to hook people's attention 3. Develop vocal range in terms of speed, cadence, and style Enjoy, and let us know if you're enjoying the throwback videos! Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2Bimt5J 4 Activities That Will Dramatically Boost Your Charisma I often get asked what things people can do on a day to day basis to improve their charisma. There isn't a gym or dojo that you can go to to work on your charisma and confidence. But there are ways for people to take certain types of classes that will indirectly boost their confidence and increase their charisma. The four things that I have see had the most impact on my confidence and charisma were 1. Improv comedy 2. Toastmasters 3. Martial Arts 4. Mini experiments in normal social environments. Taken together, those four activities account for almost all of the real world practice I was able to get in developing my self-confidence and charisma. So if you're interested in signing up for something that is likely to have a huge positive effect on your charisma, start with this list. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2E8Yitb Robin Williams' #1 Tip To Becoming Funnier Robin Williams was absolutely hilarious. His mental quickness was second to none and people often commented on what a raw natural comedic talent he was. The truth is though, Robin Williams honed his skills over many years. And one of those skills in particular can be applied by anyone to make themselves funnier almost immediately. It's a humor technique called playing a character and it can make even things that are unfunny seem hilarious. So check out this tip and use it in your own jokes and stories. I can't promise you'll become as funny as Robin Williams, but if you do it with conviction, you'll see people respond with way more laughter than you may be used to. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2C4Crx5 Trump vs Brand: The Power Of Word Choice Donald Trump and Russell Brand are two very influential people with devoted followings. Yet they have nearly opposite styles of speaking. Trump uses simple words. His announcement speech for his presidential bid came in at a 4th grade reading level according to the Flesch - Kincaid readability test. Russell Brand, on the other hand, speaks using words that you're unlikely to ever hear in normal conversation and may need a thesaurus just to understand. So after watching how effective Trump has been in his campaign I began to ask myself: which is better? Big words or small ones? Short words or long words? Have I been mistaken in trying to expand my vocabulary? In this video, I explore the different speaking styles of Trump and Brand and try to answer those questions. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Ugh. I wish this video didn't exist Our video on Conor McGregor received a takedown notice despite the fact that everything on it was commentary and fell within the bounds of fair use. Which means it was ripped off YouTube fraudulently because the owner of one of the clips has too much damn power. This abuse has been happening on YouTube more and more. Fair Use is getting destroyed and it sucks. I don't know how, but I'd like to figure how to fight back rather than just by complaining about it. If you have any ideas and you want to reach out to me, you can contact me via YouTube messenger or via email at [email protected] Hopefully, together we can end this shit.

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/UHklkp The Core of Self-Confidence Self-confidence is one of those things the we recognize when we see it. But we don't usually know how to build it. The reason is because we often misattribute self-confidence. We feel good when people give us compliments and assume that's where self-confidence must come from. After all, if we heard those nice things all the time, how could we not be confident. But while praise and compliments may help temporarily boost self confidence, they don't last long. The leave us searching for the next hit. What truly contributes to enduring self-confidence is building self-esteem. Because nothing inhibits confidence like low self esteem. Self-esteem can be a tricky concept, but it really boils down to how you feel about you. If you are proud of the way you are living, you'll have high self-esteem. If you're not, all the compliments in the world can float that sinking ship. Your have low self esteem. This video explores a few of the fundamentals of self-esteem so you know how to build your self-esteem from a rock solid foundation. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the exercise to build enthusiasm and commitment in under 1 minute: https://goo.gl/Hg42Mi Kevin Hart's 3 Secrets To Hilarious Storytelling Kevin Hart is one of the funniest men alive. Whether in interviews with Ellen Degeneres or George Lopez, or his standup specials, he tells absolutely hilarious stories. In fact, most of his standup routine consists of him telling stories. But he does it in such a way that hooks an audience and never lets go, partially because he is able to include so many jokes. It's not that Kevin Hart's life is inherently more interesting than the rest of ours. He is just a better storyteller. The good news is that storytelling is not something you're born with or you're not. Anyone can learn to tell the kind of funny stories that made Kevin famous. You just need to know the most important pieces. While there are many storytelling techniques and styles that will enable you to captivate an audience, ultimately, the best storytellers share a few things in common: they get attention, they commit, and they are constantly refining their craft. These fundamentals can be used in any kind of story but they are especially useful for funny stories So if you want to know how to tell a story better or you are just are interested in what makes Kevin Hart's stories so engaging, check out the video. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to tip to master your emotions: https://goo.gl/VTGFwi How To Find Your Passion People often write me asking what they should do with their lives. They lack a sense of purpose. They have this sense that they should "follow their passion" but they don't really know what it means. Plus half the world is telling them that following a passion is stupid or misinformed. They encourage them to develop the skills they are already good at and that society values. That way they can get a good job and get paid. I'm all for developing skills that can land you gainful employment. But as to sticking to making that your sole focus? Screw that. And as for sticking only to what you're already good at? Screw that too. Start with what excites you. If you care enough, you'll put in the work to become fantastic in that field. And the way the world is going, you can get paid for most anything (hell, I make money talking about how celebrities exude charisma!) This video answers the question "How do I find my passion?" It is there is to help you overcome some of the hidden doubts you might have. The things that might be holding you back from discovering what your passion really is and committing to developing it. Ask yourself these 4 questions and write down the answers. Then pick the common thread and do it more. You'll be a happier person for it, and you might just get a chance to earn a living doing something you love. 1. What makes you lose track of time? 2. What do you spend money to do? 3. Where do you fear judgment? 4. What makes your heart race? Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2H1opA6 Donald Trump's Debates: 5 Mental Tricks You Didn't Notice Donald Trump has proven himself to be a master persuader. His unlikely rise to prominence in the Republican primaries has riden on the fact that he knows how to work the media during interviews as well as his performances in the GOP debates against the likes of Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz. When watching the debates, many of his detractors criticize Trump's apparent lack of substance. For instance, he ducked Megyn Kelly's question about sexism with a joke about Rosie O'Donnell. He seems to repeat buzz words more than other candidates and often justifies his positions by referring to other people who support his stances, rather than defending them outright. While this may seem like weak arguments, Donald Trump's debate strategies actually align perfectly with the way humans think and process information. For that reason, Trump's arguments tend to sink in more than his opponent's (like Jeb Bush and Ted Cruz) do. In this video we'll look at the top 5 relatively unknown psychological truths that Trump exploits to get his point across during interviews and debates. Link to Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Donald Trump Is Actually A Master Psychologist Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/dqNQaw Could Donald Trump really win in 2016?? It seems like a ridiculous question, but Donald Trump's 2016 campaign has defied all the expectations from the pundits. Initially considered a joke candidate, he now leads the Republican pack in most national polls and the polls for the most important caucuses. At the same time, a huge portion of America would be mortified if Trump were to win. He's made remarks about Muslims and Mexicans that many have found offensive and those same people are baffled about how he could be the Republican frontrunner. It's no accident though. Trump has an incredible amount of charisma and an intuitive understanding of human psychology. We'll dive into how he's used it to garner support in what many thought was an impossible campaign. We'll see Donald Trump can take the nomination for presidency in 2016. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8Dvb One of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date. There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

A 'Trick' That Gives You INSANE Confidence: https://bit.ly/2DxyfvU Elliott Hulse is an extraordinary motivational speaker. He gives advice in such a way that his viewers are inspired not only to listen to the end of his videos, but to change their lives. And on a crowded platform like Youtube, Elliott manages to speak for upwards of 10 minutes, with long pauses while captivating his audience the entire time. Not many speakers are have the confidence to pull that off. We all have moment's in our lives where people come to us for advice. Yet oftentimes, despite our best efforts, that advice goes unheeded. We can change that. By following Elliott Hulse's charismatic techniques and intelligent structure we can learn to "open up" our listener so that they are receptive to the advice we have to give. So check it out and learn how to give advice that actually motivates people to change. Link to confidence tip: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD Link to Elliott Hulse's final video in breakdown: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Xgjb8spwew Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Stay Motivated And Master Your Willpower https://goo.gl/rsuAzZ Everyone gets excited about the idea of self-improvement. But when it comes time to actually put in the work over the long haul, things change. We find excuses. We don't follow through. This video explores how you can stay motivated and on track long after the initial excitement of improvement has passed. It covers a few surprising ways to better manage your own willpower so that you stick to your resolutions and become the person you want to be. When you've mastered your willpower and learned how to stay motivated even through arduous tasks, achieving the goals you've set for yourself becomes much, much easier. Enjoy :-) Inspired by the book Willpower by John Tierney and Roy Baumeister http://amzn.to/1Ocr1Je Join the newsletter to get tips on being more charismatic and confident in the moments that matter most: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to confidence tip: https://goo.gl/DCY7nA Steve Jobs Leadership Skills Breakdown - How To Motivate People When Steve Jobs returned as the CEO of Apple in 1997, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Today, Apple is the most profitable company on the planet, thanks in huge part to Steve Jobs leadership. He was able to motivate employees, turn the company around, and preside over huge developments like the iMac, iPod, iPhone, and iPad. But Steve Jobs is unique in that despite clearly being an effective leader, he was not particularly likeable. Steve Jobs presentation and interview skills were legendary though. In this video we break down exactly what it was that made Steve Jobs such a powerful leader by examining his interviews and speeches. The goal is to use the lessons from his life to learn how to motivate employees and the people in our lives. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EbqMm1 Jennifer Lawrence - Funny, Self-Deprecating Stories Jennifer Lawrence is the most famous actress in the world. Scroll through the comments on any of her interviews and they are filled with people who support her and sing her praises. She is considered extremely funny and grounded. Yet despite her fame, Jennifer Lawrence has never garnered the type of hate that many accomplished people do. And a huge piece of that is in the stories she tells. In her interviews, she makes herself appear vulnerable and down to earth when she reveals embarrassing stories from her past. They might seem like simple anecdotes, but they endear her fans to her. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-) Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTD If just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud!

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTD So I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!! Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover. Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Be More Confident - Conor McGregor Confidence Breakdown Get INSANE Confidence, Instantly! https://bit.ly/2N3xkCC Conor McGregor is one of the most confident athletes of all time. He routinely calls his shot and speaks with a conviction that victory is a total certainty. That's how he earned the nickname "Mystic Mac." Conor McGregor's confidence has led him to one UFC belt and another on the horizon. In this video I am examine some of his thought processes that lead him to have such superhuman confidence and prove that anyone can learn how to be more confident. Use these charismatic tips in your own life to look more confident and feel more confident as well. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/VVVAjE Russell Brand flirting with women is a sight to behold....As men, we're never really taught how to flirt with women. That's a problem. Because many men get caught in the trap of "creep flirting" where they come on too strong. Other's stick to the "goofball guy" and wind up in the friend zone. The style of interaction that Russell Brand and Craig Ferguson demonstrate in this video will actually teach you how to flirt with women. It's not the ONLY way, but it is a great way to show interest without creeping anyone out. So check out Russell Brand's special version of "push pull" and see if it matches your style of flirting. Also, pay close attention to the moments when the women start to fall for Russell. They will teach you a lot about flirting with women. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Talk To People - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown (Part 2) Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2ENXoza Learning how to talk to people is a super important skill, but one we are never taught in school. In fact, sometimes we get so wrapped up trying to make small talk that we lose the opportunity to really connect with someone. Bruce Lee doesn't make that mistake in this interview. This video will show you how to talk to people and how to lead a conversation towards topics that make you more likely to make a lasting connection. There are lots of ways, but this is one that will present itself as soon as the other person starts asking questions. You'll be able to build rapport quickly and potentially walk away with a new friend. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTt How To Influence People (And What Not to Do) Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say. Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7 How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way) This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter. So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So when you want to make somebody laugh, remember: it doesn't take a brilliant joke. It just takes someone who is really into the joke they are telling! (featuring Ellen Degeneres and Julia Roberts) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma Breakdown Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2C People like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport. That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

"How Do I have Fun Without Drinking?" https://goo.gl/0uDf6E It can be tough to have fun when you are learning how to not drink when everyone else is. People will peer pressure you incessantly, implying that you're no fun or a buzzkill. That's why it's good to come up with a plan for having fun despite not having anything to drink. So if you've watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTkX4wfkj1A) and decided to quit drinking, take a look at these tips for having a good time when you're sober and everyone else around you isn't. Obviously there are a million ways how to have fun without drinking, but the big question is, "How do you do it in an environment where everyone else is?" Hopefully these musings help :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the Video on The 4 Emotions to Make An Amazing First Impression: http://bit.ly/2slu28Y As soon as you've decided that you don't want to drink, you can probably expect a million people to start hassling you. This is the hardest part of learning how to not drink: dealing with the peer pressure. The good news is that you can use these tips to tell people you don't want to drink in a way that gets them to stop bothering you AND commands their respect. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6V It seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz. So I know it may seem unrelated, but stopping your habit of drinking is one of the fastest ways to boost your charisma. Plus there's a lot of other benefits of not drinking that you get to enjoy as well, like waking up without a splitting headache :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Barack Obama Charisma Breakdown - How To Influence People https://goo.gl/SaV6sp Barack Obama's most important job is to influence people. As president, there is very little ha can do on his own. So his main job becomes to persuade people to see his views when it comes to political decisions. In the wake of the tragedy at Umpqua Community College in Oregon, Barack Obama demonstrated a 5 step process on how to influence in those situations where you absolutely must convince people to change their behavior. Obama is a powerful, charismatic speaker and this example is great for becoming more influential in the workplace. If you're interested in other videos that cover the topic of influence, but in a more social context, check out Ricky Martin on the Voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqragS38hCk Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

6 Public Speaking Tips To Hook Any Audience Public speaking is hard. We all know it. But if you master a few basic public speaking tips and techniques, you can absolutely hook any audience. https://goo.gl/IpBEnO In this video you'll get the public speaking training to hook an audience n 30 seconds. The public speaking skills to tell stories that have people hanging on every word. And the techniques to nail a finale that moves people to action. Public speaking shakes a lot of people's confidence, but if you use these tips and techniques, you'll be on your way to giving presentations that TED would be proud of :-) You can watch the full speech here: https://youtu.be/Iqq1roF4C8s For the written version: http://www.charismaoncommand.com/oral-presentation-tips/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=videodesc&utm_campaign=blog Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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Public Speaking tips are something we get asked for all the time. I think it's because Public Speaking applies to so many things, whether it's speaking to a group of friends, presenting at work, or speaking from a stage, the skill set is the same. https://goo.gl/LSuAmN There's a TON that goes into being good at public speaking. Some tips include speaking in the present so that people can follow your stories emotions, gesticulating, speaking with emotion, and on and on. But in this video, I cover a little known trick to telling stories that captivate. Because if you can captivate your listener, you will be seen as an amazing speaker. Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nSrMjP Why People Love Will Smith (And Not Jaden) Will Smith is one of the most charismatic men alive. His son, Jaden, is not. In this interview with Graham Norton, we can break down exactly why. It's the difference between being an inclusive competent leader and struggling to keep up. In this interview you'll see how the leadership dynamic plays out in a group. Will Smith very quickly winds up as the de facto leader, while Jaden gets cut off and has trouble getting a word in. The good news is that it isn't impossible to move upwards from the position of being trampled over in conversation. Watch this video and learn how to be a leader in a way that makes people happy to have you around. Book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2nM4cpO How To Smile Perfectly For Men Will Smith has one of the most winning smiles on the planet. How does he do it? And can you learn how to smile better? You can. There are 3 key tips that lead to people finding your smile more attractive and Will Smith demonstrates them all. Two of them are in your direct, immediate control. And the third comes from learning how to smile genuinely so that you activate the muscles under the eye, which signals that you are being real. When you've mastered all three, you'll be able to smile batter and smile perfectly. So whether you want to learn how to smile for pictures or you'd just like to have a good smile in your normal life, practice these tips. They'll make those pearly whites shine even more and help you come across as more genuine. Check out our book: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MX95J48/ Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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